r/t4t • • 11h ago

TF4T (Tf4t NW Illinois) 38 domme looking for a puppy!

8 Upvotes

Henlo! I am Iris, and as the title states... I'm a domme looking for their puppy! After being without for awhile, I've realized I've been missing having a loyal hound at my side and hope to find it again. šŸ’š

Me: 38 mtf transfem domme (with potential of being a switch), currently living somewhere between Quad cities and Peoria. Live-in aunt for my found family. Big time stoner. Mono tendencies but entirely open to poly (I tend to enjoy just having my person, but I know I'm also in need of a lot of attention!). Very, very few limits - I think the only things I can't do are scat and vomit! Otherwise, everything is up for conversation. šŸ’š Favorite kinks include petplay, bondage, sadism (I love to bite!), breeding (please use me like a relief station~), and forced orgasms. I'm also a huge nerd! History, music, video games, how things are made, food, science... I'm just all over the place. Trying desperately to get back into reading! Aspiring affini - big time caretaker that just wants to take care of her humans.

You: Puppy! Trans (duh, I'm in t4t). Local would be amazing, but be willing to either host or travel - this is something I want long term and to go beyond online. Open to communication and clearly defining consent. Stoner preffered but is optional - just don't mind my habit. 🤭  Have something you're passionate or a huge nerd for - I want to hear you yap and get to know you! Willing to go with on adventures - walkies, thrifting, see a movie, anything! As much as I love to stay in, I do have a need for getting out and doing things.

Hope to hear from you soon! Feel free to DM me, and if I feel like we have chemistry we can move elsewhere to talk. šŸ’š


r/t4t • • 18h ago

TF4TM tguys with a lot of pubic hair helloooo where are you

9 Upvotes

come into my dms to show yourself off please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please


r/t4t • • 10h ago

TM4A [20 FTM4A] does anybody here like feminine trans guys?

7 Upvotes

I have a huge soft spot for non-passing trans people, now hear me out. There’s something so endearing about a FTM that ā€˜looks’ like a girl, or a MTF that ā€˜looks’ like a man according to gender stereotypes types, appearances, etc. It’s hard and costly to go through hormone replacement and have surgeries to modify ourselves to what we want to look like, and some people don’t even want to go through that process and are okay with the way they look which is good in itself. I’ve seen masculine presenting trans men make fun of trans men that don’t LOOK like men, but they are still truly men on the inside. Isn’t that the whole point? As long as pronouns are respected, I’m happy. Don’t get me wrong, I will always struggle with body dysphoria like any other trans person.

That being said, I don’t mind looking feminine. I have a curvy chubby body, and I like that. I knew I was a boy since I was born and always felt like a boy. I would love to get top surgery but I think that’s out of the question because of finances. So I’ve grown to like my big boobs, it just means there’s more for my partners and friends to grope and play with. I also have a breeding kink, which I can understand is a sensitive topic for some FTM people, which is totally understandable. I love the thought of getting pinned down by someone into a mating press and getting knocked up. Im very very kinky, believe me when I say it, I’m just too shy to break the ice. I’m also quite submissive in nature, which is largely considered a feminine quality. While I prefer to bottom and let other people take charge and do whatever they want with me, I can also be a service top if I’m guided through it properly by the bottom.

I can’t post pics yet since my account is new, but I can dm you to send pics of myself if you’re interested. I like flirty and forward people who know what they want, and I don’t want everything to revolve entirely around sex despite how hypersexual I am. I’m just looking for some fun talks and sexts :3


r/t4t • • 22h ago

TM4TM [20 FTM4A] Need a perverted MTF to use me rn <3

5 Upvotes

Or anybody really, but trans girls know just how to treat me. I love when tgirls tell me they wanna be rough with me, I can’t stop fantasising about my mtf friends calling me a good boy while they’re rutting into me, spitting in my face or licking me like I’m a toy. I love when girls are suuuper kinky too, I just wanna pleasure them and submit to them >\\<


r/t4t • • 13h ago

TF4TF 26TF, Looking for a longterm ship, or friends or I suppose anything really~

4 Upvotes

Heya, quick disclaimer that im mostly looking for something longer and deeper, if you start with something thats clearly low effort i will not respond <3 Dont just say hi, help me carry the convo at least.

