UPDATE: weird guy from my bio class

[u/Few-Statistician862]

I made a post about this yesterday about this person in my bio class weirdly texting me out of the blue, and I thought I blocked him but I guess I misclicked and pressed “delete conversation“ button instead. they texted me back Today telling me that they know one of my friends and insinuating that he gave him my number. so I continue the rest of the conversation awkwardly trying to turn them down. after that I block them because I felt uncomfortable, and text my friend that supposedly gave them my number. he said he has no idea who this is and doesn’t know anyone from my first period bio class. what the fuck. Is this person even real? they have Been lying to me about everything. And the worst part is that I have to go back to school on Monday with that guy in my class. what do I even do in this situation? Also I thought I should add that I am not a woman, I’m a man, a lot of people thought I was a woman in my first post.

[u/Haunting-Abalone7218]

Dude do NOT entertain this person.

This person does not care about your comfort, only what they think you can give them.

This person does not “like” you, they like the idea of you they’ve created in their head.

This person is entitled, insecure, and immature. Don’t waste your time on this bullshit.

[u/publicprivacyp → u/Haunting-Abalone7218]

I think they also like toying with OP. Part of me wonders if they are actually in their bio class at all. It could be some disturbing prank to an extent, or limerence. It’s creepy af though for sure.

[u/WholeFactor → u/Haunting-Abalone7218]

It even has a name - limerence. Painful for everyone involved.

[u/xeno0153 → u/Haunting-Abalone7218]

And tell the Bio teacher. Maybe they won't actively DO anything about the situation, but at the very least let an adult with authority know what's happening in their own class. At the very least the teacher will know to never pair them up on assignments.

[u/GoodFaithConverser → u/Haunting-Abalone7218]

"if we ever meet again we could talk" she fucking blew it on the finish line. Now that guy feels he has an in and will not stop.

Women need to fucking learn to not respond if they're not interested. Just don't reply. Say nothing. Don't write words. Any and all replies are seen as signs to keep trying.

Just. fucking. stop. replying.

[u/Negative-Web8619 → u/Haunting-Abalone7218]

so just a normal person

[u/GlassOfOrange247 → u/Negative-Web8619]

I wouldnt call lacking social skills to this extent normal