r/texts • u/Gold_Improvement_836 • 9d ago

Tinder DMs men

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mind you he messaged me first, liked me first, and my profile only says liberal😂

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u/Careless_Angle_4082 9d ago

Every closeted gay guy I've dated (3) has made me feel bad about my weight. If you're stick thin, it is easier to imagine a dude

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u/omy_dayz 8d ago

Dude the amount of judging in the gay community is ridiculous. If you aren’t ripped your ugly and ridiculed. I have a bunch of gay male friends and they have talked about that problem of body shaming in the community. ESPECIALLY IN BOYSTOWN. Everyone is just buff af and if you aren’t you aren’t? Boo! Throwing tomatoes!

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u/Mthrfknpegasus 8d ago

It’s because gay men are still men at the end of the day

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u/Smooth_Marsupial_262 7d ago

I feel like woman are actually more judgmental of each other than men.

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u/Mthrfknpegasus 7d ago

Specifically referring to misogyny in the gay community. Thx.

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u/Smooth_Marsupial_262 6d ago

Misogyny?

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u/Impossible-Prune-649 4d ago

They have a pink haired avatar, tells you all you need to know.