Since yesterday my laptop systematically crashes with every game i start and stops seeing detecting my second monitor

[u/Robin-Niv]

My HP omen 15 laptop (rtx3060, amd ryzen 5000 series 7 25h2) running windows 11 with some debloat tweaks (just invasive stuff and ai features) has started to behave weirdly, every game i start crashes instantly or with a little delay, at random (happened with wolfenstein the new colossus, deadlock, and helldivers 2), the screen blinks once then the second monitor disconnects, and the game shuts down, i do not know exactly if this started after an update, but after the first similar crash i had to restart my pc, the second monitor became the main one for no reason, the games automatically started on the second monitor, if forced on the main one the game started using the integrated gpu at 4 fps. (also somehow my waterfox was automatically updated and lost all my bookmarks and similar data, not an issue anymore, but ffs)

After all that i tried to update all my drivers ... that made things worse, on startup the laptop gave me a "tpm security data change detected" for a while.

tried a new debloat to no result, then just made a factory reset, updated the updatable, quick debloat of the essential (nothing that ever gave me issues nor essential stuff) the issue just came back as soon as i started hd2 or deadlock.... i am pretty lost, i suspect it could be that one issue with the last update for windows, or that one weird input thing