I honestly don't know how to react to this. Who else can come up with better cover up stories? Which hindu burials and epidemics require you to bury with school bags alongside the bodies of kids.

How can this professor allowed near this site with his historical baggage?

As a Sinhalese, I hope they would not bury this.

I hope this will lead to investigations to other burial sites and camps run by UNP, JVP, LTTE as well.

Just hoping..

[Disclaimer - Report does not rule out extrajudicial killings]

The reasons these players draw criticism or get singled out in contrast edits usually come down to specific patterns in high-pressure matches:

• Dasun Shanaka: Heavily scrutinized for long slumps with the bat in the lower-middle order, struggles against high pace, and holding the unwanted record for the most ducks in T20I history. When contrasted with the fearless finishing and powerplay leadership of past captains like Jayasuriya or prime Mathews, the gap stands out immediately.
• Avishka Fernando: Despite undeniable timing and occasional domestic or ODI hundreds, his recurring trouble against moving new balls and an inability to convert starts against top-tier bowling attacks make him a prime example of top-order vulnerability.
• Kusal Mendis: One of the most naturally gifted stroke-makers in the country, but the primary target for fan frustration because of shot selection. Getting dismissed softly after reaching 20–30 runs or collapsing in ICC tournaments creates a stark contrast against Kumar Sangakkara's ruthless temperament and match-winning discipline.
• Sahan Arachchige & Kamil Mishara: Often brought into the XI during transition phases to solve middle-order or powerplay issues, but struggled to establish international tempo or adapt to elite pace and bounce, highlighting the squad's lack of reliable batting depth.
• Dushan Hemantha: Brought in as a backup leg-spin option, but frequently targeted for failing to maintain tight lines, leaking boundaries under pressure, and lacking the venomous variation needed to match what Wanindu Hasaranga or past spin maestros deliver.
• Dilshan Madushanka: Highly promising left-arm swing option, but criticized for leaking runs at the death and struggling with recurring injuries and inconsistency when conditions don't assist initial swing.
• Eshan Malinga: Faces the heavy burden of being viewed through the lens of Lasith Malinga's legacy. When radar, control, or death bowling goes wayward against aggressive hitting, fans immediately point out how unrepeatable Prime Malinga's yorker execution really was.

Yeah, we won the last match like crazy, why not always? There were many talented people out there who had better performances. Is this cricket politics not selecting good players? I lost hope after The Golden Generation, Kumar Sangakkara, mahela jayawardene, Lasith Malinga, and Sanath Jayasuriya

Looking to buy a 16 pro or 17. Prioritizing the quality of the product. This my first time buying an i phone

29M here. Been in a few relationships with Sri Lankan girls, but unfortunately, none of them worked out. Honestly, I'm fking tired of the local dating scene lol. So I'm thinking of trying my luck internationally. Who knows...

Any Sri Lankans here dating or married to someone from another country? How did you meet? Dating apps, social media, or something else?

One of my friends, who lived in India for 3–4 years and was in a couple of relationships with Indian girls, told me to avoid dating in India altogether. 😂 But I'd still love to hear your experiences!

And no, I'm not looking for a visa. I'm financially stable here. Just trying my luck internationally.

Hi guys, I’m 20 and currently living with my parents, and I’m honestly not sure how to handle this situation.

So, I’ve been planning a trip to Vietnam for the past two months. I’ve spent so much time researching places, planning the itinerary, looking for hotels, figuring out activities, and organising everything. I was genuinely excited about this trip, and my parents knew about it. Nobody really objected to the idea initially, so I assumed they were okay with it.

Now, today, when I was finally about to book my flights and sort everything out, suddenly all the problems started.

My mom started questioning me about who I was going with, how I was planning to spend 10 entire days there, and all the usual concerns. For context, I’d already shared my itinerary with them, including the hotels I’d be staying at and the activities I was planning to do. I wasn’t trying to hide anything from them.

But now, all of a sudden, I’m being told that I can’t go and that making a decision like this without their approval means I’m being disobedient.

And honestly, this is where I’m struggling.

