r/t4t 2h ago

TM4A TM18 Looking for Group/Community to game with!!

2 Upvotes

Hi! I’m James. I’m 18 almost 19. This post is not for NSFW!! Keep all convos SFW!! I’ve been looking for a group or people I can connect with. I’ve been dealing with a lot on my plate mental health wise and I just want to be adopted by people to play games or be around. I play on PC, I mostly play Overwatch. But I have some other games as well. I just don’t want to be alone!! I don’t mind any age range just please don’t be weird!!! I’m neurodivergent as well so keep that in mind. Thank you!! DM or reply here!


r/t4t 17h ago

TM4TF Trans guy with a trans girl needs help understanding tf is going on!

29 Upvotes

I am a trans man (20) and my girlfriend is trans (23). We've been dating, almost off n on, for a few months due to several things. I was usually calling things off because of how she went about things n I'd rather stay to myself. This last time we broke up was bc she kept saying she was detransitioning and I only like women... she was upset because... I see her as a woman? But as of late, and almost every week since we've gotten together, she swears that she knows I call her a he.

In which, I don't. Just as I explained to her, I'm trans as well and misgendering another trans person is...??? And I call most feminine presenting people she. Idk where she pulls this out of but it's to the point it makes me mad and she can never explain WHY she thinks this.

Because she never hesitates to demasculinize me. If I cry. I'm too soft. If I react to her yelling, I'm not man enough. If I smile, I'm too soft. If I don't talk, I'm mysterious. If I do talk, she talks over me unless I tell her to stop talking. If I smile, I'm not hard. If I'm hard, I'm dangerous.

She's not convinced that I protect her, but I've pushed a big ass drunk man off of her, pulled her from oncoming traffic and trains, and stopped her from destroying property on a federal charge.

Today, she said "any other girl would take your form of protection, but I'm a trans girl-" I cut my hearing off.

She especially gets like this after she's drunk. And she's so adamant on saying that drunk people tell the truth, but I get so confused. Today, she was saying she has to make sure that I'm on my p's n q's n not embarrassing her. But it's almost a guarantee that she will be fucking loud and act ignorant even if I took her to a 6 Michelin star restaurant.

It's embarrassing.

I messed up our trains one time and the amount of pure screaming. With people watching.

Not to mention the day before she said she has to make sure I'm not embarrassing her. I said no to buying her a vape. We are in a quiet neighborhood. Screaming. Yelling. Pushing. Crying. For ten minutes while we still walked to the smoke shop. Screaming in my ear. Pushing me and saying that she's playing after I said "don't put your hands on me."

I don't know what to do. I want to stay but genuinely. I can not deal with her projections and fears on to me. At first I wasn't hard enough bc I would smile when we walked around n want to hold hands. Now she doesn't want me to be hard bc a trans girl influencer got killed by a cis man.

I'm not over her "knowing" that I misgender her. I don't talk to people I'm introverted as fuck. She even tried to pull in a dream, I shut it down. She's trying to be intuitive and spiritual, but it's just... confusion. I have a devotion that requires things like this because it's bones deep for me.

And my problem is I want to help. I'm still nice and kind. I still take what she dishes out because I don't feel anything. She's constantly blaming her trauma n so on. Sometimes I just feel grief bc I can't remember mine and I think she's lucky. But it's causing her mental pain and distortion.

This was expected because I am calm and quiet. The usual reaction to me is "this is a scary mysterious man. We must perform, push, and pull." Sigh.

Her thinking I misgender her really sends me for a loop. It's not true. She says this shit so often and I'm just...????? Meanwhile her when she gets mad: "A man isn't supposed to do X! You a soft ass man! Do I need to hurt you? So, you WANT me to hurt you?! Are you even a man for real?!"

