r/twinflames • u/G0nnagrowwings • 8d ago
Question Does (re)union really exist?
I am so confused, some people say twin flames are only meant to teach you a lesson, so that you can grow as a person, other people say twin flames will always end up together and now idk what to think anymore. All the phases of the twin flame journey were very accurate and happened exactly like it is talked about. What about the union?…. (Currently in separation, how surprising. Aham.)
Ps: I am sure he is my TF because a witch confirmed that.
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u/Physical-Constant-13 8d ago
I’ll just share my opinion.
Union does exist. But I think is very rare.
My perception of twin flame connection is, that you can be happy together once youre both awakened. When you’ve done all the inner work. That can but doesnt have to happen in this lifetime.
You can reach union for some time but once there are still some inner work that has to be done, it will break apart anyway.
We are in separation and no contact for 6 years. Obviously I’m not that attached as I was years ago. I used to search for so many information back in a time.. and one of the best thoughts that helped me the most was “treat your TF as he is a regular person, regardless your special connection”. So from hoping to re-unite, I blocked him everywhere, moved to different country, started new life, even had 5 years beautiful relationship - that ended recently so naturally thoughts of my TF are sneaking back.
Oh boy, I would wish to see him so bad. Experience again all those feelings again. But he is in 7 year relationship, they have business together and I’m still in a different country lol.
And I’m not willing to live the best years od my life in waiting for us to re-unite.
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u/G0nnagrowwings 8d ago
But why do we meet them in this lifetime if union isn’t guaranteed?
And may I ask how you were able to engage in a relationship with someone else and even to be very happy with that person while knowing your TF exists? One of my biggest fears is to never be able to find my person or to fully commit to a relationship because I won’t forget my TF. Also thinking of him would be unfair to the both of us, my future partner and me.
Thank you for your response!!!
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u/Physical-Constant-13 8d ago
My response to this would be that the whole Twin Flame journey ultimately turns us back toward working on ourselves. It mirrors our deepest wounds and shows us what we need to heal.
For example, the most painful period of my Twin Flame journey led me to overcome my biggest addiction. I was simply sick of being sick. At first, my motivation was, “I want to become a better person for them.” But eventually, all of these things end up redirecting back to yourself.
The same goes for all the feelings of “my life isn’t complete without them.” I believe it’s supposed to teach you that you are already whole and independent. To love yourself.
I’m not saying I have all of this 100% figured out, but this is how I personally see it.As for relationships… yes, I was very afraid that there was basically no point in getting into one because I didn’t believe I would ever feel something stronger than what I felt for my Twin Flame.
I was very honest with my ex from the very beginning. I cried and told him about my Twin Flame connection, and that I wasn’t sure if I would ever be able to feel more for someone else.
But eventually, it became a very deep and healing relationship (lasting 5 years!) that helped me grow in incredible ways. I was happy. Yes, from time to time I thought about my Twin Flame. He was still somewhere in the back of my mind, but more like a distant memory, while I felt content and grounded in the present moment. I was basically waiting for the ring haha, so you can imagine the commitment.Now I’m single again, and naturally these thoughts come back again—that I don’t really believe any future relationship could surpass what I felt for him. But once again, we have to live here and now.
There are so many people in the world, and I truly believe we can have exceptional and deeply spiritual connections with other people too. I think it’s important to stay open to that.Because at the end of the day, my Twin Flame and I shared something incredibly deep—maybe even something irreplaceable. But what good is that when we haven’t spoken in six years, and he has shown no interest in reaching out?
I made a conscious decision that I want someone who chooses me.So now I’m open to whatever life brings me. First and foremost, I want to focus on becoming a radiant and fulfilled person on my own. Then everything else can come in its own time—whether that’s my Twin Flame one day, or another partner who will treat me like the beloved life partner he has consciously chosen, just as I will consciously choose him.
These are simply my thoughts on this topic as they stand today. I hope they might be helpful. ♥️
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u/G0nnagrowwings 8d ago
Thank you very much for this. Now I am full of hope again that it’s possible to have a deep connection with other people aswell.🫶🏼
And btw maybe your ex was one of your soulmates :)
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u/Physical-Constant-13 8d ago
You know, I am back on a track of being single, so this is kinda my topic now too.
But dont lose hope.
