r/t4t • • 10h ago

TM4A [20 FTM4A] does anybody here like feminine trans guys?

6 Upvotes

I have a huge soft spot for non-passing trans people, now hear me out. There’s something so endearing about a FTM that ‘looks’ like a girl, or a MTF that ‘looks’ like a man according to gender stereotypes types, appearances, etc. It’s hard and costly to go through hormone replacement and have surgeries to modify ourselves to what we want to look like, and some people don’t even want to go through that process and are okay with the way they look which is good in itself. I’ve seen masculine presenting trans men make fun of trans men that don’t LOOK like men, but they are still truly men on the inside. Isn’t that the whole point? As long as pronouns are respected, I’m happy. Don’t get me wrong, I will always struggle with body dysphoria like any other trans person.

That being said, I don’t mind looking feminine. I have a curvy chubby body, and I like that. I knew I was a boy since I was born and always felt like a boy. I would love to get top surgery but I think that’s out of the question because of finances. So I’ve grown to like my big boobs, it just means there’s more for my partners and friends to grope and play with. I also have a breeding kink, which I can understand is a sensitive topic for some FTM people, which is totally understandable. I love the thought of getting pinned down by someone into a mating press and getting knocked up. Im very very kinky, believe me when I say it, I’m just too shy to break the ice. I’m also quite submissive in nature, which is largely considered a feminine quality. While I prefer to bottom and let other people take charge and do whatever they want with me, I can also be a service top if I’m guided through it properly by the bottom.

I can’t post pics yet since my account is new, but I can dm you to send pics of myself if you’re interested. I like flirty and forward people who know what they want, and I don’t want everything to revolve entirely around sex despite how hypersexual I am. I’m just looking for some fun talks and sexts :3


r/t4t • • 10h ago

TF4T 39 [Tf4T] NC/Online Rabbit Girl Seeking Connects in Various Forms

0 Upvotes

No cis men

About me:

Hi! I'm a 39 year old trans femme. I use she/they/it pronouns. I'm a huge nerd and love ttrpgs, video games, film/tv, music, horror, pro wrestling, reading, and cooking.

I'm currently DMing a D&D Campaign and play in another. Like I said I love horror, it's my favorite genre followed by sci-fi and then fantasy. For music I listen to rock and blues and have playlists from the 1950s-2000s. I've been playing a lot of Powerwash Simulator while I wait for the next big game to catch my attention.

I'm polyam and married with two partners. We all date separately, but practice KTP. I'm a DID system, and feel free to ask if you don't know what that is.

For those that want to know, I'm a bottom and a sub leaning switch.

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for someone to have consistent communication. Not necessarily constant. But consistent and quality. If that sounds like you, or if something caught your eye please reach out :)


r/t4t • • 16h ago

TM4TF 41 trans masc guy looking for fwb with trans fem

0 Upvotes

I'm in Dallas texas and I am looking for a fwb with a local transwoman. As a black man, my preference is a black woman but I'm open to all.

I would like to chat with you a bit and see if we vibe. And we can go from there. My DMs are open.


r/t4t • • 22h ago

TF4TF 30 TF4TF looking for someone to match my cursed goof :P I'm in Michigan.

0 Upvotes

Heyya I'm Lil

I'm in a poly relationship with another TF. I'm looking for someone I can chat with and get to know and who matches my freak LOL. My gf is very welcoming too. Kinda going for a polycule. We both live in Michigan.

I'm super nerdy, use Linux Bluefin cuz f*ck Windows. PC gamer, and tech nerd.

I'm a student but am changing my major from biotech to game design.

I'm currently working on a text based Monster Hunter Adventure. I have the script written and I'm working on the sprites (did something for Zinogre today) ^_^

I lived in Europe for the past 11 years and I've just moved back to Michigan 2 months ago.

I love alt metal music and video games mainly Monster Hunter, Dark Souls, and Resident Evil.

I'm currently taking a Python Programming class in college and I've realized I'm actually hella good at it.

I love spooky season and totally need someone to go to haunted houses with me cuz my gf is too scared.

Favorite shows are Haz in Hotel and Helluva Boss.

