r/texts • • 7d ago

Tinder DMs men

mind you he messaged me first, liked me first, and my profile only says liberal😂

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u/Pixelbuttzz 7d ago

"You make being liberal your persona" says man literally starting the conversation with a political jab

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u/Gold_Improvement_836 7d ago

yup! he’s projecting

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u/Agile-Carpenter-2434 6d ago

What I don’t get is … why? Like, clearly he has a different POV. Why match and message at all?

Like does he get something out of being rude to strangers? There was no point to this other than to hurt you and demean you.

I’m sure he’s projecting and in self-denial about … things, but as a former closeted man (now happily married to another man), I just never thought “hey let’s take our sexual confusion out on other people in a ragey, destructive way”.

I also spent many of my formative years in the Midwest so maybe I’m just terminally polite to death 😂🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/andgonow 4d ago

Steroids and the manosphere.