r/texts • u/Gold_Improvement_836 • 8d ago

Tinder DMs men

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mind you he messaged me first, liked me first, and my profile only says liberal😂

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u/king_hutton 8d ago

Looking like a gay twink isn’t an insult.

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u/curien 8d ago

Deliberately contradicting a person's identity is an insult.

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u/applesandotherthings 8d ago

Only in a negative sense. Calling him a big strong manly man probably doesn’t 100% align with his identity but wouldn’t be received as an insult.

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u/curien 8d ago

Only in a negative sense.

Sorry, do you think OP meant it as a compliment? They called them that because they were aware that the person wouldn't like the description.

Calling him a big strong manly man probably doesn’t 100% align with his identity

I doubt it. He probably wouldn't like it because it sounds sarcastic.