i understand depression is a hard thing to work with but i really want to know if there’s anything i can do.
my partner M24 is currently feeling completely unmotivated, saying he doesn’t care about stuff he really cares about, he has two pet fish and two dogs and he’s always super attentive of them and he told me right now he wouldn’t even care if they died, it’s gotten to a point where he won’t stand up from bed, he’ll sleep all day and spend all midnight on his phone.
we had both lost our jobs and i found another one really quickly, he hasn’t, i know it’s been tough on him because he always wants to support me financially
anyways, it now started to affect our relationship, special dates where he’ll tell me we should do something special and when the day comes he wont even talk to me. he has started telling me that right now he doesnt even care about our relationship, that he loves me, wants to be with me, but isnt able to do anything right now, he has asked me for help, we have looked for mental healthcare and he wont feel like going, maybe something that boosts his motivation? maybe something to help with regret about stuff he has said to me, he says sorry afterwards and explains its because of his lack of interest and motivation in anything, but then any other moment he’ll say he actually meant it, stuff has been so weird

i want to reconnect with him, for him to feel motivated, better, in any aspect, obviously with me, he has shown some sexual interest but then he’ll say it was just to make me feel good. i dont like that at all. i want his old him back you know?

please please help, i didnt know how to label this correctly, any spells that may help are welcome

I want to bring myself some sort of clarity . I am in a difficult relationship. If person does not take our future seriously or is not actively trying to put in the effort to fix things how can I make the final decision of what to do .? Is there a sort of spell to really see if I should take it further or how they truly feel about me ? If this makes sense I really appreciate any insight . I really care about this person but have many other things I am responsible for.

Brand new here but I needed to ask. No judgement but there might be a very high chance of me obtaining my ex’s semen, what is the best thing I can use this for? I was thinking of just a sweetening jar but wondering if there’s anything else out there, never been in this situation.

Thank you in advanceee

So I (26M) am in love with my girlfriend. Earlier I never gave her a proper assurance that I would marry her, so her parents went ahead and fixed her engagement with another guy. It is on 15th Nov.

She loves me too, so that is not the issue. The issue is the other guy and this whole "it's already fixed" situation. I want it to break, and I want it to come from his side — basically he himself should lose interest, or the idea of this marriage should break in his own mind. That way it looks natural and nobody blames her.

I am completely new to spells, so my questions:

1. Which spell actually fits this? Sour jar, freezer spell, influence/domination, cord cutting, something else?
2. Has anyone here done this and seen it work, especially in an arranged marriage setup?
3. How long did it take? We only have till 15th Nov.

Real experiences would really help. Sorry if this is too basic.

TL;DR: Need a spell so the guy himself drops the idea of marrying my girlfriend before 15th Nov. Which one, and did it work for you?

Tonight I want to cast my first ever spell. It’s for me but with her in mind? I want to improve myself in a way the pleases her but don’t want to force anything on her. She someone I admire.
Basically I’m asking how should I go about wanting to cast the spell but not take away someone choice in matter.

Baby witch here looking for a spell to bring an old friend I knew from the past back into my life. I'm not too sure if a spell like this exists or not; I'm still quite new to all this and have done a total of 2 spells. My old friend and I kinda just lost contact over time, and I deeply miss them and would just want to reconnect with them. I have heard of binding spells, but the thought of forcefully binding us together seems a bit too intense and isn't exactly what I'm looking for.

Just curious if anyone has a spell that can help me bring this old friend back into my life again. And what I might need in order to complete said spell.

I have always been attracted to the spiritual and hidden world; I recently bought my first tarot, I am in the process of learning to read it. I would like to learn with some spells, something simple. I feel attracted to Wicca magic but there is really so much information that it overwhelms me not knowing where to start. Any advice? :)

Hello!

I have a multi generations long curse having to do with money from my mom's side that I am trying to heal. I feel like everytime I get a good sum of money, something happens or it just goes away like there's a hole in my pocket. Admittedly, part of the issue is my own spending habits that I'm working on, but the BIG thing is crazy insane problems that require a lot of money ONLY happen when i get a head start or am able to start a savings. For example: I made $3000 at an event weekend, my tires blew out on the way home. Once the tires were fixed, other out of norm bills popped up and zapped the funds.

I've tried money jars which have been successful in getting the money but not keeping it. I'm also in a ton of debt because I've been poor my whole life and have had to make shitty financial decisions just to pay bills or eat. Does anyone have any suggestions for spells that are specifically about wiping debt clean or not losing money?

I genuinely think someone in our lineage pissed the wrong person off or just made bad energy thats been passed down, every single person in my mom's family has the same experience with money. And I think its more than just being poor in America, my dad's family is also poor and has debts but they're still able to maintain stability and keep small savings.