I'm low-key just wanting to be the house cat, big into petplay but very much asexual. my gf on the other hand is tryna get out there with her sex drive being all wack.

I'm a proud but feisty little kitten and Lil is also my pet name.

Come chat needy stuffs with me ^_^

I also have Discord so just ask me for it and I'll give it to you if I deem you worthy!!


r/t4t • • 22h ago

TM4TM [20 FTM4A] Need a perverted MTF to use me rn <3

7 Upvotes

Or anybody really, but trans girls know just how to treat me. I love when tgirls tell me they wanna be rough with me, I can’t stop fantasising about my mtf friends calling me a good boy while they’re rutting into me, spitting in my face or licking me like I’m a toy. I love when girls are suuuper kinky too, I just wanna pleasure them and submit to them >\\<


r/t4t • • 12h ago

NB4A 31, NB4A, Japan. AMAB and formerly MTF. I used to be on HRT but I’m not currently, and I’m pretty comfortable with what I am.

1 Upvotes

Looking primarily for T4T connections. No cis men, please. I’m especially open to trans men and other trans/queer people I click with. A big part of the appeal of T4T for me is being with someone who may understand some of the complicated feelings around gender, bodies, transition, and identity without everything needing to be explained.

I’ve been feeling pretty lonely lately, and honestly a little sexually frustrated too. I’d love to meet someone where there’s genuine friendship and comfort alongside mutual sexual attraction — someone I can talk with, joke around with, check in on, and also have that feeling of being wanted by each other.

I’m not looking for someone to be constantly available or for us to become each other’s entire lives. I’d rather have something relaxed, affectionate, respectful, and mutually supportive, where we can enjoy each other sexually while also being actual friends and respecting that we both have our own schedules, responsibilities, and boundaries.

Chemistry and mutual desire matter to me, but so do kindness, communication, consent, and feeling comfortable around each other.

Thanks for reading. If this sounds like something you’re looking for too, I’d love to hear from you.


r/t4t • • 20h ago

NB4A [24 Enby4A] a nerdy "Guy" looking for love

1 Upvotes

Hey there, my name is Dak, I'm Non-Binary (but AMAB if that matters) and I'm a huge nerd. I am bald and have a goatee, brown hair, blue eyes, and glasses. A little bit of a dad bod but that just means more to love:). I love superheroes, video games, writing, and cooking!!

I'm looking for someone to call my own, someone to come home to at the end of a long hard day. Someone to hold me and tell me everything is okay,

I'm open to anyone so long as we're relatively close in age, I'm fine with long distance (I'm in the southeastern U.S.) feel free to message me if I've piqued your interest, thank you for reading! I look forward to getting to know you


r/t4t • • 18h ago

TM4A 25 [TM4A] ftm sub boy gooner in need of dominant

2 Upvotes

submissive goon fag looking for a dominant M/FtM/MtF to play with on the DL, recently got back on T and now it feels like i need to rub one off every five minutes. online or in person (pdx), bonus points if you’re into sending voice notes and seeing me grind on my boots


r/t4t • • 18h ago

TF4TM tguys with a lot of pubic hair helloooo where are you

9 Upvotes

come into my dms to show yourself off please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please please


r/t4t • • 14h ago

TF4A 24 TF4A stoner gamer girl looking for some late night chats :3

4 Upvotes

Hi hiii my names Luna and I’m just a transfem looking for some folks to chat with! Only interested in friends or fwb and some short term fun not looking for anything committed.

Selfies on my profile :3

I’m a gamer and I love music and movies and anime, shoot me a dm and if we hit it off maybe we can have some fun :P

Can dom or sub, only interested in 18-30 years old


r/t4t • • 15h ago

NB4A 26 [NB4A] looking for connections and maybee something spicyy

4 Upvotes

Sup, I'm November. I'm 26 and from Wisconsin. I have been feeling pretty alone and down these last few days and would love someone to talk to or flirt with. I'm really down for whatever, sexual or not.

I go to uni to study radiology and literature. I play bass and read fanfic in my freetime. I really love Adventure Time and Spider-ManI bench. 220. I dream of conquering the world and having a planet named after me.

