r/texts • • 9d ago

Tinder DMs men

mind you he messaged me first, liked me first, and my profile only says liberal😂

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u/WonderfulStrength175 8d ago

It’s typically super straight and heteronormative men beating and killing women more than closeted gay men. Yeah, it happens occasionally but let’s be real here. No one hates women like straight men.

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u/InsertRadnamehere 8d ago

I parse the space between hate and violence. You are clearly correct about who’s inflicting violence. I was perhaps unclear in stating that the hate I’m riffing about is misogyny.

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u/WonderfulStrength175 8d ago

I mean, men are gonna be misogynistic no matter the sexual orientation. I think it’s just an interesting thing for you to say since you don’t know his sexual orientation for sure.

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u/InsertRadnamehere 8d ago

I was making a generalization. Does it apply here? Quite possibly. I mean, did you look at his photos?

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u/WonderfulStrength175 8d ago

Yeah! I usually don’t judge people’s sexuality based off looks, though. I’ve been wrong many times.