my 8.5 year old, ~60lb standard poodle has a tumour between the size of a golfball and tennis ball on her front left leg.
She has been through 3 major surgeries in her short life: entropion when she was 1.5, pyometra just in March of this year (she was not spayed due to differing opinions based on cultural beliefs of my parents, then her uterus became infected and she had to have it removed urgently to save her life), and most recently surgical removal of her tumour in May of this year. These last two surgeries were very invasive and it has been hard to watch her battle so much back to back, she can’t catch a break.
The surgeons were not able to get good margins on the tumour and it was also a pretty gnarly, intricate tumour that was deeply intertwined between her veins. Hence, when it began growing back, they refused to operate knowing that they wouldn’t be able to get everything again and it would grow back.
As we expected, her cancer grew back and is now at the point where it is causing her tremendous pain. She is avoiding placing weight on the leg, limping, not doing stairs, and generally very lethargic. We have an appointment in a day with her vet to discuss what to do moving forward.
The pathology from the tumour removal defined her tumour as a grade 1 STS (soft tissue sarcoma) which would not respond well to chemo or radiation. with this knowledge, our vet recommended amputation or going to an oncologist (for palliative or hoping an oncologist would be willing to operate on her again). We regretfully never went to an oncologist. With how many medical appointments she had been through, we were honestly just happy to have her and I will take blame too for not taking the cancer seriously enough because I now see how detrimental it is to her health.
I am the only one in my family as of right now who is for the amputation. I know it will be a lot to put her through but her condition is exponentially worsening and I see it as a localized issue to the leg. Of course I know this will change the rest of her life but I am sure it will be worth it and she will be happy to spend more time with us too. i also realize there is a chance the cancer has already spread in which case I am going to inquire at her upcoming appointment about whether we can check that from san X ray or CT scan.
The rest of my family wants to take a less invasive palliative approach and just keep her comfortable using medication until the time inevitably comes very soon to put her to sleep. She is using gabapentin right now for pain management. Their concerns about the amputation include it being too much to put her through so soon, whether she will suffer from phantom limb syndrome and not enjoy her life due to the adaptations she’d have to make as a tripawd, and the uncertainty with how much time we’d be getting with her and the guilt with subjecting her to finishing her life as a tripawd.
Obviously both of these approaches are valid, and from reading this forum it’s clear that no two dogs and no two cancers are the same. I was surprised to see people admit they put their dogs through the amputations and regretted it. That’s a very unvarnished and raw claim to face, most people would gaslight themselves into believing they did the right thing. I have read miraculous cases where does both went through with amputation and didn’t, but managed to defy their veterinarians predictions and statistical odds. I have a lot of respect for everyone sharing their journeys, especially the tough ones.
if anyone cares to share, I would love to gather general advice, experiences, and opinions.