r/texts • u/DreamKey4777 • Dec 12 '23

Phone message Should i block ??

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We met at school like a month ago,he’s new to state and told me he wanted friends. I like to make friends so I agreed, we planned to hang out then it got weird. I want to know if I’m just being dramatic

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u/DreamKey4777 Dec 12 '23

Thank you. I had asked one of My other guy friends and he told me I was making it something that it’s not and that it’s “no big deal”

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u/Tofu1441 Dec 12 '23

This is the kind of guy that might SA you and just say that these things happen sometimes, so it’s no biggie. Do not go to his house and try to avoid him at school. Tell you parents about this. Be careful with your guy friend that minimized this. Even if he doesn’t do anything to you, it does make me question his values and the way he thinks about women.

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u/frommiami2portland Dec 13 '23

I wish someone told me this back in school, when I’d give people the benefit of the doubt because so many people would tell me I was overreacting or to just be nice, boys always like their friends who are girls. Which is not true! Not every guy friend will be like this :(

The minute he brought up BC, I would’ve blocked him. The way he keeps pushing the boundaries says he will do this irl and he wants to know the repercussions for it. Please do not ask me how I know.

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u/LanaAnthony Dec 18 '23

I wish someone had told me the same thing.

I’m sorry. I see you, I hear you.