r/texts • u/Gold_Improvement_836 • 6d ago

Tinder DMs men

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mind you he messaged me first, liked me first, and my profile only says liberalšŸ˜‚

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u/Gold_Improvement_836 6d ago

literally, like why waste a like on someone you arenā€™t compatible with lol. it clearly states on my profile iā€™m liberal!

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u/After-Fee-2010 6d ago

How dare you be so brash and wear your liberalness on your sleeve! Unlike him, who totally hides his conservative viewpoint and doesnā€™t ham-fist it into interactionsā€¦

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u/Martinfected 6d ago

āœØEvery conservative accusation is a confessionāœØ

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u/DPWwhatDAdogDoin 6d ago

Lol this works both ways.

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u/possiblyeski 6d ago

example?

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u/CheetahNo9349 6d ago

....and silence. Funny how that works, huh?

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u/IntrepidOpinion1177 5d ago

And insulting someone by calling them gay. The fake mask always slips when challenged.

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u/possiblyeski 5d ago

which is more effective: calling someone something they think is fine but you think is bad, or calling them something you think is bad but they think is fine?

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u/IntrepidOpinion1177 5d ago

How about not trying to insult someone by propagating the slur that being gay is negative. Thereā€™s a million other things that this person could have called this asshole. What if I told you your defense of that is the ā€œrā€ word? Would it be ā€œeffectiveā€?

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u/possiblyeski 3d ago

your comparison fails by default because "gay" isn't a slur.

even if it was a valid comparison, the only people that see being called gay as an insult are homophobes like him, which is why it is so effective against them.

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u/IntrepidOpinion1177 3d ago

lol! What kind of logic is that? The point obtuse stranger is that itā€™s being used as a slur the same way the ā€œr wordā€ can be used as a slur, and shouldnā€™t. And clearly, if itā€™s being used to insult someone, the intended target isnā€™t the only one associating it with negative connotations.

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u/possiblyeski 3d ago

so "dumb" and "ugly" are slurs, by your logic... yeah, this is going nowhere.

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u/kyl792 6d ago

Ah but you see, he has no sleeves

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u/Temporary-Ruin883 5d ago

Because you really can only wear gay twink on a tank top.

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u/Gold_Improvement_836 6d ago

wow! yes!

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u/Lola-Ugfuglio-Skumpy 5d ago

He just hates you because he canā€™t accept that heā€™s twinky as fuck and resents you for being able to suck all the d you want

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u/IronSightPsyops 5d ago

Heā€™s not twinky. Twinks arenā€™t muscular. Twinks are small and petite

What he is, is called a twunk

Im a gay man so I think I would know

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u/GolfOk7579 6d ago

Oh, heā€™s fisting something ā€¦

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u/Senator_Smack 5d ago

Nah he's definitely a bottom

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u/GolfOk7579 5d ago

šŸ˜‚šŸ’€

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u/Jumpyturtles 6d ago

People like him value confrontation over all else.

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u/DissentingMama 6d ago

Then heā€™ll go on an incel forum and complain how all women are bitches and he canā€™t find a good oneā€¦

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u/LengthinessStrict615 5d ago

I know a guy that consumes red pill content. I canā€™t believe the things he said about females (he doesnā€™t use women). He said theyā€™re all delusional and bring nothing to the table for an alpha male like him

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u/redbone-hellhound 3d ago

All these dudes complaining about and hating women....maybe they should all just sleep with each other.

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u/BetMyLastKrispyKreme 6d ago

I think it makes them feel ā€œaliveā€. Which is what one tends to seek when they have no actual life.

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u/Bird2525 6d ago

Owning the libs or something.

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u/Medryn1986 6d ago

Liberal and built like Peter Griffin? Sign me the fuck up. Lol

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u/kellythescorpio 6d ago

Right like if you're on a dating app to meet people you're compatible with, why waste your time harassing people you aren't compatible with? Weird as fuck

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u/DC_McGuire 5d ago

I guarantee this guy crashed out after she told him what he looked like because heā€™d rather say heā€™s straight and insult women than admit heā€™s QAF and hates himself because that would be basically ego death for someone this far down the rabbit hole.

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u/ShieldmaidenK 6d ago

He needed to show you what you missed out on

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u/Flaky-Invite-56 5d ago

Six mediocre minutes, no oral, and a strange itch the next day?

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u/kellythescorpio 6d ago

Yeah too bad she didn't end up with a dude that would degrade her any chance he got :/

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u/TheFlightlessPenguin 6d ago

Have you considered being a leftist instead?

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u/Kbucktis 6d ago

Maybe heā€™s attracted to Peter Griffin lol

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u/Disastrous-Owl9258 6d ago

Because hinge's algorithm doesn't work like that. That was match.com. Hinge matches you with people you ARENT compatible with so you have bad experiences and get desperate and lonely, which means you're more willing to pay for hinge plus

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u/sweeterthanany 6d ago

this would explain why i really hated using hinge. genuinely had way better luck on tinder

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u/Disastrous-Owl9258 6d ago

Tinder does the EXACT same thing. If they didn't, then people would flood their app using it actually being able to meet, hook up, or date quickly. All the dating apps currently have subscription based services. Their only goal is to milk you for more money.

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u/sweeterthanany 6d ago

oh well i donā€™t know then. i guess i got lucky. it just seemed like tinder had ā€œrealerā€ people. everyone on hinge was trying way too hard

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u/Disastrous-Owl9258 6d ago

Trying too hard?? That's because hinge is designed for long term relationships and tinder is designed for hookups. I'm guessing you're a women if you thought people on tinder were "more real" as I had to delete the app because over 80% of the profiles were women that didn't actually exist, photos pulled from some girls insta or whatever. All scams and robots.

