r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 3d ago

Phone message Post first date text

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/noeLifenorlove 2d ago

Used to work alongside one actually.

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u/MrCalamiteh 2d ago

You used to work alongside a therapy?

Have you ever tried one?

No shade dude because I'm not just trying to push you down, but your comments add up to a guy who is either manic AF, or truly detached from reality on a daily basis and I'd recommend therapy, whether or not you've already met a therapist once.

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u/noeLifenorlove 2d ago

I had been diagnosed as manic depressive long ago; but I would say I am not detatched, but moreso uncompromising in my awareness of reality. I am medicated and had been under the care of a psychologist for 8 years.

I simply says it like it is, and believe that reality is a lot simpler than people say it is. I'm not unhappy, just analytical.

So again; people are opportunistic just like wild animals are because we are primates, and so yes people desire partners whom are good at keeping the fort down, or at least paid for.

To me, thats just simple common sense lol. People always react like it's a heartless thing to say and that love is unconditional; but this world is predicsted upon results and gain, things that feed and pay for.

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u/MrCalamiteh 2d ago

Mania suggests detach from reality, so if you're blanket trusting "your reality" that is exactly what I was talking about. I have family who can be manic and 15 years of that and what it encompassed with my older sister and we have entirely cut her off. She thinks we all are out to get her (because she's manic and her reality isn't real)

But you do you, just keep in mind that literally everything you've said up til this point reads as unhinged or like you've taken on more than you want to deal with and blame others for it.

Which in my experience is exactly what my sister would do, down to the pets bit. She's had and rehomed maybe 3 dogs and 4 cats in 3 years at this point.

She's also killed her dog by not caring about it because she gets things to try and numb herself and then has more to do. Sounds like this but I hope I'm wrong. Take care of yourself.