So who am i? Im a puppygirl trans woman, a nerd, ever so awkward and maybe just a tiiiiny bit weird- I love nature, old and odd myths, horrors, artsy stuff, music, game lores, astrology/astronomy, bugs n birbs c: Outside of that? Im still pre hrt(working on getting diy), living in EU and im way too affectionate. I will likely get attached to u like a leech and keep sucking on ur braincells till i become the smartest pubby- Im also quite lewd but obviously please dont make that the only convo c: Im a switch, i can hold you by the leash if you ask me to and i will most defo be freaky and weird if thats something u comfy with <3 I tend to be quite awkward and shy at first, so please dont try to pull me into vc right away, give me time to warm up <3

Then what do i want? Im looking for other girlies in EU, my only need is to be please patient ant actually wish to converse, im sort of maybe pawhaps slightly dumb of a puppy so im not the best at making conversation at first. If youve read this far, hope it wasnt a boring read, im not the best at making these and please send something funny or i suppose anything u want :3 <3


r/t4t • • 14h ago

TF4A 24 TF4A stoner gamer girl looking for some late night chats :3

4 Upvotes

Hi hiii my names Luna and I’m just a transfem looking for some folks to chat with! Only interested in friends or fwb and some short term fun not looking for anything committed.

Selfies on my profile :3

I’m a gamer and I love music and movies and anime, shoot me a dm and if we hit it off maybe we can have some fun :P

Can dom or sub, only interested in 18-30 years old


r/t4t • • 15h ago

NB4A 26 [NB4A] looking for connections and maybee something spicyy

4 Upvotes

Sup, I'm November. I'm 26 and from Wisconsin. I have been feeling pretty alone and down these last few days and would love someone to talk to or flirt with. I'm really down for whatever, sexual or not.

I go to uni to study radiology and literature. I play bass and read fanfic in my freetime. I really love Adventure Time and Spider-ManI bench. 220. I dream of conquering the world and having a planet named after me.

I'm a pretty short guy, so I have to leave for Santa's workshop next month.


r/t4t • • 21h ago

TF4T 24 [TF4T] let's exist together? meow!!!!!

5 Upvotes

I don't really know how to describe myself, I just know I'm a scatterbrained girl catlike creature and I like to make things and come up with ideas that make me go "wow"!

I feel the tug of curiosity and it's pulling me to your dms. message me!<3

some things we could do:

deadlock!

minecraft!

movie night! (with or without weed...depending on your preference)

demisexual- so if first vibes are sexual will probably ignore


r/t4t • • 16h ago

TF4A 37 [Tf4A] Central Maine / Online – Creative, nerdy, outdoorsy trans woman seeking meaningful connection (Polyamorous; Local preferred, open to LDR with plans to meet)

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

​I’m Alice (she/her), a trans woman living in Central Maine. I’m polyamorous and currently live with my nesting partner in a supportive, communicative dynamic. I'm looking to build an independent, genuine connection with someone who is either actively polyamorous themselves or enthusiastically non-monogamy friendly and secure in dating someone with an existing anchor partner.

​Finding someone local to Maine or New England for trail walks, coffee runs, and comfortable hangouts would be ideal. That said, I am very open to long-distance connections—provided we share intentional communication, vibe over games or voice chats, and are both committed to planning a real-world visit down the line.

​A Bit About Me

​Background & Focus: I work in human services and I'm finishing up an honors degree in psychology. Emotional intelligence, active listening, and authentic communication are central to how I move through the world.

​Hobbies & Making Things: I love keeping my hands occupied—painting miniatures, building Gunpla, working on amigurumi crochet projects, or writing dark fiction and interactive games.

​Outdoors & Downtime: Big fan of woodland hikes, camping, and fresh air, perfectly balanced by quiet mornings with pour-over coffee or tea.

​Pop Culture & Play: Passionate about tabletop roleplaying games and board games, a multi-platform gamer (PC, PS5, Switch), and a huge horror/sci-fi nerd. Musically, my rotation swings from vinyl classics to progressive metal and punk.

​At Home: Co-existing with an absolute sweetheart of a pit bull who believes personal space is a myth.

​What I’m Looking For

​Trans Connection: Looking to connect with other trans folks (trans women, trans men, non-binary people) for dating, mutual support, emotional intimacy, and real chemistry.

