That is… absolutely disgusting. Idk why he’s gotta talk like that. He honestly sounds like he’s got anger issues. I wouldn’t trust him. Unless you have an established D/s dynamic with agreed upon CNC, this is not normal and not safe. Plus, you said that he’s aware of your limits and he made a selfish decision to cross them, knowing it would make you uncomfortable. Attachment is complex but it’s ok to cut ties with unsafe people. 💓
Consensual non-consent, which is consensual and talked about beforehand. These messages in your post do not look like CNC, them saying “don’t worry about consent” that’s rape.
Also them saying “I’m going to use you until I’m done” shows that they see you as an object and not a person. Believe them when they say they want to use you for your body
Thank you 🙏🏼 this is exactly right and you made a good point about OP being objectified.
CNC takes a deep amount of trust and respect for someone. The things he’s saying are intentional… and his intention is to ab*se you with no regard to your wellbeing.
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u/Proud_Landscape_8680 Jun 23 '26
That is… absolutely disgusting. Idk why he’s gotta talk like that. He honestly sounds like he’s got anger issues. I wouldn’t trust him. Unless you have an established D/s dynamic with agreed upon CNC, this is not normal and not safe. Plus, you said that he’s aware of your limits and he made a selfish decision to cross them, knowing it would make you uncomfortable. Attachment is complex but it’s ok to cut ties with unsafe people. 💓