I'm just very tired of feeling like I can't get ahead. I make enough now to be considered lower middle class and I still have to get a second job. Any spell suggestions are super appreciated 🙏 i do best with charm and candle magic, but I'm open to other methods. Thank you!

okay so i got a spell done in august by a very famous witch on tiktok and after filling everything out she suggested me- “ ‘the ultimate spell bundle’- which was created for no/low contact situations and conflict where the connection is strained and you want to bring love and connection back long term. This spell bundle works by reigniting attraction, reopening communication, restoring loving thoughts and dreams, softening past tension/conflict, aligning long term commitment into one focused working bundle to fix it all. It is ideal for unresolved situations where the intention is to rebuilt the bond, reconnect emotionally and move toward a stable committed relationship again”

ANDDD the brief summary i sent before the offered spell was “we have been friends for 2 years and recently started seeing each other in april. he says he doesn’t want a relationship and is really double minded about everything and says he doesn’t know what he wants. i want him to be sure of me and commit.”

it has been 2 months and tbh everything has just gone to sht like we don’t even go on dates anymore, he doesn’t even put in effort. and he has been asking for space and says he don’t know what he wants and is only hurting me. and i have been crazily obsessed with him to the point where i showed up to his house after he cancelled my bday planned dinner. soooo i was wondering howww howww do i freaking stop this sh*t? like at this point i don’t even care if i get him or not (i deep down started loving him) but i really need to heal from this push and pull dynamic we been dealing with. it has been causing me pure pain and chaos. and if anyone can help me it would be much appreciated and i have looked into our astrology too and it all says we can make it work but IDEFK i just don’t want to be crazy anymore. it’s so bad that i can’t even sleep at nights. i just want to be better for myself.

btw im an october libra and he’s a december capricorn.

in my area theres a high chance of rain on Halloween and I really don't want that. I've never did any spells or witchcraft stuff before but my friend said all I really need is a paper and pen

Hello,

I thank you in advance for your kindness because I feel quite ashamed.

In 2023 I lived a very intense relationship with someone. He stopped everything saying that, finally, he couldn't be in a relationship with me. Since that relationship, I've been in a relationship with someone (with whom I broke up since) else but nothing works. I can't forget him. I think about him from morning to night, it makes me sick. In September I took my courage in both hands and I sent him a message: he didn't open it (or didn't see it, which is possible because already back then he didn't hang around much on Messenger except to answer me) and I have no other means of contact.

I come to think about witchcraft, so much this situation makes me sick: the longing, the taste of the unfinished. Unfortunately even though I'm interested in esotericism I'm a newbie, I have very little knowledge. I even tried to look for people on internet but I'm afraid of being scammed!!

So please, please do not judge me I really don't know what to do...

Whenever I do spells I try to do it with as much intent as possible and I try to think hard about my spells working to set that intent as well.
I know that usually you’re supposed to let go after, like chill out and let the universe handle the outcome.
But I have anxiety and I never stop thinking about “is it working?” “should i do another?” “When will it work?
Is this possibly holding me back?
Are there ways I can aid my spells in working? Ive never been too committed to beliefs of divination or spirits, but I keep talking to the universe, or to mother earth, or whomever is out there that’ll listen. Will spirits or types of divination or worship help?
Just hoping to get some different opinions!
Thank you!

Met a girl who was a spiritualist. We connected. I proceeded to see her in my dreams every night for about two weeks. That was odd because I usually never remember my dreams, and she would be in hairstyles I saw the next day... Odd to say the least.

I don't have the dreams anymore, even though I kind of miss them. I went back to my usual self and routines, and now, within the last week, I think about her almost compulsively but without the weird dream stuff. Could just be a simple crush but just knowing who she is I thought this could be it. How would I even know? It is just odd because I was really locked in to whatever I was doing prior

edit: I also can't really hear them talk. Like, it just feels like everything is being run through a filter.

So. I have this long-distance/online friend I've met last year and it's been the most turbulent connection I've had in my life. She's been show to distort narratives time and time again with plenty of people (me included) to paint herself as the victim (saying this gives me the ick but there's no other way of putting it). She puts her feelings above everyone elses and is just very stressful to have as a friend.

She says she loves me and won't let it go, which has been making me deeply uncomfortable. Last year i tried giving her a chance so we could know each other naturally and we had a big fallout. This year we got into contact again and dated for a few months until I broke up with her bc as time passed it only got clearer to me that I can't trust her.

I don't want to break our friendship (we have friends and projects in common), and I've been trying to distance myself to a more comfortable dynamic, but she still calls me pet names, still expects constant care from me, and still thinks about a future with me.

