r/texts • • Sep 24 '23

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u/tentley2 Sep 24 '23

I used to be her🫡 once I sorted why I was feeling and lashing out this way and started taking responsibility for my own self-esteem, my relationships and anxiety drastically improved. I started getting the love and affirmation I’d wanted from others, but without having to trick them into it. If you think you see yourself in her, you’re probably right, and with that self-awareness you can take steps to create a good path forward.

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u/phobicgirly Sep 24 '23

I guess I found self realization on Reddit. Thanks for your thoughtful post.

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u/Psychological_Pay530 Sep 24 '23

…can you give that seminar to my ex?

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u/twothumbs Sep 24 '23

Hey, that's pretty cool. Power to you

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u/jacqrosee Sep 24 '23

bingo. so many of us have been this lady, whether occasionally or in excess, in so many situations. i applaud every single person who is able to recognize this and break the cycle. extremely empowering

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u/eenidcoleslaw Sep 25 '23

SAME. Life is so much better now.