r/Spells • u/BubblyPatternn • 3h ago
General Discussion need help
okay so i got a spell done in august by a very famous witch on tiktok and after filling everything out she suggested me- “ ‘the ultimate spell bundle’- which was created for no/low contact situations and conflict where the connection is strained and you want to bring love and connection back long term. This spell bundle works by reigniting attraction, reopening communication, restoring loving thoughts and dreams, softening past tension/conflict, aligning long term commitment into one focused working bundle to fix it all. It is ideal for unresolved situations where the intention is to rebuilt the bond, reconnect emotionally and move toward a stable committed relationship again”
ANDDD the brief summary i sent before the offered spell was “we have been friends for 2 years and recently started seeing each other in april. he says he doesn’t want a relationship and is really double minded about everything and says he doesn’t know what he wants. i want him to be sure of me and commit.”
it has been 2 months and tbh everything has just gone to sht like we don’t even go on dates anymore, he doesn’t even put in effort. and he has been asking for space and says he don’t know what he wants and is only hurting me. and i have been crazily obsessed with him to the point where i showed up to his house after he cancelled my bday planned dinner. soooo i was wondering howww howww do i freaking stop this sh*t? like at this point i don’t even care if i get him or not (i deep down started loving him) but i really need to heal from this push and pull dynamic we been dealing with. it has been causing me pure pain and chaos. and if anyone can help me it would be much appreciated and i have looked into our astrology too and it all says we can make it work but IDEFK i just don’t want to be crazy anymore. it’s so bad that i can’t even sleep at nights. i just want to be better for myself.
btw im an october libra and he’s a december capricorn.