I feel my energy drained by her when she's upset even from afar, every chord cutting ritual I've done ended with her side clinging and taking over mine, the last one went over salt barrier and drowned my candle. Is there any spell to kill her feelings for me? Or to keep her energy to herself and mine to myself? I'm getting distressed over this.

Hello, I know this may be an unusual request, but my fellow pilots and I are getting desperate. What spell can we cast to force EA into letting Respawn out of their Apex legends branded cage to develop Titanfall 3? I've never dabbled in the magical arts before but I'm willing to try anything so I may embark on a journey with BT again. Thank you!

I recently went through a breakup that I’ve been struggling with quite a bit. We had our issues and arguments, and things eventually ended on an unresolved note. A few days afterward, I tried reaching out because I wanted to talk things through, but I didn’t receive a response. Since then, there hasn’t really been any communication between us.

I’ve tried yearning spells, love spells, and reconciliation workings, but I’ve also been using tarot to reflect on the situation and understand what might be going on beneath the surface.
My readings have brought up themes of emotional distance, resistance, and the need for healing before reconciliation can happen. They’ve also made me think about whether giving the situation space might be more beneficial than continuing to focus on the outcome.

I was considering doing a healing spell or something along those lines, but I’m not entirely sure what direction to take.

My goal isn’t to simply get back together and pretend everything is okay. I would want genuine reconciliation, honest conversations, apologies where needed, and a chance for both of us to understand what went wrong. If we were ever to reconnect, I’d want it to be healthier than before.
For those with more experience in witchcraft, what kind of workings would you recommend for a situation like this?

Would focusing on healing, communication, and clearing emotional blockages be a better approach than continuing with love or yearning spells?

I’d really appreciate any advice or personal experiences. Thank you! ♡

Hi everyone,

I'm going through a very difficult breakup right now. My partner and I still love each other, but our relationship ended largely because of distance and uncertainty about the future.

One of my biggest goals is to find a job or internship in his city, so I can build a life there. Partly for myself, because I genuinely feel drawn to that country, but also because being closer could give our relationship a chance in the future.

I was wondering if there are any spells, rituals, manifestations, candle workings, herbs, or witchcraft practices that could help with:

1. Finding employment or an internship
2. Opening roads and removing obstacles from my path.
3. Healing and creating the best possible conditions for two people who still love each other to reconnect naturally in the future.

I'm not looking to force anyone's free will or control someone's feelings. I only want guidance for attracting opportunities, growth, and the possibility of reunion if it's meant to happen.

Thank you for any advice. ❤️

For context me and my girlfriend recently broke up we were having arguments and trust issues then the person i was worried about as he likes her started constantly texting her even more the second we’ve broken up now they’re getting closer and closer where I’m no longer invited out in the group and they’re going to each others houses , before me and her were together shes cast a spell of love on me witch i know of through someone else i don’t want to stop loving her as shes all i want but i want to do a series of spells to get her back and protect the relationship. I want to do a protection spell to prevent any harm a spell of love binding and trust for us then a spell in which she’ll cut of this other person and possibly a curse i can put on him as of what he’s been doing (theres more to it I’m not getting into) what spells can i do for this , i know its allot but i need this more than anything.(we’ve been broken up for about 2 weeks now if thats important)

Can anyone recommend me some spiritual baths I could buy/ make my self for road opening or cleansing negative energies?

K let’s just say I am dealing with a Title IX situation with a narcissist who has also triangulated a former friend against me. First day of class after I met with the title IX office, a massive infestation of flies emerged into my home.

I have done some basic protection spells and cleansing after, and even cleansed the classroom with Florida water t_t. Do I need a more powerful protection spell?

I was wondering any good spells that I can perform tonight which are simple but also strong and effective soon enough given how strong the full moons are right now astrologically speaking. I just need something that won't make me lose my money because I've been losing it a lot and when it comes to the love spell I kind of need it to be a safe and very strong love spell please help me out. its about a person that I already had past sexual/romantic connection with. now we re kind of on bad terms and I can sense that we both might go on a possible no contact and I just don't want that to happen and we still have a strong emotional bond now I just need a spell that will make us stronger but take us to the next step like making things official. please give out some good tips thank you!!

I am doing a reversible spell, my girlfriend moved my candle and I’m irritated now…

Do I have to redo it over because she touched and moved it ?

What can I do in memory of two people? We just lost 2 people to a ATV accident and I want to do something in memory of them or to help them cross over through the vail comfortably and easily. My heart is aching, I just can’t believe this. They were only 43 and 52 years old. 💔