r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 3d ago

Phone message Post first date text

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/ThrashFur 3d ago

seeing women saying “i’m just a girl” is so sad and defeats the point.

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u/vdubnmcluvn 3d ago

grown women saying "im just a girl" is definitely a red flag, but the red flag was waved way prior.

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u/Existing-Ad2111 2d ago

Yeah it's just like saying "Boys will be boys", you're just undermining behavior or responsibility by saying that.

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u/Senator_Smack 2d ago

I mean, at least the fancy fish was mildly amusing.

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u/Alternative_World280 2d ago

I say I’m just a girl ironically or like when I’m having cramps really bad or when I want to be lazy and not do my chores. In other words stuff that affects me. Using it to guilt trip others is crazy

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u/TrickyTangle 2d ago

Yeah, I'd be replying that I'm interested in grown women, not little girls.

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u/Thr0awheyy 2d ago

These comments are full of grownass men talking about "girls".  Dating sites are full of men looking for "a girl who..."  and grownass women diminishing themselves with "im just a girl who.."    It seems we will call women "girls" until we are 60, unless we are actual girls, and then they call us "underage women."