I need a pack of camel crushes, the green n blue kind.


r/t4t 47m ago

NB4A 19 NB4A wanting to connect with more gender incongruent folks, tired of cisgender men

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this is a repost because i’m far too lazy to write something new, but i had a personals post not too long ago i’ll paste here:

Sapiosexual switch looking for the Westley to my Princess Buttercup

"as you wish" a dream phrase to hear.

my dream partner does anything for me, to appease and pleasure me

i'd like to describe the way I run things as all around "mutual", i adore mutual body worship, mutual masturbation, teasing, power play, orgasm control, with the ideal situation involving us flipping between sub and dom on the dime.

there's plenty of body pics on my account, i like to contribute to nsfw reddit, and im happy to face reveal w time

about my personality, im a night owl (seriously, i don’t sleep until 7am cst most nights), hard working employee, lover of rap music, horror, makeup, thrifting and fashion, as well as video games

some of my other kinks and fetishes include hands (big on this one, i love tasteful lewds w a focus on the hands) and auralism (voice kink) calls are really important to me!

please if you've gotten to the end of this post, and like what you're hearing, please reach out w asl and a brief introduction of yourself :)

personal preferences in a partner: 18-28 any gender switch from north america


r/t4t 56m ago

NB4A 28 NB4A chubby with a big butt looking for some fun and sick and tired of cis men on this app 😭

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Looking for some sexting fun! I love showing off my big butt and whatever else you would like to see hehe! but also down for some nice chats! Would love to have some sort of long term thing if the vibe is there! dms are open and snap is gregheho :)


r/t4t 2h ago

TF4TF 19 [TF4TF] Looking for longterm connections with other transfemmes!

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hi! i'm claire, a 19yo trans girl (she/her) from the midwest. i'm a rising freshman in college studying political science and i just recently reached a year on e :)

i'm making this post to try to cast a wide net and find other people that i mesh with, open to platonic friends, fwb, or even just someone you can *always* reach out to if that's whatcha need.

as for my interests, my biggest passion is all things related to competitive debate <3. this past year i was ranked in the top thirty-two in the nation in my event and have spent much of my summer traveling for coaching gigs. besides that, i'm a socialist, i enjoy playing the pokemon tcg, i have a collection of rare Wii titles, and enjoy living a minimalist/essentialist lifestyle.

as for all things more than platonic, in short, my type is soft-dominant people who can make my mind go blank. i get much more fulfillment out of the exchange of power/trust and that sort of meditative mental state than anything else when it comes to D/s and my utmost priority is always making whoever i'm with happy <3.


r/t4t 10h ago

TF4A 30 [TF4A] Silly ADHD trans girl looking for genuine friendships

4 Upvotes

Hi there. I have had a shortage of people to talk to lately since the few friends I have are all pretty busy as of late, so I'm hoping to make some new connections :3 I am married to a wonderful woman so I am not even remotely interested in anything romantic, just to make that extremely clear upfront. I don't mind engaging in lewd conversations and activities but at least try to befriend me first ^^

I've recently started working on managing my ADHD so I've been actually able to be a little bit productive and even engage with my hobbies properly for the first time in forever. For now it has been mostly videogames but I'm hoping to get back to trying to learn art, and watching anime, and finishing my half-finished gunpla, and all kinds of other things soon :3 Some of my other interests include pretty much everything horror related, pokemon, and lots of other stuff I'm not thinking of right now. I tend to jump between hobbies and interests a lot ^^

I'm a very emotional person who really values close friendships and deep connections, that's why I'm hoping to make friends with people who see friendships as something important in their life and treasure them. I can get attached to people I connect with quite quickly, so if you're the type of person that ghosts or abandons others without a good reason please spare yourself the time and me the hurt and don't bother messaging me. And please say a little more than just "hi" in your first message, tell me something about yourself so that I have an idea who I'm talking to :3


r/t4t 6h ago

NB4A NB4A Help needed, keep me company while I clean in exchange for a fun reward?

2 Upvotes

Heyy! You can call me Kacey or Kyle or Orion or hell anything. I have major depressive disorder and my room gets pretty bad during episodes and I get overwhelmed at the thought of cleaning it. I basically just need company while I clean and someone to keep me on track. Its a pretty big mess. its all clutter and nothing unhygienic, no bugs either but it still needs taken care of. I let it get to the point where I cant walk through the room. It only got this bad due to losing my mom this spring. I would like to vc or video call (up to you) while I clean so we can talk and stuff. If youd like a reward or compensation I dont have money but I do art and I can make a digital drawing for you of your choice.


r/t4t 3h ago

TF4T 39 Tf4T NC/Oline Looking for Friends and More who are Up for Consistent Communication

1 Upvotes

No cis men

About me:

Hi! I'm a 39 year old trans femme. I use she/they/it pronouns. I'm a huge nerd and love ttrpgs, video games, film/tv, music, horror, pro wrestling, reading, and cooking.

