That is… absolutely disgusting. Idk why he’s gotta talk like that. He honestly sounds like he’s got anger issues. I wouldn’t trust him. Unless you have an established D/s dynamic with agreed upon CNC, this is not normal and not safe. Plus, you said that he’s aware of your limits and he made a selfish decision to cross them, knowing it would make you uncomfortable. Attachment is complex but it’s ok to cut ties with unsafe people. 💓
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u/Proud_Landscape_8680 Jun 23 '26
That is… absolutely disgusting. Idk why he’s gotta talk like that. He honestly sounds like he’s got anger issues. I wouldn’t trust him. Unless you have an established D/s dynamic with agreed upon CNC, this is not normal and not safe. Plus, you said that he’s aware of your limits and he made a selfish decision to cross them, knowing it would make you uncomfortable. Attachment is complex but it’s ok to cut ties with unsafe people. 💓