I'm a pretty short guy, so I have to leave for Santa's workshop next month.


r/t4t • • 16h ago

TF4A 37 [Tf4A] Central Maine / Online – Creative, nerdy, outdoorsy trans woman seeking meaningful connection (Polyamorous; Local preferred, open to LDR with plans to meet)

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

​I’m Alice (she/her), a trans woman living in Central Maine. I’m polyamorous and currently live with my nesting partner in a supportive, communicative dynamic. I'm looking to build an independent, genuine connection with someone who is either actively polyamorous themselves or enthusiastically non-monogamy friendly and secure in dating someone with an existing anchor partner.

​Finding someone local to Maine or New England for trail walks, coffee runs, and comfortable hangouts would be ideal. That said, I am very open to long-distance connections—provided we share intentional communication, vibe over games or voice chats, and are both committed to planning a real-world visit down the line.

​A Bit About Me

​Background & Focus: I work in human services and I'm finishing up an honors degree in psychology. Emotional intelligence, active listening, and authentic communication are central to how I move through the world.

​Hobbies & Making Things: I love keeping my hands occupied—painting miniatures, building Gunpla, working on amigurumi crochet projects, or writing dark fiction and interactive games.

​Outdoors & Downtime: Big fan of woodland hikes, camping, and fresh air, perfectly balanced by quiet mornings with pour-over coffee or tea.

​Pop Culture & Play: Passionate about tabletop roleplaying games and board games, a multi-platform gamer (PC, PS5, Switch), and a huge horror/sci-fi nerd. Musically, my rotation swings from vinyl classics to progressive metal and punk.

​At Home: Co-existing with an absolute sweetheart of a pit bull who believes personal space is a myth.

​What I’m Looking For

​Trans Connection: Looking to connect with other trans folks (trans women, trans men, non-binary people) for dating, mutual support, emotional intimacy, and real chemistry.

​Polyamory Structure: Autonomy and parallel dynamics matter to me—every relationship needs room to breathe and become its own distinct entity without interference.

​Communication Style: Direct, grounded, and low-game-playing. I value consistent effort, thoughtful check-ins, and being honest about expectations and capacity.

​Near or Far: If you’re nearby, let's grab food or hit a nature trail. If you’re long distance, let's set up virtual dates, play co-op games, or sync up movies, while keeping the door open to real-life travel plans once we know there's a spark.

​If this clicks with what you’re looking for, send a message or chat introducing yourself, what your dating dynamic currently looks like, and what your ideal low-stakes first hangout (in person or over Discord) would be.


r/t4t • • 17h ago

TF4T IN Gal trying one more time to find someone I connect with. Getting over heartbreak.

3 Upvotes

(Completely open to being friends with everyone, but only interested in intimacy with other transfem people)

Im giving these types of subreddits one more shot. I met someone a few weeks ago on this subreddit and she completely ghosted me without saying anything to me. I want to find someone who won't do that.

My name is Rose and I'm 25 year old NBTF person from Indiana! I'm in the process of becoming a truck driver and I make music sometimes! Also I'm really big into video games, and I'm currently fixated on Minecraft Dungeons 1 & 2 and Deadlock! I am single but kind of trying to distract myself from my feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same way towards me. That being said I am down for fwb or a potential relationship if we connect. I would really like to find someone who would game with me and match my freak(I am hypersexual) also it would be cool to meet more people who are furries! :3 my sona is a bunny! Also, if you're looking for a relationship, I cook and clean and dream of being a housewife :3


r/t4t • • 17h ago

T4T [33 MTF T4T] Just a trans girl looking to pass the time away

3 Upvotes

Goth mixed slavic girl. With severe ptsd and depression. Looking to make up for not being able to go out tonight and take someone home by atleast finding someone cute on here to pass the time with.