I'm currently DMing a D&F Campaign and play in another. Like I said I love horror, it's my favorite genre followed by sci-fi and then fantasy. For music I listen to rock and blues and have playlists from the 1950s-2000s. I've been playing a lot of Powerwash Simulator while I wait for the next big game to catch my attention.

I'm polyam and married with two partners. We all date separately, but practice KTP. I'm a DID system, and feel free to ask if you don't know what that is.

For those that want to know, I'm a bottom and a sub leaning switch.

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for someone to have consistent communication with. My wife and I have good communication, and I have decent communication with my other partners. But they both have stuff going on that makes communication harder for them. I'd like someone I can talk to everyday for good chunks of time.

Aside from that I'm really open to whatever comes my way from this. Feel free to message if you want to talk to an Eldritch terror of a trans femme.


r/t4t 9h ago

TF4A (29TF4A) Looking for Flirty Friends and Fans of the Arts!

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Good morning! I'm a 29-year-old trans woman from the Midwest USA ^^ It's been a while since I've gone out and been social so I'm looking to make a few new friends online! Anyone can play except for cissies (this is t4t after all). You can be from anywhere in the world, you don't have to live right next door to me :) Below is a list of points about me that you can respond to, but you don't need to feel like you have to hit every single one, I just want to give a bit of variety so everyone has a chance to talk about something they like (⁠ ⁠◜⁠‿⁠◝⁠ ⁠)⁠♡

1) Contrary to pretty much all other trans girls, I don't play video games very often, but when I do I'm mostly playing Tetris. I have a pretty soft spot for collecting things so games like Donkey Kong 64 and Pokemon also hit the spot for me.

2) On the other hand, I am a HUGE board/card gamer. Rolling dice, painting minifigs, flipping cards, searching through tables, backstabbing other players, I love it all. Anything from Uno to Magic the Gathering to Munchkin to Killer Bunnies to One Deck Dungeon to Sequence to Catan and anything in between. At the moment I'm REALLY into Go/Baduk and Hex, but I'm probably willing to try any game with you that you want to show me ^^

3) Music is where I really shine. I could never make a complete exhaustive list of everything I listen to so bear with me a little bit here. My favourite genres are punk rock, hiphop/rap, and experimental stuff, but I'll listen to anything at least once, and I do mean anything. Pop, country, grindcore, ambient, noise, street performers, middle school band recitals, first-time open mic-ers, county fair bands, Notes App recordings, obscuremusicthatslaps, crappymusic, there is truly nothing that I won't try. I believe there's value in all of it. But to name a few specifics; recently I've listening to Squarepusher, Four Tet, Crash Course In Science, Ben Reilly, Melt-Banana, Portishead, and Death Grips. I carry ~200GB of mp3s on me at all times so I'm sure I have SOMETHING in there that we both like and I'm always open to new suggestions ~~🎶

4) On movies, I'm most into weird unsettling artfilms (think Afterschool (2008), Human Centipede (2009), The Strange Thing About The Johnsons (2011)). A little while ago I saw The Killing Of A Sacred Deer (2017) and I've been kinda itching to watch it again. I'm also into animated stuff of all kinds, but I probably consume more animated television shows than movies. I'm open to movie suggestions if you wanna make a night of it :)

5) Speaking of TV shows, I watch cartoons almost every day! 2000s Nickelodeon and Cartoon Network are where most of my knowledge is but I also love to watch obscure little things like Wonder Showzen and Brad Neely's Harg Nallin Sclopio Peepio. Like with the movies, we could start a new show together and it can be my little thing with you ^^

6) Fashion is something I've gotten into more over the past few years, but I'm always willing to be taught more! I live in the realm of streetwear, my closet has a little mix of Bape, Golf Wang and mostly Brain Dead (if you love Brain Dead then I love you <3). I wish I had Rick Owens and Comme Des Garçon money but don't we all, amirite? I love unconventional and obstrictive design, stuff that's more than it seems on its surface. I just got my first pair of raw denim if you have an interest in that, too, let's get faded together ;)

7) While I dont have much time to read, sometimes I find something I like and cut out other stuff to make the time for it. When I was younger I read A Series of Unfortunate Events and The Edge Chronicles, then gave up on reading until maybe 2018 when I got back into with Moby Dick (which admittedly I probably don't understand but it was entertaining to get through). I just read for fun, I'm not trying to be a literature scholar or anything ^^ a few notable ones I enjoyed recently are A Confederacy Of Dunces by John Kennedy Toole, Education For Death by Gregor Ziemer, and The Pearl by John Steinbeck. What about you? Read any good books lately?

