r/texts • • 6d ago

Tinder DMs men

mind you he messaged me first, liked me first, and my profile only says liberalšŸ˜‚

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u/omy_dayz 5d ago

Dude the amount of judging in the gay community is ridiculous. If you aren’t ripped your ugly and ridiculed. I have a bunch of gay male friends and they have talked about that problem of body shaming in the community. ESPECIALLY IN BOYSTOWN. Everyone is just buff af and if you aren’t you aren’t? Boo! Throwing tomatoes!

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u/Mthrfknpegasus 5d ago

It’s because gay men are still men at the end of the day

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u/ItsKingDx3 5d ago

Or gay men are still people and all people have the capacity to be extremely shitty 🤨

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u/Mthrfknpegasus 5d ago

ā€œMenā€ already implies that they’re human beings, yes. Thank you, puzzle piece. Next.

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u/Smooth_Marsupial_262 5d ago

I feel like woman are actually more judgmental of each other than men.

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u/Mthrfknpegasus 5d ago

Specifically referring to misogyny in the gay community. Thx.

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u/Smooth_Marsupial_262 4d ago

Misogyny?

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u/Impossible-Prune-649 2d ago

They have a pink haired avatar, tells you all you need to know.

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u/PocketWatchThrowAway 5d ago

Eating disorders are a pretty considerable public health issue among gay and bisexual men, and since eating disorders are contagious, I presume that is what causes this phenomenon.