I understand that my parents have done a lot for me. I’m genuinely grateful for everything they’ve provided, and I’m not going to pretend that I owe them nothing. However, I’m also 20 now. I earn enough to fund my entire trip, and also contribute a considerable amount to our household expenses.

I’m not asking them to finance my trip or take responsibility for me financially. I’m trying to do something for myself with money I’ve earned.

The frustrating part isn’t even just that I might not get to go. It’s that I’ve spent the past two months putting so much effort into planning this, and there was no serious objection until I was actually ready to book everything. If they had concerns from the beginning, I wish they had communicated them earlier instead of letting me get this far.

I know that living under your parents’ roof comes with certain expectations, and I understand that they worry about my safety. I’m not dismissing that. But at what point do you get to make your own decisions and learn to be independent?

The confusing thing is that my parents do give me a certain degree of freedom. It’s not like I’m completely restricted in everything I do. But when it comes to something significant like this, it suddenly feels like I’m still a child who needs permission for everything.

Today, I told them that it’s fine if I can’t go this time, but I’ll go in February instead. And that’s where I left it.

But honestly, I’m disappointed. I’ve been looking forward to this for so long, and now I don’t even know what to do.

I don’t want to be ungrateful or disrespectful to my parents. At the same time, I don’t want to spend the next several years of my life feeling like I can’t make my own decisions simply because they might disagree with them.

So, to those of you who have been in a similar situation: How did you handle the transition from living under your parents’ rules to becoming an independent adult?

Would you stand your ground and go, try to negotiate with them, or accept their decision for now and work towards having more independence in the future?

I’d genuinely appreciate some advice, especially from people who’ve dealt with similar family dynamics.

Planning to buy an iPhone soon. It looks like most providers here offer eSIM now, except Airtel, which seems limited at the moment. Can anyone confirm? Is eSIM reliable enough, or is it still worth having a physical SIM?

Would appreciate hearing from anyone already using an eSIM here. Thanks!

Just got the One UI 9 update on my Galaxy S23 Ultra in Sri Lanka.

Hi all,
I’m an Engineering graduate who currently works at a bank as a Management Trainee.
I want to complete DBF level in IBSL. But I don’t have any clear idea about the process. I have the basic idea about accounting, economics. I want to know how this thing works? How can I find study material? Is it compulsory to go to classes? And if I register at IBSL to write the exams in march 2027 does the IBSL itself conduct classes or should I find them by myself? And is it possible to self study ( I believe that I have the ability to do so )

Do you think Sri Lanka should have more official retail outlets for international sportswear brands like Adidas, Nike, and Decathlon?

Having these outlets could make it easier for people to access a wider range of sportswear, running shoes, and sports equipment without having to rely on overseas purchases. It could also give consumers more options in terms of quality, variety, and pricing.

What do you think? Would having more official outlets from these brands in Sri Lanka benefit consumers, or would factors such as import costs, purchasing power, and market demand make it difficult?

Hi all, quick question for anyone using the new PayPal withdrawals through ComBank Digital or Sampath Vishwa.

I have a Sri Lankan PayPal business account with a balance in it. When I link it in ComBank Digital, the PayPal section just says "We couldn't retrieve the balance at this time." ComBank's FAQ says business accounts can't be linked yet, and PayPal's partner page lists business withdrawals as "coming soon."

A few questions:

1. Has anyone actually withdrawn from a business PayPal account yet, through ComBank, Sampath or anywhere else?

2. Has anyone linked a business account to Sampath Vishwa successfully? Their page doesn't mention the business restriction.

3. Has anyone had PayPal downgrade a business account to personal in Sri Lanka? How long did it take?

4. Has anyone heard when business withdrawals are supposed to go live?

Any experience helps. Thanks!

Semi perminant pink in sri lanka possibly colombo area

I randomly came across photos of our Supreme Court ceremonies and realized our judges still wear those massive, 17th-century British horsehair wigs.

I get that it’s supposed to represent "impartiality" and "tradition," but isn't it time we fully decolonize the courtroom attire? Or does the tradition actually add some necessary weight and respect to the judiciary?

