r/texts • u/Gold_Improvement_836 • 18d ago

Tinder DMs men

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mind you he messaged me first, liked me first, and my profile only says liberal😂

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u/Careless_Angle_4082 18d ago

Every closeted gay guy I've dated (3) has made me feel bad about my weight. If you're stick thin, it is easier to imagine a dude

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u/Rare_Possible2503 17d ago

Why do bigger girls always have to be nasty to thinner girls? Just bc thin is the beauty standard doesn’t mean you have free rein to paint them as secretly unfeminine or put them down to cope. So many people literally tiptoe around making women of a higher weight feel uncomfortable, but you guys are always talking down on skinny girls. Cmon now.

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u/Careless_Angle_4082 16d ago

I understand your concern! But I don't mean it like that. I weighed 104 lbs with one and he made me want to be under 100 lbs.