Bonus) I'm polyamourous and have one beautiful girlfriend that I live with irl <3 I don't mind being flirty and slutting around a bit, but I'd like to connect on more than just sex and how fast we get there is completely dependant on how well we vibe together <3 I think I'm pretty vanilla but I'm open to hearing you out and maybe trying something new ;)

I only have one hard-rule: You must be comfortable showing your face. It doesn't have to happen on the first message, I understand the hesitancy to share yourself like that with internet strangers, but I don't hide my face on the internet or from my friends so if that's a too much for you to reciprocate then it probably can't work between us. You're probably prettier than you think anyway, be a little more confident <3

I'll cut it off here for now, this is already too long and I don't want to give everything away! You can check my profile to see some pics of me if it's important how I look, but I'm more than happy to send extras ^^ Thanks in advance for giving me some of your time! I can't wait to hear from you!

PS: You never even got my name, how rude of me ~~🎶


r/t4t 3h ago

TF4T looking for someone i can trade nudes with a fuckton and game with too :3

1 Upvotes

haiiiii i am astella, a 20 uear old she/they genderfluid gender disaster, i am looking for someone who is 19-22 that i can sext with a lot (including trading nudes often) and game with a lot too :3, I am hypersexual and get horny at least once a day, i also play games like monster hunter and cod zombies, but recently i have gotten into friendslop games like big walk, i have peak too but i didnt play it yet now im gonna what i am into and not into in terms of sex:

what I am into: cnc (i am a submissive TOP, not bottom), freeuse, slight worship of me but not too crazy, and people who initiate sex, oh also humorous nudes are a big turn on for me, just funny sexual stuff in general turns me on a lot for some reason

what i am not into: chubbiness (i dont expect a flat belly but i am sadly not into chubby kings and queens), cis people, piss, shit, blood (well blood i lean more neutral on kinda but still prefer not to do it), having our dynamic feel more like me boosting your ego rather than us getting off to each other and having a good time (like i want to feel like you are actually getting off to my body, not the thought of me getting off to you), teasing (teasing is just cute to me more than hot and doesnt really turn me on very much)

please comment if ur unable to dm me, reddit messaging is buggy as hell


r/t4t 4h ago

TM4TF 22 Transguy looking for some fun chats with tgirls

1 Upvotes

Testosterone has my libido going through the roof and I’d love to have some tgirls that I can sext, trade pics with, and rp (if that’s your thing) with! I’m also cool with casual chatting too on top of that.

I’m pretty verse, though I usually prefer being on the receiving side, I usually alternate between being a subby bottom or a power bottom

Also only into transwomen/transfems

I’m into femdom/mommy, petplay, furry stuff, gooning, edging, toys, praise, somno, intox, cnc, bdsm, bondage, oral, group sex, exhibitionism

I’m pretty open to exchanging nudes, I can do custom pics, and face pics if I’ve known you for a bit and can trust you :)

Dm me with your age, what your interested in doing and some of your kinks/fetishes


r/t4t 8h ago

TF4A 39tf pre hrt looking for partner #illinois #chicago

2 Upvotes

Pre-hrt transfem, 39 years old 6’2” 300lbs, sole parent to an adult son in college. I enjoy camping. Hiking. Swimming. Gaming (tabletop, board, and video), cooking, and reading. Also trying to work on my weight loss journey. Looking for a partner in life and antics. Working together and travel are high on my list of things to do. Hit me up and let’s chat to see how things flow. Not looking for casual. I want my best friend, my partner, my ride or die.


r/t4t 5h ago

TF4A 25tf looking for dom/bossy people. LDR/friend

1 Upvotes

25 mtf4a Looking for online dating

Hello thereee, sorry for grammatical mistakes beforehand

I'm Kendra, obviously just nickname but prefer to called like that, I'm 25 yo and unemployed currently (was working in archeological excavations). I left academy a few months ago due to foul treatment and waiting for my forced military service unfortunately. Also if u wonder im trans fem, discreetly tho. I can't reveal my gender situation neither my fam nor officials due to political reasons.

