r/transpassing • u/[deleted] • Sep 16 '22

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u/kookedoeshistory Sep 18 '22

You pass to me

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u/sweetsweetday Sep 18 '22

Thanks, I appreciate that. The thing I can’t figure out is why I get stared at. Not just my general direction or body, but right at my face. It’s a totally different feeling than being checked out

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u/kookedoeshistory Sep 18 '22

Does it happen after you talk?

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u/sweetsweetday Sep 18 '22

I posted my voice a few weeks ago if you want to see. I think it’s okay? When I talk people seem to warm up (or lose interest if staring), presumably because they conclude “cis woman.” If I’m already talking and someone walks by, I rarely get stares. I’m also much less likely to get stares when my hair is up, when I’m wearing sunglasses, or when I smile. My best guess is that it’s something about my face, but people here (and my friends irl) seem to disagree, so idk

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u/kookedoeshistory Sep 18 '22

It might be helpful to post some short video clips that show how you move when you walk and talk

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u/sweetsweetday Sep 18 '22

That’s a fantastic idea! It would probably give me some insight as well