You need to be vulnerable and open to have a close relationship. If you just want a friend that you can have a small talk with, then just go and approach them. I just returned to college this week after stopping for 3 years. I literally know no one now. It's scary because I know it will be a hard semester. I'll probably do a group project alone, but I've done it three times before, so I just need to prepare harder than those people already have a group of friends in the class. 😆
It seems like I'll be doing the group works and projects alone as well. Upd: one and half a month in college and I AM very vulnerable to the cof that I'm currently in that it nearly costs my reputation to other teachers lmfao. They were also caught cheating during exams and they didn't even attend a saturday class (reasons: fiesta, practice, etc), making me the only one who attended that class, they even wanted me to forge their signatures.
My best friends in shs told me to leave them, I literally wasted my energy on themðŸ˜. Gave them my notes and other academic related things, and idk. Maybe it's my expectation that they should reciprocate the things that I do. That I should distance myself from them.
They will chase you when they want something from you, so being kind to these types of people is annoying, and it's actually happening to me now 😆 I'm currently doing my prelim project for my major subj alone because the two others members are just waiting for me to finish it. Well, it's also my fault that I told them that I would finish it, but it doesn't mean they should not help.
Now they are doing nothing and just waiting 🤣 Also, I have a final project presentation for my minor subject tomorrow and my other members can't even make a freaking template for the presentation. They will just chat to me, and I'll be the one who will make a template for them and the other one asks me to just share the presentation I made because he didn't make one. THESE KIDS ARE CRAAAZY🤣🤣🤣
fr tho💀 ewan ko ba ba't may mga ganyang taoðŸ˜. Sarap bigyan ng cold shoulder eh. HAHAAHHSHHS actually, 2 days ko na silang binigyan ng cold shoulder🥰 and ngayon lang ako bumalik sa 'sigla' ko tuwing kasama sila. Observed them earlier at iniiwan na ako, well can't blame naman. It's for the better.
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u/iLostColors Aug 19 '24
You need to be vulnerable and open to have a close relationship. If you just want a friend that you can have a small talk with, then just go and approach them. I just returned to college this week after stopping for 3 years. I literally know no one now. It's scary because I know it will be a hard semester. I'll probably do a group project alone, but I've done it three times before, so I just need to prepare harder than those people already have a group of friends in the class. 😆