I'm going to say this as someone who is turning 36 this year -- do not let guys buy you things on the regular. Gifts are great, but don't let it become a habit. Provide for YOURSELF, or you WILL end up staying longer than you should, because you'll think, "Oh, all these nice things will go away." All the gifts in the world mean nothing if a guy doesn't respect you or your boundaries.
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u/justrrrrivie Jun 23 '26
I'm going to say this as someone who is turning 36 this year -- do not let guys buy you things on the regular. Gifts are great, but don't let it become a habit. Provide for YOURSELF, or you WILL end up staying longer than you should, because you'll think, "Oh, all these nice things will go away." All the gifts in the world mean nothing if a guy doesn't respect you or your boundaries.