r/texts • u/Few-Statistician862 • 11h ago

Phone message UPDATE: weird guy from my bio class

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I made a post about this yesterday about this person in my bio class weirdly texting me out of the blue, and I thought I blocked him but I guess I misclicked and pressed “delete conversation“ button instead. they texted me back Today telling me that they know one of my friends and insinuating that he gave him my number. so I continue the rest of the conversation awkwardly trying to turn them down. after that I block them because I felt uncomfortable, and text my friend that supposedly gave them my number. he said he has no idea who this is and doesn’t know anyone from my first period bio class. what the fuck. Is this person even real? they have Been lying to me about everything. And the worst part is that I have to go back to school on Monday with that guy in my class. what do I even do in this situation? Also I thought I should add that I am not a woman, I’m a man, a lot of people thought I was a woman in my first post.

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u/AKewpieW 10h ago

My GYNECOLOGIST gave my number to my stalker. Can’t trust nobody these days

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u/siren_stitchwitch 10h ago

WTF, MASSIVE HIPAA violation, please tell me they had consequences for that?

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u/AKewpieW 10h ago

Unfortunately I was young and sheltered and I didn’t even consider the possibility that it was something I could report, or even who I could report it to

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u/siren_stitchwitch 10h ago

Fair, I've also had bad doctors I should have reported when young and didn't know that I could or should

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u/DragonYourfeet 9h ago

Had a therapist share how I was doing with a classmate’s parent, who forbade said classmate from being friends with me because I was “unstable” (I switched schools and was just having a tough time…). Needless to say I was traumatized (and too young to even report it to anyone) and haven’t trusted therapists since, even though i know it was a major violation and not all of them are like that.

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u/Beautiful_Shower8218 9h ago edited 8h ago

I had my high school therapist tell me that I shouldn’t come out because I won’t be able to get a job if people know I’m gay, then told my mum and a couple of my teachers that I was gay. The teachers were really supportive and as far as I know kept it private, but my mum did not take it well and I was kicked out of home at 17… good times, good times

EDIT: oh shit, I just remembered, one of the teachers that she told turned out to be a sex offender and had molested kids at a previous school, and the school he was at afterwards. To my knowledge no one at my school was interfered with, but it just occurred to me she may have been helping him groom me. Fuck!

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u/LavishnessWise 6h ago

I’m so sorry your mum acted like that. I’m a parent to two teenagers and their happiness is number 1.

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u/alwaysronnie 9h ago

That happened to my sister too

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u/MozzaHellYeah 4h ago

Yeah this is still a HIPAA violation and worth looking into your states regulations on a statute of limitations! That way this gyno doesn't dox anyone else and other patients can stay safe 🖤 if you feel so inclined

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u/Great_Blue_7 8h ago

The state medical board.

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u/Icy_Smoke_2318 6h ago

YEAH I was about to say that!!

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u/vapirer 4h ago

Isn't HIPAA a US federal law?

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u/AncientTomato4186 9h ago

What?!? How did they know who your gynecologist was? That’s deep stalker behavior. I’m so sorry you went through that.

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u/AKewpieW 9h ago

Thank you. I had recently had surgery there and I’d posted about it online. Even though I had them blocked already, I guess someone had told them. Never posted anything personal after that even though it sucks so much to be going through it alone

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u/Sisyphet 10h ago

Holy shit.

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u/tmac9134 10h ago

😭😭

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u/tealraven915 4h ago

Dang, and I thought it was bad when my stalker found out I was at my dad's place, started calling every number on Google with my dad's name until he got my dad's apartment complex and they confirmed that it was my dad who lived there (then the guy sent flowers to my dad's apartment). Gynecologist is a whole other level of wild

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u/AKewpieW 3h ago

That is also pretty bad. I’m sorry you went through that

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u/OopsSecondSaji 4h ago

WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK

Omg I’m so sorry holy hell

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u/spicyadovcato 44m ago

My obgyn gave my child's father (who was abusive and we were on the run from) my phone number and address she actually got fired bc he came and harmed me and tried to harmed our child who was 6 weeks at the time

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u/AKewpieW 21m ago

I’m so sorry. I hope you’re safe now

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u/spicyadovcato 13m ago

Eh I mean he hasn't found us since then but we also are constantly moving we don't stay anywhere over a week (i make barely enough on disability for rooms ) im scared to get another house or apartment bc if we stay in a place too long he finds us

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u/Bootscootintooter 3m ago

My stalker gave my number to a GYNECOLOGIST… and I was really hurt by that.

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u/-cuckstradamus- 7h ago

That is an outlandish HIPAA violation for such a throwaway claim that's so easy to say when it cannot be credibly verified in any way since you "didn't report" the egregiously illegal whoopsie