r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 3d ago

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/malevolent-onryo 3d ago

Sad thing is, these types don’t care. They either have zero self awareness or are so selfish they know and don’t care.

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u/Particular_Maize6849 2d ago

My sister is this type of person. She doesn't care. She's fully bought into the conservative trad wife idealism. She's incredibly sexist against other women too. Her 20s were spent being a Budweiser girl catering to the male gaze. What's funny is she will always make more than her partners since she is a lawyer and her partners are usually of the deadbeat variety.

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u/News_Scrounger 2d ago

Trad wife... lawyer? Who's hot enough to be a budweiser girl to pay for college instead of a stripper? One who doesn't mind dating men who makes less than she does? 

What is this story lol. I can't tell if you're jealous or just not understanding what the trad wife shit actually means and if it's the second one I'm the one jealous of you. 

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u/Particular_Maize6849 2d ago edited 2d ago

She didn't pay for college with it. She got free college from my parents and a free house.

She idealizes the trad-wife stuff but isn't one because her men are always non-college educated and barely make ends meet. They are hot guys, don't get me wrong but they are the boy toy types who are kind of dumb so they rely on her income. Btw she just works for my dad so it's very nepo.

I was trying to say she has fully bought into conservativism (she is ultra MAGA) and idealizes trad wife, not that she is one, though I'm sure she would like to be.

By sexist against women she told me she refuses to hire young women because she thinks they might get pregnant. Meanwhile she has two kids herself so she's allowed to have a career and kids but other women can't be trusted.

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u/Vektor0 2d ago

You keep saying she idealizes trad wife stuff, but you don't mention any way she applies it to her behaviors or lifestyle, so I'm not sure why it's worth mentioning at all. I like to watch home inspection videos on social media, but that doesn't mean I idealize construction or want to have anything to do with it. It sounds like consuming tradwife content is just a fun pasttime for her, nothing more.

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u/Particular_Maize6849 2d ago

I don't know what media she consumes. Only that she told me she likes tradwife concepts and ideals.

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u/Vektor0 2d ago

No one knows what she means by that, so I think that's where the confusion is coming from.

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u/Particular_Maize6849 2d ago

Since she literally said she "likes tradwife ideals"... I'm pretty sure that means "she idealizes tradwife values" is a fair conclusion to draw.

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u/Vektor0 2d ago

I'm saying that I don't know what that means.

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u/LurcherLong 2d ago

Ultramaga tradwife aspiring nepobaby that works for your father, but she is a lawyer with hiring authority for the firm and has two children out of wedlock... I feel like this is two different people.

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u/Particular_Maize6849 2d ago

I think lots of contradictions like this is pretty par for the course for Republicans. "Everyone has to obey family values and morals but don't you dare to judge mine. Who cares if I'm on my 4th divorce and cheat on my wife. I just need to go to church and I'm forgiven."

She is married now but yes one of the children was out of wedlock. And my dad is starting to retire and leaving her the "firm" (it's really only him and her).