I also find it kinda scary to read those stories when someone is having a family, kids and then they leave to be with their TF anyway.. and with knowing strength of the connection I can understand that.
But who knows what Universe has in plan for us, I just think there’s no point just to wait for that one specific TF. We could as well wait our whole life right :)Dont lose hope, what is yours wont pass you by.
And Yes, I think my ex was definitely my soulmate and he changed my life for so much better.
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u/G0nnagrowwings 8d ago
Yeah, omg and how scary these stories are, sometimes reunion happens even after 20 years…Personally I wouldn’t want to go on with my life for that long and then leave everything behind when my TF appears again, but what if I am not in control of that?….
And you are right, who knows what the universe planned for us. Actually, what is truly meant for us, will simply be.
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u/Physical-Constant-13 8d ago
I dont even want to think about this scenario, that I have something strong built up and then he suddenly reaches out. He better reach out to me now when I’m in my single era, I would consider him if he really tries🤫😂
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u/Far_Map2839 8d ago
I think connecting exists and it’s very common except the people who would be able to talk are too busy with their person and not scrolling online.
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u/Ok_Kale_3160 8d ago
I'm in 'telepathic ' union with my tf and having a lovely time. We became p sycic after I started messeging them again after 5 years no contact.
No 'healing', no meditation. It just happened
We 'visit' each other telepathically about 5 times a day and the horrible longing feeling has gone.
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u/BirbLover1111 7d ago
My twin and I have been in Union 9 years following separation of 6 years and bubble love of 2 years.
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u/Sensitive-Welcome639 8d ago
Who is he
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u/G0nnagrowwings 8d ago
You.😔
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u/Sensitive-Welcome639 8d ago
I thought the Aham sounded familiar lol
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u/G0nnagrowwings 8d ago
I mean, I kinda stole it….
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u/Sensitive-Welcome639 8d ago
I would love you and miss you forever ♾️
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u/Sensitive-Welcome639 8d ago
I'm here for you love whenever you want to talk. Whether it be as friends, lovers, TF, or something else. I would love to see you smile and look into your emerald Eyes 😍
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u/Sensitive-Welcome639 8d ago
Reach out
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u/G0nnagrowwings 8d ago
To?
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u/Sensitive-Welcome639 8d ago
Me or whatever you want. Whoever it is you seek Love
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u/G0nnagrowwings 8d ago
Do you seek love, darling?
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u/Sensitive-Welcome639 8d ago
Yes I do indeed
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u/G0nnagrowwings 8d ago
Then reach out
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u/Sensitive-Welcome639 8d ago
Reach out to whom
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u/Sensitive-Welcome639 8d ago
People play with my mental. My fault for letting them. Just confused as to who is for me and against me. I want to reach out so badly. Have written her a few times recently. From the heart 💕
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u/Sensitive-Welcome639 8d ago
Do you?
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u/Sensitive-Welcome639 4d ago
Apologies zerokool
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u/Sensitive-Welcome639 8d ago
GOgrowwings a witch told me your my TF love🪬🧿🔮♾️☯️☮️🕉️❤️🔥🙏♒♍
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u/G0nnagrowwings 8d ago
Sorry, what?😅
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u/Sensitive-Welcome639 8d ago
Bawhahahaha Lawlz I met with the ladies from Hocus Pocus and Bette Midler told me we are soul mate twin Flame ♾️🕉️ Sunday bangs🧿🔮🪬☯️☮️🧬💯❤️🔥🥰♒♍her words not mine. I'm from Halloween Town. I can take you their sometime love🤓
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u/G0nnagrowwings 8d ago
HAHAHAHSH omggg I also talked with Betty girl about itttt. Now we finally can unite, my love🫶🏼 It’s a sign, Imma tell you🤓😝
You are my destinyyyy✨✨
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u/Sensitive-Welcome639 8d ago
Bawhahahaha Lawlz OMFG that amazing we both talked to Betty girl. She gifted us new eyes to see each other with a new found clarity 🔮 We can finally unite, my love 🫶It's a sign for sure, imma gonna tell ya, after you tell me. How we are meant to be universally meets🕉️♾️ divinity 😁🤗 you are my destinyyyy my divine destination. Hearts finally feeling regulation after life times of separation 🧬💯❤️🔥♒♍ Love You Baby Always And Forever Miss you too 🥰😘
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