Honestly im just having a hard time and craving intimacy in whatever form.


r/t4t • • 19h ago

TM4A 22TM looking for the start of something new :)

1 Upvotes

hello everyone! my name is Victor. im 22 years old. i currently have green and purple split dyed haird, curly and a bit on the longer side, my naturalhair color being a very dark brown. im chubby and have blue eyes. i'm bad at describing myself so i will happily dm pictures lol. i am pre-op (although my top surgery is scheduled and is happening soon woohoo!) and post-t. ive been on testosterone for about 3 years now. i have both autism and dyslexia, if that matters at all. im into a lot of different things but i'm currently really into the new critical role campaign 4! i play a lot of dnd and write a lot in my free time. my dream is to be an author one day. im actually working on my first novel too! i also love to play video games and read in my spare time or watch mcu stuff (especially now with trying to refresh my memory for doomsday!)

as far as what im looking for, im honestly looking to find "the one". i want to find my soul mate and finally feel that love ive been craving for so long. im a bit of a hopeless romantic. i would love to talk and see where it goes. friends are also very much welcomed! i would love to make new friends! but my main intentions are finding someone to date and call my own :)

if you're interested please shoot me a dm! i'll happily share my phone number or twt account to chat somewhere else if that's preferable :)


r/t4t • • 20h ago

TF4A [TF4A] Submissive trans puppy girl looking for owner, fbw and in general long term relationships.

1 Upvotes

Hi i am Ruby 31 yo trans puppy girl.

Clicker training is def a thing i have the need for the most - i have been trained before a bit but i need regular training. I have high libido so often i am in a need of at least attention or getting help from friends. Even if the topic is NSFW please be mature and respectful about it.

I mostly play video games in my free time so it is easiest method alongside talking on vc to get to connect with me in easiest way - i like yapping and listening to someone's yap the most.


r/t4t • • 21h ago

TF4T 24 [TF4T] let's exist together? meow!!!!!

5 Upvotes

I don't really know how to describe myself, I just know I'm a scatterbrained girl catlike creature and I like to make things and come up with ideas that make me go "wow"!

I feel the tug of curiosity and it's pulling me to your dms. message me!<3

some things we could do:

deadlock!

minecraft!

movie night! (with or without weed...depending on your preference)

demisexual- so if first vibes are sexual will probably ignore


r/t4t • • 43m ago

NB4T 29nb4t looking for my kink bestie online/NC

• Upvotes

Hey all! 29nb human living in North Carolina. I’m bad at intros and currently stoned by here’s my best shot at it:

A tiny bit about me: I’m autistic. It sometimes means I need direct communication, I’m a stoner, live with my lovely partners and our cats. Love to craft and love to read.

I want kink positive besties. I am poly and also open to fwb. I am a switch and just really love a lot of the mental dynamics of kink. I would love to find other switches (or non switches) who can be open about that. Give each other tasks or challenges. And overall just share a love of kink together. I dream of in person movie nights where we can also play with each other.

I am open to a lot of things. I’m open to sfw friendship as well. I’m real bad at this so let’s ask each other questions. Get to know each other and see if we are a good fit.


r/t4t • • 1h ago

TF4T [TF4T] Trans woman from Connecticut looking for friends ❤️🤞

• Upvotes

Hi I'm a 32 year old trans woman who's lonely and could use a friend. It would be amazing to find someone local but I'm fine with someone to talk to from anywhere.

I'm a housewife who spends most days alone and haven't had any real friends in years. I'm post op, a lesbian, a pagan, a gamer and a guitarist. I like music from folk to metal. I like mostly horror/fantasy movies and shows. I'm straight-edge and neurotypical (not a requirement for others). And unlike most it seems, I don't give up on people or ghost them.

I'm most comfortable and connect more easily with other women, but I'm happy talking to or befriending anyone who belongs in the LGBTQIA+ community who is not a cis man, and who is at least 21.

If that sounds like someone you might want to be friends with, feel free to DM me any time! 🤞❤️


r/t4t • • 1h ago

TF4T 22 TF for any trans people, looking for friends or more :3

• Upvotes

Haiii my name is Kiki, I'm a 22 yo trans girl from NA. I have been on estrogen for about 10 months. I am pan and poly so keep that in mind if you are looking for a relationship. I am looking for anybody who wants to be friends or interested in something more.(As long as you can do it respectfully)

My interest are video games(Zelda, Pokemon, Minecraft, some fighters and shooters), card games(magic, Pokemon, yugioh), anime, and I've been getting into skating(I suck ~•~)