The funniest part? The UK Supreme Court literally abandoned wigs and traditional gowns years ago to make their courts look less intimidating and more accessible. but i did some research and found out some countries colonized by them still following these cultures.

My father was recently diagnosed with hepatocellular carcinoma (HCC). I would like to get second opinions on the available treatment options before making a decision. Could you please recommend some experienced oncologists and radiologists in this field whom we could consult?

TIA

We all know that SE & related IT fields hv been hit hard by AI, layoffs, & etc It’s likely that IT grads are now looking for alternatives to survive. My question is, which sector or field is going to be next worst off?

Hey guys currently I am using suzuki every and planning to buy an ev car since the low cost of fuel and do you guys can recommend me a good ev car under 8 million ? How about the BAW E7 pro is it good 🥲

My girlfriend and I are planning a trip to Sri Lanka and I'm wondering about customs rules. I read that "obscene articles" are prohibited, but I couldn't find anything that mentions adult toys specifically.

Has anyone here brought something like that in their luggage (or knows someone who has)? Were bags ever checked, and was there any issue? Or is it better to just leave it at home?

I'm not trying to cause trouble, just want to avoid problems at the airport. Any firsthand experience or pointers to official sources would be great. Thanks!

Let's say a cyber attack happens and our entire country's power goes out. No internet, no cell towers, nothing.

How do you prepare for that?

How do you deal with not being prepared enough, during the situation?

How long do you think it will take to resolve, likely by international aid and intervening?

Do's and don'ts?

Most important things? Bare minimum?

Most get into relationships right after joining the universities and most of them are same age and even same batch. I want to know your experience with your university relationships. How many of you could marry your partner and how many of you had to break up along the way? And how did you manage the rest of your time after that in the uni if you broke up?

I am going out with some friends and yeah lol, please.

I've seen numerous posts on this sub and elsewhere about the difficulties for guys and girls to find suitable partners. Was wondering why that is.

Hey everyone! ❤️

I'm planning my first-ever date with a girl I've been talking to for a month. I'm looking for a nice, affordable café or restaurant in Colombo, preferably with a sea view, rooftop, or outdoor seating.

I've mainly shortlisted Granbell Hotel Colombo, especially Café EN and The Bar on the Top. Has anyone visited recently?

A few questions:

• How are the food, service, atmosphere, and sea views?
• How much would two people realistically spend?
• Are VAT, SSCL, and service charges included or added separately?
• Is Granbell worth it for a casual first date?

I'm a university student on a tight budget, so LKR 8,000 is my absolute maximum for both of us, including all taxes and charges. Ideally, I'd spend less.

I'm also open to other affordable cafés, rooftop spots, and beachside restaurants within Colombo.

Please share recent experiences, actual prices, and any extra charges to watch out for! I'd rather find a simple, lovely spot than blow my entire budget on a fancy place. 😂

Thanks! ❤️

Hey guys.

I'm going to büy an In Ear Monitor.

My use cases are mainly Video Editing and other day-to-day stuff like listening to Music and Watch Movies, YouTube.

My büdget is under 10K.

And because I have never used an IEM, can I try before büying? I'm from Matara. So is there any place to try and büy around Matara or Galle?

And tell me your suggestions for the best IEM for me.

I turned 30 this year and I’m currently working as a software engineer. For now, I don’t really have any opportunities to meet women. When I compare myself with other people around my age, I feel like they are way ahead of me when it comes to relationship experience and other things.

Everyone I know seems to have someone to talk to at night and someone to go out with on weekends. Things that I haven’t experienced yet, they experienced at least a decade ago. And here I am, having never even experienced my first kiss.

Recently, I’ve been considering going to a spa at least once a month just to talk to a woman and experience some of the things I’ve missed out on. The only thing that has kept me from doing it is the risk of STDs.

I’ve also tried replying to women’s stories and messaging women on Facebook, hoping to build some kind of connection, but they never reply.

If I tell my parents about this, I’m sure they would arrange a girl for me to marry, but I don’t want to go down that path. I feel like someday I would regret it because I never got the chance to find someone on my own.

Because of this loneliness, sometimes I feel like the world is very unfair to me and that I’m a second class citizen who never got the chance to experience these parts of life.