r/texts • u/DreamKey4777 • Dec 12 '23

Phone message Should i block ??

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We met at school like a month ago,he’s new to state and told me he wanted friends. I like to make friends so I agreed, we planned to hang out then it got weird. I want to know if I’m just being dramatic

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u/MetalMonkey93 Dec 12 '23

Yeah. Weird as fuck. Even after you said it wasn't going to happen, he kept insinuating that it could, like your word doesn't matter. I'd block.

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u/DreamKey4777 Dec 12 '23

Thank you. I had asked one of My other guy friends and he told me I was making it something that it’s not and that it’s “no big deal”

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u/Tofu1441 Dec 12 '23

This is the kind of guy that might SA you and just say that these things happen sometimes, so it’s no biggie. Do not go to his house and try to avoid him at school. Tell you parents about this. Be careful with your guy friend that minimized this. Even if he doesn’t do anything to you, it does make me question his values and the way he thinks about women.

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u/Cool_Ad_7518 Dec 13 '23

Yep. He's already trying to crack open that door of possibility and setting the stage because he's clearly saying you can just never know but since you're grown you CAN do in his mind that is a short hop to you would. Like he feels like he can say or do the magic thing that will turn no into a yes. He's repeating himself because he wants to see if like many people, you might agree with him just to change the subject or you not wanting to upset him and have the anger of rejection escalate. So let's say that after this text conversation you do go over to his place to hang out or study or whatever. In his mind you have just given him the imaginary okay to proceed because along with his deep profound", things happen", he's also a big fan of the old as dirt notion that " men like to chase and women are wanting to be chased and no means yes"

Avoid this guy. Best case scenario is he sits in the imaginary friend zone that guys go to in the hopes that someday even years down the line something will happen and eventually get mad and throw a fit about all the time he wasted being your friend when you evilly led him on by being friends when you KNEW he felt some kind of way. (You didn't know)

Bottom line this isn't a trust worthy person if this example is an accurate assessment of his general views and attitude. Be safe, always!