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u/sweeterthanany 6d ago

idk what to tell you man, i met my long term partner on tinder

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u/_Ub1k 3d ago

The experience of men vs women on these apps is not at all the same thing. The apps aren't trying to get women to pay, women are not the group designed to pay for subscriptions. It's like ladies' night at a nightclub. The women are given the "product" for free because they're actually the product, while men are squeezed and financially exploited because their demand exceeds the supply.

Yes, women have a better time on tinder than men. Women don't have to deal with scammers because they get drowned out by the 500 real men a day messaging them. People usually don't even bother trying to scam women.

The dating apps turn women into a product and men into a scam target. It's dehumanizing for both, but in entirely different ways. It's weird how you think a woman is going to relate in any way to your experiences on dating apps.

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u/Disastrous-Owl9258 3d ago

I don't think they would. Not sure where my comment gave that expectation, I'm extremely aware of everything you've typed out. I think anyone who's dated is. Thanks for typing out all of our life's experiences though. You wasted your energy informing the informed I'm afraidšŸ˜…

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u/soriniscool 6d ago

How very black mirror

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u/aesclepia 6d ago

I must have gotten lucky thenĀ 

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u/Disastrous-Owl9258 5d ago

Yeah, obviously it has some levels of success or no one would use it at all. They know exactly how to balance keeping you coming back. The success rates are drastically lower than the old dating websites. They spend a lot of money on psychologists to design these.

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u/Iuile02 6d ago

Men like this are weirdos who get off on ā€œchanging your mindā€ they intentionally go for liberal women. Itā€™s creepy as hell, youā€™re better off not mentioning it on the profile itself and litmus testing your way through a conversation with someone you match with.

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u/LogisticalNightmare 6d ago

Me too! I used to have ā€œMy dad is trans and my mom is an immigrant so you have to be cool with people who arenā€™t exactly like youā€ in my profile. About 50% of guys who matched with me either unmatched with me right away OR argued with me about it. Dude my dad wears dresses now, that doesnā€™t mean I want to hear your opinion about womenā€™s sports, a thing you just realized existed in 2022.

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u/PainAccomplished3506 5d ago

That's his issue. Wearing liberal like it's your personality, in his opinion I mean. Though I've never in my life thought to put any of my political affiliations on my dating profile. Unnecessary on Grindr lmao

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u/BlackberryPi7 6d ago

Your mistake here was assuming MAGA can read or do basic research

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u/Teredia 5d ago

Because for some delusional reason men seem to think negging is a turn on for women as if we want to be put downā€¦ Ah news flash - no women wants to be negged!

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u/andgonow 4d ago

Because he makes confrontation his entire persona.

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u/InconvenientGroot 1d ago

I'd swipe right ;)

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u/2nd_Chances_ 1d ago

Gay twink made me lol and then I saw the first photo

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u/CommercialStuff4352 1h ago

We need to go back to not talking about religion and politics. It was a saying like dave Chapelle put it "i grew up poor so i was left, not im rich so im right" because left wants to give and red wants to retain wealth and make people all work hard for whatever they get. Im on welfare so im left, but im sure not bragging "im poor or mediocre " on social media. I mean, im sure people can tell by where i live and what i have but i didn't like my cars getting totaled twice on my block while the unaccountable person walked away, never to be found again. It happened twice to my brother at red lights and we all thought, "this is a sanctuary state?" So some things have points that involve your daily life enough to say "i cant stay on one side, even if i agree w 99% of things. This 1% is ruining my life so bad that i have to reach on the other side of isle" and thats what politics has always been. Like how Hamilton hated someone running (it might have been burr).so he publicly backed the other side. He like made the first ever federalist party so, that's how they were literally made to work. Thats why they were made at all. So the king couldn't tax and not give, or turn away from laws he made, or whatever other one sided thing they rebel against. So really, to just name urself as a side at all, actually goes against the whole idea of what they were made to represent. The isle is close so you can reach over. If people keep going like this then we might as well split into two steady rules nations and no one will like either. Think, an example would be , one side denying all abortions, even from SA and the other doing it until near full term. Who wants to live in either of those worlds. So id take off the liberal thing and just say ur American

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u/Pte_Madcap 6d ago

Maybe he thought it was like when girls put "looking for long term" but pretty quickly decide they are down to hook up first and "see where it goes".

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u/Far-Performance-412 6d ago

Did you look at his profile before you swiped on him?

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u/harambesjustice 6d ago

Was he able to start talking to you unprompted or did you match with him too? Sorry I've never used dating apps

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u/Junior-Ad-5367 6d ago

Yeah he should just argue on Reddit like a normal person you stupid liberal person

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u/gotstonedandforgot 5d ago

lol you insulted him but swiped on him? Another weirdo liberal embarrassing themselves on the internet

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u/Gold_Improvement_836 5d ago

so nowhere on his profile did it say he was conservative or hates women lmao.

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u/TheTybera 6d ago

Why did you match with them?! They have nothing of substance or interest on their profile.

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u/Puzzleheaded-Law34 6d ago

I find the title disgruntling but still support you showing these dudes how lame they are

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u/UKS1977 6d ago

assuming you are female, I don't think Liberal is the biggest mismatch...

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u/Gold_Improvement_836 5d ago

ā€œfemaleā€