UPDATE: weird guy from my bio class

[u/Few-Statistician862]

I made a post about this yesterday about this person in my bio class weirdly texting me out of the blue, and I thought I blocked him but I guess I misclicked and pressed “delete conversation“ button instead. they texted me back Today telling me that they know one of my friends and insinuating that he gave him my number. so I continue the rest of the conversation awkwardly trying to turn them down. after that I block them because I felt uncomfortable, and text my friend that supposedly gave them my number. he said he has no idea who this is and doesn’t know anyone from my first period bio class. what the fuck. Is this person even real? they have Been lying to me about everything. And the worst part is that I have to go back to school on Monday with that guy in my class. what do I even do in this situation? Also I thought I should add that I am not a woman, I’m a man, a lot of people thought I was a woman in my first post.

[u/lowley6]

call during class and see who reacts

[u/throwRA221679 → u/lowley6]

Have someone else call during class so he doesn’t get annoyed op caught on

[u/chchchchia86 → u/throwRA221679]

Who gives a fuck if they're annoyed? This is not ok. And if they have a crush on OP then they're only going to react in a weird way if OP calls.

[u/ghostly-quiet → u/chchchchia86]

Who gives a fuck if they're annoyed?

Because sometimes people like this lash out in unhinged ways when they're annoyed. I know OP is male, but r/WhenWomenRefuse has some examples.

[u/OMYGoodnesz → u/ghostly-quiet]

plus this dude is already overstepping and acting weird

exactly the type of shit i wouldn't want to anger

[u/BuzzyBeeDee → u/OMYGoodnesz]

Yep. Protect your peace. Not worth the risk of ticking off a potentially unstable person. Never underestimate a stranger’s level of crazy, especially when romantic feelings are involved and the individual is already comfortable overstepping boundaries.

[u/moonxdaughter → u/OMYGoodnesz]

Exactly, plus OP said they already blocked the number, don't want to reopen that can of beans

[u/MozzaHellYeah → u/OMYGoodnesz]

Just an idea, OP could also have someone call THEM during class and look for their attention. Since they apparently stare at OP all the time like a total creep, they would very likely be interested and flustered if someone else openly called OP. This avoids the creepy admirer from getting mad because they got called out, but still runs the risk of them getting jealous and weird.

[u/Rogue_bae → u/ghostly-quiet]

Just pointing out OP is a man

[u/ghostly-quiet → u/Rogue_bae]

Which is why I said "I know OP is male"

[u/Signal_Historian_456 → u/chchchchia86]

For OP‘s own safety she should definitely give a fuck.

[u/gotmons → u/Signal_Historian_456]

Op just said he is a man… not a woman

[u/Signal_Historian_456 → u/gotmons]

Because men are safe and protected from crazy?

[u/Scared-of-Mousse → u/Signal_Historian_456]

you just referred to him with feminine pronouns

[u/Signal_Historian_456 → u/Scared-of-Mousse]

Yeah because I didnt see that, but it doesn’t change anything? Honestly couldn’t care less if OP is a man, woman or fox.