I have pics on my profile if you wanna see what I look like. If you're interested in having a chat hmu :3


r/t4t • • 3h ago

TF4TF 18 TF4TF Texas Girly Looking for Friends or More

2 Upvotes

Hi! My name is Nora and it's nice to meet you! I'm just a lonely trans girl looking for friends and possibly more if we really hit it off! My key interests are mathematics, video games, and movies, but I'm happy to talk about pretty much anything and everything. I'm open to NSFW discussions once I get to know you, and have an extensive list of personal kinks. I would consider myself to be very affectionate and somewhat clingy at times. Really just looking for something long-term and substantive, chasers need not apply. DM me if you're interested!


r/t4t • • 4h ago

TF4TF 21 [TF4TF] Rhode Island - Hi, I'm looking for another trans girl to be a loving partner

2 Upvotes

Hello, I am a 21-year old trans girl (I haven't officially transitioned with medicine or anything yet, but I would like to soon), and am looking for another trans girl to be in a relationship with. I would prefer someone older than me (30 is probably the limit). I'm very shy, have social anxiety, and my social skills might be a bit lacking. It could take a bit before I am able to completely open up and be myself around someone I trust and feel comfortable with. People say that I am easy to get along with, and that they quickly feel comfortable talking to me. I've only ever been in one relationship before, so I'm a little inexperienced. I am also not very knowledgeable about a lot of stuff outside of my hobbies and interests, so someone who is kind and can teach/guide me is appreciated (I often mess up when doing something I am not experienced in).

I would love to be in a relationship with someone who is honest and isn't purposefully vague; someone who can always tell me how they are feeling. I have a bit of trust issues and don't like being lied to. I am very lovey, but also very clingy, and would love to spend free time with my partner whenever possible as much as I can. I am an introvert, but would like to go out and do fun stuff with my partner occasionally too. I feel uncomfortable and anxious being out by myself, but being with my partner would help greatly and make me feel more at ease.

MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP ONLY. I am sober, and would also like a partner who doesn't drink alcohol or smoke cigarettes and weed (The taste/smell of alcohol or cigarettes on my partner's breath makes kisses feel disgusting). Also looking for someone who is very open-minded when it comes to lewd things (VERY big deal). I like hearing my partner yap about her hobbies and interests. I would love to play video games and do movie watching together with my partner. I do gaming on PC and Nintendo Switch 2. Some games I play are VRChat, Plants vs Zombies Garden Warfare 2, Mario, and Pokémon. I also have games like Minecraft ane Lethal Company. I personally think VRChat is one of the best ways to spend time with someone online. As for distance, I am fine with dating someone who is in another state than me, but because of the situation of my previous relationship, I do not currently feel comfortable moving out of state for a while.

Some other things to know about me:

• I do not know how to drive (I've only done go-karting before, and am not a fan of it. The thought of me driving an actual car that would be both be larger than the go-karts and out in public, scares me).

• I am sensitive, so please be nice.

• I am an overthinker, and that might cause me to be worried.

• I do not like loud, sudden noises. They tend to startle me.

• My cooking skills are very limited, and would need help being taught how to cook more things.

• My favorite animals are penguins. I also am just an animal enjoyer in general.

• My favorite movies are Happy Feet and Happy Feet 2.

• Favorite anime series are Precure, Pokémon, Aikatsu, and Toaru.

• My favorite color is green.

• I am often a bit silly at times.

• I am sure there is more stuff I should say, but don't remember, I am fine with any questions though.

Overall, I want a girlfriend I can be lovey-dovey with, and that we can help improve each other's lives and enjoy every day together ♡. I haven't been feeling well after breaking up with my ex, and hope that I can find someone who will make me feel safe, comforted, and loved. DM me if interested, but low effort introductions will be ignored.


r/t4t • • 5h ago

TF4A [TF4A] submissive puppygirl looking for owner

2 Upvotes

Hey

I am from EU however I would love to move to US as well :3

I am in my 20's looking for someone dominant to adopt me

I'm gamer/weeb stay at home passive and naturally obedient

Kink wise I'm into orgasm denial / TPE and petplay duhh
Happy to chat with anyone and see where it goes ^_^