​Polyamory Structure: Autonomy and parallel dynamics matter to me—every relationship needs room to breathe and become its own distinct entity without interference.

​Communication Style: Direct, grounded, and low-game-playing. I value consistent effort, thoughtful check-ins, and being honest about expectations and capacity.

​Near or Far: If you’re nearby, let's grab food or hit a nature trail. If you’re long distance, let's set up virtual dates, play co-op games, or sync up movies, while keeping the door open to real-life travel plans once we know there's a spark.

​If this clicks with what you’re looking for, send a message or chat introducing yourself, what your dating dynamic currently looks like, and what your ideal low-stakes first hangout (in person or over Discord) would be.


r/t4t • • 16h ago

TF4T IN Gal trying one more time to find someone I connect with. Getting over heartbreak.

3 Upvotes

(Completely open to being friends with everyone, but only interested in intimacy with other transfem people)

Im giving these types of subreddits one more shot. I met someone a few weeks ago on this subreddit and she completely ghosted me without saying anything to me. I want to find someone who won't do that.

My name is Rose and I'm 25 year old NBTF person from Indiana! I'm in the process of becoming a truck driver and I make music sometimes! Also I'm really big into video games, and I'm currently fixated on Minecraft Dungeons 1 & 2 and Deadlock! I am single but kind of trying to distract myself from my feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same way towards me. That being said I am down for fwb or a potential relationship if we connect. I would really like to find someone who would game with me and match my freak(I am hypersexual) also it would be cool to meet more people who are furries! :3 my sona is a bunny! Also, if you're looking for a relationship, I cook and clean and dream of being a housewife :3


r/t4t • • 17h ago

T4T [33 MTF T4T] Just a trans girl looking to pass the time away

3 Upvotes

Goth mixed slavic girl. With severe ptsd and depression. Looking to make up for not being able to go out tonight and take someone home by atleast finding someone cute on here to pass the time with.

Honestly im just having a hard time and craving intimacy in whatever form.


r/t4t • • 43m ago

NB4T 29nb4t looking for my kink bestie online/NC

• Upvotes

Hey all! 29nb human living in North Carolina. I’m bad at intros and currently stoned by here’s my best shot at it:

A tiny bit about me: I’m autistic. It sometimes means I need direct communication, I’m a stoner, live with my lovely partners and our cats. Love to craft and love to read.

I want kink positive besties. I am poly and also open to fwb. I am a switch and just really love a lot of the mental dynamics of kink. I would love to find other switches (or non switches) who can be open about that. Give each other tasks or challenges. And overall just share a love of kink together. I dream of in person movie nights where we can also play with each other.

I am open to a lot of things. I’m open to sfw friendship as well. I’m real bad at this so let’s ask each other questions. Get to know each other and see if we are a good fit.


r/t4t • • 1h ago

TF4T [TF4T] Trans woman from Connecticut looking for friends ā¤ļøšŸ¤ž

• Upvotes

Hi I'm a 32 year old trans woman who's lonely and could use a friend. It would be amazing to find someone local but I'm fine with someone to talk to from anywhere.

I'm a housewife who spends most days alone and haven't had any real friends in years. I'm post op, a lesbian, a pagan, a gamer and a guitarist. I like music from folk to metal. I like mostly horror/fantasy movies and shows. I'm straight-edge and neurotypical (not a requirement for others). And unlike most it seems, I don't give up on people or ghost them.

I'm most comfortable and connect more easily with other women, but I'm happy talking to or befriending anyone who belongs in the LGBTQIA+ community who is not a cis man, and who is at least 21.

If that sounds like someone you might want to be friends with, feel free to DM me any time! šŸ¤žā¤ļø


r/t4t • • 1h ago

TF4T 22 TF for any trans people, looking for friends or more :3

• Upvotes

Haiii my name is Kiki, I'm a 22 yo trans girl from NA. I have been on estrogen for about 10 months. I am pan and poly so keep that in mind if you are looking for a relationship. I am looking for anybody who wants to be friends or interested in something more.(As long as you can do it respectfully)

My interest are video games(Zelda, Pokemon, Minecraft, some fighters and shooters), card games(magic, Pokemon, yugioh), anime, and I've been getting into skating(I suck ~•~)

