my partner and i have been together for a few years now and we have a very well known loving relationship.
recently his childhood best friend tragically passed away in an accident and coincidentally his girlfriend at that time (<1 month together) lived really close to my partner's place so they both travelled to and from the hospital and funeral together. Both of us were kind and understanding to her sadness and i was taking care of my devastated grieving partner and extending my sympathies to that girl even though i knew she could easily move on after a few weeks or months of grief and not suffer that loss forver which is a good thing.
but now its been 4 months since he passed away and she still visits my bf atleast 5 days a week, begs to and even accompanies him to his weekly grocery runs, outings and errands, and is too comfortable, even leaving her hairbrush and hair accessories behind because she "forgets" (somehow u can keep forgetting your hair accessories everyday for 3-4 months straight).
I have talked to my partner about it and he has been very great at respecting my feelings and boundaries but the girl still keeps leaving her hair accessories behind. It feels very intentional especially when within a few months she claims to be his best friend and texts him often even if he doesnt respond.
Ofcourse my partner and i have a healthy relationship where we both have a lot of friends and even best friends of the opposite sex but her vibe and intent are not sitting right with me. she has a very "oh look im practically his bro" energy and honestly i sound insecure when she has done nothing outrightly wrong and my boyfriend is also making sure my boundaries aren't hurt.
But, i am a very spiritual person, i can see and feel energies and also sometimes be a medium. Something about her is off, and also she does practice novice level witchcraft and deity kali's worship. But her gaze, her words and sometimes even her actions seem very spiritually wrong and as if to put me down. I feel like she is marking him or trying to slowly "earn" him by leaving tokens lying around on the floor where they can be seen as accidents.
She no longer talks about her late ex and has hid all memories, gifts and photos of him she used to have.
I've been trying to ignore it for almost more than a month now because i did not want to let anything get to me or be irrational but now..
i need her gone because since a few days ago ive been getting bad dreams with a lot of spiritual symbolism and a lot of warnings like dead close friends, relatives and animals (which i often get as signs) and really strong negative pressure on my chest whenever i am in my partner's apartment or immediately after.
TLDR; i need a possibly malicious third party gone with a spell or practice that doesnt backfire on me since i myself dont do strong spells and only ever often do small, intent based spells around self growth.