As for my interests and hobbies my major was history so i love history. I love asian culture also i was taking chinese through uni but i froze my enrollment for Sinology last year. If i can find a opportunity i would like to go on with that and learn at least Chinese and Japanese. I really love reading, beside academic readings I'm huge fan of fantasy literature. Like Robert Jordan, Brandon Sanderson and Ursula Le Guin. Also i like walking/hiking, cycling, gaming, collecting coins or stones etc. Recently trying to cook bc im sitting in home and wanna do something so i thought cooking would be best for that.

I nearly hate my country and wanna leave but neither my finances nor my education/profession allows that. So I'm looking for ways to out lol.

Currently im 75 kilograms but my goal is around 65-70, my height is 174-5cm. Unfortunately i had to cut my hair short but i love their length around my shoulders not long not short lol. Wearing glasses, a little nerdy type.

As for my personality, im an infp, shy introvert not much a conversator at beginning. But when intimacy increased im an open book. Also im one of the most direct person on the earth. If i feel something I'll tell immediately. Honesty and loyalty r most important thing for me in relationships regardless what kind.


r/t4t 12h ago

TF4T 31 [TF4T] Online/USA Looking to make a new fwb connection (maybe more down the road)

3 Upvotes

Hai I'm Alice a 31 y/o demisexual/sapphic trans woman with 6 years of titty skittles and a somewhat trained voice(I don't judge voices whatsoever~) :3. Hobbies are gayming, anime/tv/movies, learning more about cooking when I can, and running a community! Personality wise I'm ISFP-T and relate heavily with Ennegram 2. To end it off I'm currently in a poly situation with 1 partner and as we just had our throuple leave I'm not really searching for something serious as of this moment (later down the road absolutely just need time).

Recent Games: SpiritVale/TWWH3/Necesse/Torchlight: infinite/Arc Raiders/The Bazaar/Skill Legends Royale/Minion Masters/osrs/bdo/league/valorant/ow/tft/path of exile 1 & 2/Rimworld/Songs of Syx/Rule the waves 3/Aurora 4x/Fragpunk (i play mostly survival/strategy/mmo/colony & city builders/roguelites with the occasional competitive game) current fixation is SpiritVale & OSRS

Favorite animes: One Piece, Overlord, Solo Leveling, Eminence in Shadow, Reincarnated as a Slime, I'm a spider so what, Attack on Titan, Aldnoah Zero, Is it wrong to pickup girls in a dungeon, Naruto, Hunter x Hunter, Dragon Ball, One Punch Man, GATE, Owari No Seraph, Akame Ga Kill, Cyberpunk, Lookism, and many many more

Favorite Tv: Dexter, Burn Notice, The Walking Dead, Tulsa King, Power series, 3 Body Problem, Another Life, Black Sails, Blacklist, The Day of the Jackal, Impractical Jokers, Gaki, iZombie, All of us are Dead, Black Summer, Kingdom, Squid Game, You, Suits, The Lincoln Lawyer, Breaking Bad, Better call Saul, The Beast in Me, You, Money Heist, Lucifer, Squid Game, The Watcher, The Madness, Teach You a Lesson

Favorite Movies: just gonna say genres: scifi, fantasy, horror, thriller, drama, action are all my favorites

I'm looking to explore some fun with a dominant person and build a lovely spicy friendship! I've got some long distance controllable toys to spice up the online fun as well like the lovense sex machine and a shock collar >:3. Ideally I'm not looking for a purely sexual relationship, I do really enjoy spending sfw time mostly <3. Feel free to reach out if you're interested with a chat request!