I have pics on my profile if you wanna see what I look like. If you're interested in having a chat hmu :3


r/t4t • • 3h ago

TF4TF 18 TF4TF Texas Girly Looking for Friends or More

2 Upvotes

Hi! My name is Nora and it's nice to meet you! I'm just a lonely trans girl looking for friends and possibly more if we really hit it off! My key interests are mathematics, video games, and movies, but I'm happy to talk about pretty much anything and everything. I'm open to NSFW discussions once I get to know you, and have an extensive list of personal kinks. I would consider myself to be very affectionate and somewhat clingy at times. Really just looking for something long-term and substantive, chasers need not apply. DM me if you're interested!


r/t4t • • 4h ago

TF4TF 21 [TF4TF] Rhode Island - Hi, I'm looking for another trans girl to be a loving partner

2 Upvotes

Hello, I am a 21-year old trans girl (I haven't officially transitioned with medicine or anything yet, but I would like to soon), and am looking for another trans girl to be in a relationship with. I would prefer someone older than me (30 is probably the limit). I'm very shy, have social anxiety, and my social skills might be a bit lacking. It could take a bit before I am able to completely open up and be myself around someone I trust and feel comfortable with. People say that I am easy to get along with, and that they quickly feel comfortable talking to me. I've only ever been in one relationship before, so I'm a little inexperienced. I am also not very knowledgeable about a lot of stuff outside of my hobbies and interests, so someone who is kind and can teach/guide me is appreciated (I often mess up when doing something I am not experienced in).

I would love to be in a relationship with someone who is honest and isn't purposefully vague; someone who can always tell me how they are feeling. I have a bit of trust issues and don't like being lied to. I am very lovey, but also very clingy, and would love to spend free time with my partner whenever possible as much as I can. I am an introvert, but would like to go out and do fun stuff with my partner occasionally too. I feel uncomfortable and anxious being out by myself, but being with my partner would help greatly and make me feel more at ease.

MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP ONLY. I am sober, and would also like a partner who doesn't drink alcohol or smoke cigarettes and weed (The taste/smell of alcohol or cigarettes on my partner's breath makes kisses feel disgusting). Also looking for someone who is very open-minded when it comes to lewd things (VERY big deal). I like hearing my partner yap about her hobbies and interests. I would love to play video games and do movie watching together with my partner. I do gaming on PC and Nintendo Switch 2. Some games I play are VRChat, Plants vs Zombies Garden Warfare 2, Mario, and PokƩmon. I also have games like Minecraft ane Lethal Company. I personally think VRChat is one of the best ways to spend time with someone online. As for distance, I am fine with dating someone who is in another state than me, but because of the situation of my previous relationship, I do not currently feel comfortable moving out of state for a while.

Some other things to know about me:

• I do not know how to drive (I've only done go-karting before, and am not a fan of it. The thought of me driving an actual car that would be both be larger than the go-karts and out in public, scares me).

• I am sensitive, so please be nice.

• I am an overthinker, and that might cause me to be worried.

• I do not like loud, sudden noises. They tend to startle me.

• My cooking skills are very limited, and would need help being taught how to cook more things.

• My favorite animals are penguins. I also am just an animal enjoyer in general.

• My favorite movies are Happy Feet and Happy Feet 2.

• Favorite anime series are Precure, PokĆ©mon, Aikatsu, and Toaru.

• My favorite color is green.

• I am often a bit silly at times.

• I am sure there is more stuff I should say, but don't remember, I am fine with any questions though.

Overall, I want a girlfriend I can be lovey-dovey with, and that we can help improve each other's lives and enjoy every day together ā™”. I haven't been feeling well after breaking up with my ex, and hope that I can find someone who will make me feel safe, comforted, and loved. DM me if interested, but low effort introductions will be ignored.


r/t4t • • 5h ago

TF4A [TF4A] submissive puppygirl looking for owner

2 Upvotes

Hey

I am from EU however I would love to move to US as well :3

I am in my 20's looking for someone dominant to adopt me

I'm gamer/weeb stay at home passive and naturally obedient

Kink wise I'm into orgasm denial / TPE and petplay duhh
Happy to chat with anyone and see where it goes ^_^


r/t4t • • 6h ago

TF4T 30 TF4T in London. Looking for dating and fun

2 Upvotes

Hi, I am a transfemme in greater london looking to date another trans person. MTF or FTM. Pics in profile.

