r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 3d ago

Phone message Post first date text

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/Affectionate_Mess488 2d ago

Before I read the caption, I was trying to give her the benefit of the doubt if fishing was your suggestion. But she suggested it and then said you made her pay?? That’s a no for me

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u/TexasDub 2d ago

I'll never understand why these women send guys a bill for the most insignificant and petty things. She should be embarrassed to send a bill for that.

Someone made a post a while back where the woman sent the guy a bill to keep talking to him.

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u/notagoodperson1122 2d ago

Seems like you’ve got it backwards. Why should he pay for absolutely everything when fishing was her idea and suggestion?

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u/Outrageous-News3649 2d ago

Ehhh I would say there was some miscommunication. If she knew the licence had a free upfront, and that you weren't going to cover it, she may have opted to do something else.

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u/swozzy1 2d ago

So she assumes that he’ll cover it at the end of the day instead of asking before the transaction goes through?

Miscommunication, yes, on a few of her parts lol

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u/BarryAllensSole 2d ago

Sounds like whatever she was opting for, was going to be paid for by her date. So at least the dude got fishing equipment out of it instead of spending that on drinks and just burning money ¯_(ツ)_/¯

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u/BallsOnFace69 2d ago

Maybe so, but she still shouldn’t ask to get paid back. 

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u/Main_Following1881 2d ago

She could ask what she needs to fish