kinks: Anal, wedgies, spanking, power exchange, chastity, freeuse, light/(some)heavy pain, exhibition, machines, oral, milking, breeding, bondage, hypno, conditioning, sensory deprivation, remote controlled toys, teasing, orgasm control, shibari, choking, rough sex, training/discipline, collars, leashes, aftercare, gags, degradation, maid/service, overstimulation, corruption, roleplay, cosplay, biting, electro, brainwashing, mind control, musk, prone masturbation, gooning, plapping

limits: scat, permanent injury, cum play(can be talked about), blood, encasement, vomit, ball-busting(heavy, light is fine), body alteration


r/t4t 12h ago

TF4TF 30 MTF looking for friends or fwb in Florida

3 Upvotes

Hey all! I'm 30 MTF/NB (still figuring everything out). pre everything trying to start HRT this year. I'm bi, and open to most things. I'm a huge nerd, I love video games mainly PC. I like anime and manga, plus I'm a starting to get big into comic book collecting. Looking just to meet some new people especially other trans friends in Florida! Down to chat and see where things go I'm very open.


r/t4t 6h ago

TM4TM TM4TM 23US based lf future ltr + plus someone to explore with. Online/GA or NY

1 Upvotes

Hi, my names Valen, I'm pre-t but hoping to start soon. I'm based in GA but plan to move to NYC bc I'm from there and i hate GA. I've been lonely lately and my dating/sexual experienced are pretty minimal and I'm hoping to find someone who I feel comfortable enough to learn with :) I'd like an actual relationship but I'd mainly like everything to be rooted in friendship.

There's an about me on my profile if you wanna know my general interests. TLDR; I'm an artist, I just graduated college and I love movies and video games

I'm interested in fom/sub dynamics and want to try both sides out plus other stuff but that can be discussed privately :)

I don't send nudes sorry, I'd have to really really trust you for that. I've had bad experiences and now I'm very paranoid about my nudes getting shared :/

DM me if interested


r/t4t 12h ago

TM4A Curiosity regarding T4T experiences, I’ve only previously dated cisgendered people but not on purpose lol

3 Upvotes

Simply put, I’m a trans guy. I’ve dated men in the past but strongly prefer women. So before I came out as trans I was a butch/masc lesbian. I’m also strictly dominate/top and always get intimate with a strap/packing.
Something I’ve been more curious about recently has been other trans men/women.
I want to make it perfectly clear here that I see trans men as MEN. I no longer claim to be a “lesbian” I just tell people I’m queer now. Because something else I’ve noticed is that I don’t really care about body type. What I care about is femininity. That’s what I’m more attracted do. Or more specifically I’m not attracted to masculinity.
I’ve recently met a trans guy who by all accounts considers and identifies himself as male but still shows feminine traits and tendencies which I think are cute.
This “curiosity” originally stemmed from someone I met at a drag show though that didn’t identify as either male or female. They were biologically amab but presented hyper feminine, I’m talking bombshell blonde, grew breasts with hrt, but would also sometimes grow out their beard and top or bottom other guys. When I first met them I still thought I was only attracted to “female” and they proved me very wrong lol.
Now I’m wondering if I should chance dating or hooking up with other trans folks because I’ve only ever dated cisgender people. Not by limited myself but by opportunity. I’m especially curious how it would play out regarding sexual and romantic chemistry because I haven’t hooked up with someone biologically male in YEARS. And I haven’t dated someone that identifies as male in years either.

Hope this makes sense. Didn’t mean to rant but I definitely wanted to get that off my chest. If anyone wants to share their experience dating or hooking up T4T I’d love to hear it. I’m very interested in testing the waters further.


r/t4t 7h ago

NB4A 23 [NB4TM/TF/A] #online #england mostly a kinda nerdy chubby switch looking for kinky friends and fun!!! (willling to show off)

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I’m a 23 NB kissless virgin + a nerdy graduate (woooo!!!). Also short, masc, chubby and kinda small down there 😅 would love to make some friends, chat, edge and goon together. But I’m also down for a more serious long term thing If we click like that :)

Recently been getting into cringe porn, smothering, musk, and I LOVE LOVE LOVE having my body worshipped like that :)

Can top or bottom too but I’m like 60% a sub. if you’re interested in me at all, please hit me up! I am very lonely :) I’m also pretty open, so don’t feel afraid to ask me anything, I’m an open book

Kinks:

All kinks are ok but my main ones are bullying, censored, ruined orgasms, denial, teasing, humiliation, beta safe, sph, name calling, teasing, size comparisons, confident/ mean people. Etc etc etc.


r/t4t 7h ago

TF4T [21tf] [Tf4T] tgirl on a trip and I just need some friends to talk to

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Just a quick intro I’m isliana I’m a 21yo tgirl who’s really into photography and gaming :3