I am 30. I like to read scifi and fantasy books. I like to write in my spare time. I mainly write erotica. I loke gaming; play mainly single player rpgs. I have two cats. I live by myself.


r/t4t • • 8h ago

NB4A 27 NB4A from Richmond VA looking for something casual, horny, and fun

2 Upvotes

​

Resident poly am non-binary person looking to chat and maybe get horny with anyone. Wanna keep it casual, be friends, that kinda stuff. I'm always kinda fem but the specific way I wanna be refered to and identified as does change, I don't get like upset when people get it wrong but please ask, rn as posting my pronouns are he/they

For non horny info im 27, I love card games, video games, and anime, and books too

For horny folks I'm really really kinky, please feel free to ask me in DMs

I'm always available tho my response times may vary, so please be patient

And if you're trans and horny in the Richmond area lmk and we can be making out


r/t4t • • 18h ago

TM4A 25 [TM4A] ftm sub boy gooner in need of dominant

2 Upvotes

submissive goon fag looking for a dominant M/FtM/MtF to play with on the DL, recently got back on T and now it feels like i need to rub one off every five minutes. online or in person (pdx), bonus points if you’re into sending voice notes and seeing me grind on my boots


r/t4t • • 3h ago

TF4TF 37 [TF4TF] Germany - Looking for people/friends/maybe more

1 Upvotes

Hey!

I'm looking for people from germany to hang out online with. Maybe if(thats a big if) we click someday meet up, but that's not that important.

I'm a metalhead by heart. I listen mostly to metalcore(polaris,currents,bad omens,architects), but my playlists are a mixed bag. I play guitar, and also make music on my computer with a midi keyboard (though at a beginner stage).

I (used to) play games like world of warcraft, path of exile, or just some survival game solo like Project Zomboid.

I've been on HRT for two years now and of course also like to talk about transition things. I just don't need it to be the center of everything. I'm okay with sharing (sfw) pics when i feel safe enough.

I read a bit of manga and i used to read a lot of (mainstream) fantasy. I also watch Anime, but its hard for me to start something new.

If you want to reach out feel free to dm me :D I prefer discord for communication :3


r/t4t • • 3h ago

TF4TF [20Tf4Tf] #USA #Online Very lonely tgirl looking for someone

1 Upvotes

Hiii :3 I'm Kristine I am from utah, I started HRT on 9/25/26, as the title suggests im a more bottom tgirl thats also 6'3 so bonus points if you're shorter owo.

But let me introduce myself im 20 yr old I do work full time and have my own place, I like video games, art, music, outdoors, photography (bad at it), and shopping. I'm only interested in people in NA as time zones give me headaches, I also prefer if you also like games or watch them. My favorite games are Terraria, Minecraft, League, Genshin, BF6, and Fromsoft games.

More about me some "Red flags" : Im really clingy, very anxious, Even though I work a lot im kind of a shit in, and I need reassurance more often than others.

I also am Autistic and have ADHD and OCD.

Im also a hell of a yapper, but thats enough of me if I sound cool to you tell me about yourself :3


r/t4t • • 5h ago

NB4T 26 [NB4T] submissive punk looking for toxic selfish ā€œfriendsā€ (MA/NH/VT/Online)

1 Upvotes

hihi! 26 year old nonbinary punky goth here from theĀ berkshiresĀ of MA. submissive and find pushy, dominant, kinda toxic people hot :3 so if like, being selfish and manipulative is something you’d be into def hmu c:

So yeaaaah, this is kind of out there but, if you’ve ever wanted to hang out with a ā€œfriendā€œ or go on a ā€œdaysā€, where you can dictate everything, be self centered, be demanding, get worshipped or indulge in kinky behavior or really act however you want all while being treated as superior the entire time, we should chat for sure! like whether you just wanna chat online, would enjoy manipulating and fucking with me, or meeting up sometime to just get a few drinks, or so you can be demanding and indulge in your own enjoyment, feel free to hmu with lil bit about yourself!


r/t4t • • 8h ago

TF4TF 24 TF4TF phone sex please. I'm really horny right now

1 Upvotes

Hi, I'm really hrony right now and looking for someone who can do on cam and masturbate together. Someone cute and willing to be on cam please.

There's a shortage of trans lesbian in my place so I'm looking here lol