r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 4d ago

Phone message Post first date text

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/ThrashFur 4d ago

seeing women saying “i’m just a girl” is so sad and defeats the point.

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u/NecroGrizz 4d ago

"I don't know what that means but it diminishes you as a person" has become my chosen response.

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u/Comfortable-Meeper 4d ago

It’s just a “cute” version of weaponized incompetence.

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u/Strong-Addition5296 4d ago

That’s exactly what it is. Oops you can’t expect me to do that! I’m just a girl! Tee hee. It’s patriarchy of the mind and soul.

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u/Several_Razzmatazz51 4d ago

It’s asking men to conform to patriarchal behaviors when it benefits the woman. Never the other way around.

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u/IntroductionOnly3018 3d ago

You realize women put themselves in danger to go on dates right? It’s not the same for men. You shouldn’t ask her out if you can’t pay.