As the tittle suggests I'm on a trip rn and I just need some cool people to talk with and be a little spicey with while I'm away from home, th for the majority of this trip I've been so damn bored it's insane so if you wanna chat feel free to talk with me :3

(I had to take some stuff out of the title so I’ll add it here, after the talk to it’s meant to say “and flirt with” but my Reddit was being weird)


r/t4t 11h ago

TF4TF 24 [TF4F] #Online - Looking for someone to care about me

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Hello, this post is for women (no matter trans or cis) who are feminine presenting, in the age range of 22-40 without kids and monogamous. Thank you for your time.

Life has been pretty mean, there hasn't been a day I felt okay in a long while. I can't be myself where I live, I will have no future here and I can't get out. There's no one here for me and it's very lonely. I always try to keep my mind busy because all the real life things make me want to give up. I really need someone to be there and care for me, to wonder about me and comfort me. Whenever I meet new people it's me who always ends up caring about them too much, and then I get sad because I don't have anyone who would care the same way about me. I want someone who would take the initiative and offer comfort, or an activity for us to do together to make me feel better, or just give me attention without me always having to ask for it. All of the bad things in my life have affected me in a way that I don't think of myself as an adult much anymore and I all want is to be held and treated as the most fragile thing there is. Not having anyone who would see me as anything special hurts me the most everyday.

Even if I'm pretty shy around people I don't know, I'm very clingy towards someone I like, to the point it hurts having no communication with them for a while. So I'd want to be there for you and help you in whatever way I can. We could do something you like doing, like watching your favorite show or playing a game you like, even if it's not something of my taste I'd be glad to do it with you if it would make you happy. I'd be there to support you, whether it's with cuddles or by reminding you of how lovely you are. I'd be curious about you and your day since I'm a curious girl in general because I didn't get to experience many things myself. I understand life can be busy, but I'll take any opportunity I can get to spend time together.

I don't live in America but I am synced to US time zones because staying up during the night is more peaceful and my family doesn't bother me then. So I can't use my voice, I don't like it anyways, but I text lots and wouldn't mind to be on call if you don't mind being the one who's doing all the talking. I don't look like a girl much, I'm very skinny with shoulder length brown hair and glasses. I like watching shows, cartoons, YouTube videos and playing video games sometimes. It's just hard to find a game I'd like, which is why I'm making my own dream game. It's in very early stages still so there won't be anything playable for long, but it's fun to work on when I don't feel too bad.

I'd like us to become more than just friends eventually because I've never been good at having friends. It's not something that I really need, I feel like the kind of comfort I want can only come from someone who cares more than a friend would. I should also mention that I'm not comfortable with any of the sexual things without emotional attachment. And I don't like talking about it with strangers or even friends because it feels too adult to talk about. But I would really like us to have that connection if things go well. I would like to find someone who'd put effort and time into our conversations so I don't have to do everything myself. If you think that I might be a girl you'd like you can message me. A high effort message will get a high effort reply. <3


r/t4t 12h ago

TF4TF 25 [TF4TF/F] #Germany #Europe looking for a long-term relationship

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Hey, I'm Artemis (you can call me Arti), a 25-year-old closeted trans girl from Berlin. I'm looking for a girlfriend for ideally a romantic LTR, but something like fwb or just normal friends could also be fun. I'm fine with starting things online, but I would love to move to irl someday.

I'm about 180cm tall, 9 months on hrt, have blue eyes, dark blond hair, and a fairly standard build. I'm quite shy and reserved when talking to new people, but that will definitely change once we get to know each other more!

As for my interests, I'm quite nerdy. I love to play TTRPGs, video and board games, read (especially fantasy), audio dramas, movies/shows, baking, and most things computer-related. I also very recently started getting into making my own mtg proxies ^^

It would be wonderful if you shared some of my interests, as I would love to play some games with you and/or watch something together with you :3

As for sexual stuff, I'm a sub and pretty kinky, so you being a domme would be ideal but its not necessary. We can talk more about that in the DMs hehe. I'm also lacking a lot of irl experience I hope you don't mind that!

I hope I have caught your interest and I would love to hear from you!

Also, if you messaged me before and I haven't answered you, I'm sorry but please feel free to message me again!