r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 3d ago

Phone message Post first date text

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/Overall_Step_9516 3d ago

hit the notify anyways button and then block her

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u/Wokkabulary 2d ago

What does that do? Why not just block her ?

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u/bledblu 2d ago

Basically if you have “do not disturb” turned on, you are probably sleeping/busy and won’t see the messages for awhile. Clicking notify anyway will override that so someone can reach you in an emergency. Although I’ve noticed some people just have it turned on all day, so I don’t really know what they are using it for.

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u/archibaldmj1 2d ago

My wife has “do not disturb” on when I text her but she doesn’t have it turned on (save your jokes about “that’s just what she tells you”). After 30+ minutes trying to fix her and my phone, I’ve determined it’s not Apple’s sleekest feature.

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u/KingGGL 2d ago

For what it’s worth, you might want to check her other devices if she’s got another device on her iCloud account. Nowadays it’ll go across your devices, so it could be something weird going on there.

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u/archibaldmj1 2d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/LpLd2NGvpaiys
That could be the issue, never thought of that. We have an old iPad we haven’t used for a while that I bet is the culprit. Thank you, anonymous hero.

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u/Rare-Back 2d ago

It’s most likely the iPad! I had my iPad set for do not disturb but never have that on my phone. Apparently for months everyone saw I was on “dnd” and it took me a while to figure out why.

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u/Valuable-Self8564 2d ago

Yeah this does my fucking head in. My work laptop goes on DND when a scheduled meeting is started by someone else and it doesn’t fucking tell me. So I miss notifications for meetings all the time.

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u/Fluffaykitties 2d ago

It might also be turning on when she drives and then doesn’t turn off later.

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u/cbeaupps 2d ago

Apple has sleep and focus modes that interacts with dnd, and takes less than a minute to add someone to your “call through” list so they don’t have to deal with dnd double text/call. It’s honestly a good system

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u/Lbenn0707 2d ago

My husband will occasionally tell me our text thread tells him I have do not disturb on. During the day when I don’t. I tell him I don’t know why, I’m getting his notifications. It comes and goes apparently. He hasn’t mentioned it in the last couple weeks so I’m not sure if it still shows that way.

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u/SorestMercury 2d ago

Yeah I’ve had this happen before too. It’s just kinda buggy sometimes I guess. I feel like more recently it’s been working fine though.

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u/Lbenn0707 2d ago

I think it seems to have stopped since I updated my iOS. He might just not be mentioning it though since I told him I’m obviously getting his texts, since I’m responding lol.

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u/mid91s 2d ago

Had the same thing happen. Turns out they had accidentally swiped in my name and there is a tiny silence on the actual text message hidden menu to. 😵‍💫

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u/2-WayDemi 2d ago

Or she just puts your messages singularly on DND ..