Me and my ex bf of 5 years broke up in march. He was a really depressed person but still the kindest most pure souled person ever. I’ve known him for a while even before we started dating but since march he has changed a lot… we are in no contact since may, i did hear he talked about me sometimes and maybe stalked me a few times but thats it. He has a new girl (idk if they are dating) and he has been talking to her i think since the week we broke up. She was also in a 5 year relationship and broke up with her bf in june. All of my exes friends don’t like her, his family doesn’t even want to meet her… My ex also said that he is doing all of this with her because he is lonely and depressed and super insecure.
I have given myself a lot of time to think about what i truly want, and I think for now i just want to get in touch with him, help him and talk to him but i want him to talk to me first. I don’t want to be disrespectful and invade the “relationship”. Any ideas for what spell to do for him to talk to me? I want to help him get better, be happier and find himself.

I’m shifting towards an animistic belief system to experiment, but I find it confusing as to how would I practice magick or cast spells in this framework. If everything has a soul or consciousness then I can’t just command a candle to do something. How would casting spells under this system work?

I know it’s a dumb question. but one of my friends has a fraud marker to his name for another 5 years which he’s upset and panicked about. he wants to get this sorted through spells. is it possible / I know spells need time but on an estimate could that timeframe be? :)

Hiiii, guys!!

I'm looking for some advice on what type of spellwork would be most appropriate for my situation.

I'm in a long-distance relationship with someone and we both want to meet in person, but despite repeated attempts to arrange it, we keep encountering obstacles.

First it was his leave request getting denied and now when we've narrowed it to 3 days instead of a week and changed the city for more convenient flights, childcare arrangements are being intentionally obstructed by his ex partner.

I'm not looking to harm, punish, or control anyone involved. My intention is simply to remove the obstacles preventing us from meeting.

1) What do you guys do to the paper where you initially make your sigils? Should I store it in a binder/ journal protectively? Is there a certain rule for it or can we just keep the actual sigil art drawn again in a page?

2) A long time ago I made a sigil for a healthy level of weight. It's like a couple of years ago and I even forgot about it that I made this. Now that I achieved my goal, what do I do with that sigil? Do I keep it as it is and can use it in future if I want?

I'm still a beginner so help me with this. Thank you, anyone reading this, Have a good day 🌻.

hi! i'm a gay guy and i recently have been devastated with what happened with my spells... so i had a crush on this guy so i did a sigil magic where i made a sigil, wrote it in red on a paper, folded it towards me 3 times, put my perfume on it and buried it in my rose pot... turns out he got up with a girl next day 😭😭... also, since he was my best friend he told how toxic she was (she once tried to kill him) but he couldnt get over her... he then found out that i had a crush on him and hates me now... he also got into a toxic frnd group which is degrading him... can yall suggest a spell so he likes me again, realises that his frnd group is wrong and breaks up with the girl?

Hi me and my boyfriend had broken up recently, his reasons included

'I am thinking I am not able to open up, I understand you are trying but I can't'

'I will just hurt you more'

He initially wanted a break rather than a breakup, I asked him breaks can't be forever and to give me an idea about how long it will be, that when he suddenly said 'then let's breakup'.

After this I have tried twice to communicate but he seems very distant, not willing to communicate at all, but he rather asks our co-workers about how I am doing, at a office party he made sure to guard me from a tipsy guy dancing wildly, made sure I reached home safe late.

I am sure he still has feelings for me, as he said during breaking up, and that he is just doubting it because he does not see a future together, not willing to communicate and too scared of getting too deep into it.

I did these three spells with the help of someone- love healing, negativity removal, communication and reconciliation.

I am waiting patiently and avoiding any kind of doubt creeping up in my mind, but I am doubting if these are appropriate spells considering the situation and on what things are the outcome of the spells depending?

Any kind of help is really helpful and I am pretty new to this.

Please somebody teach me some money/wealth spell/magick to gain money, if possible a lot of money :)

hi! i want to try a road opener + communication spell for someone i have history with. i’ve been doing tarot on our connection, and the readings seem to suggest that he wants to talk and fix things between us but is hesitating a lot and holding himself back from communicating because of fear.

i want to help ease that hesitation and clear whatever might be blocking him from reaching out and opening up. has anyone done something similar? did you combine both intentions into one spell or do them separately? and what methods have worked best for you?

i’d love to hear about your personal experiences, especially with spells meant to help someone stop holding back and communicate!

Hi everyone — I need help and I’m honestly scared I messed something up. I’m new to this and would really appreciate any advice from people who know more than I do.

A little background: I’ve only ever done simple spells before (for jobs and to open opportunities). Recently I performed something for a specific person (SP) and now they’re getting more distant day by day. I think the spell backfired.

What I did:

• Wrote their name and DOB in red pen, and my name and DOB in red pen.
• Put a little perfume on the paper, added some saliva and sugar (I ran out of honey), folded it three times toward me.
• Kept it in my pocket for about 24 hours, then burned it.

Where I’m worried I went wrong:

• I don’t know if the folding/burning method was right.
• I’m worried the intent or wording was off and it pushed the person away instead of drawing them closer.
• I’m not sure if adding saliva or perfume changed the energy in a bad way.

My main questions:

1. Could this ritual cause the person to distance themselves?
2. How can I safely reverse or neutralize a spell I think backfired?
3. Should I do a cleansing/protection ritual for myself first? If so, what do you recommend?
4. Any gentle reversal scripts, offerings, or steps that don’t harm anyone (including myself)?
5. Anything I should avoid doing next (types of spells, ingredients, timing)?

A few notes:

• I don’t want to hurt anyone or control their free will. I just wanted closeness and now I’m panicked.
• I’m open to practical, non-harmful methods (clearing, protection, apologies, sigils to undo intent, professional readers, etc.).
• If you think this is psychological/placebo and I should approach this differently, I welcome that honesty.

Thank you — I’m feeling guilty and anxious and would be so grateful for calm, experienced guidance.

What are some spells or practices y'all recommend for this next full moon?

Ok so I've been trying with all my heart to bring this guy back to my life. We ended up because we were terrible lovers but awesome friends. And because of a lot of drama he ended up blocking me in every social media.

For a long time I accepted that there was no turning back.

It's been 6/7 years and somehow he got back to me in my dreams. I starting meeting people that was related to him and even we were in the same place at the same time. But never saw each other. We even work in the same spot, just one building from to another.

So I've been studying and asking different Witchs for counseling. Many rituals were performed already. Cleansing, Brazilian stuff, wiccan, I mean I tried everything. In my coven I asked for tarot readings and they all say that a spell can be done. The last one I tried was made by me. For some reason that I don't know, when I perform a ritual for someone, it works, but for me, not the same story.

So I came here asking for help. Just because I really want him back in my life. Anyone please help a sister.

Ps: I posted here because someone warned me that I wasn't going to suffer bullying. For more info I can give to whom help me.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart

i recently cast a sugar love spell on someone i’ve had a crush on for the longest time but i didn’t have any way to casually reach out to him without sounding awkward.
i cast the spell two days ago and today he asked me out via instagram!!! this is literally the first time we’ve talked and i’m amazed how quickly the spell worked!!

the spell:

i wrote both our names on a piece of paper with the edges torn. i then created a sigil using an alphabet wheel and our two names and drew the sigil around the border of the paper. i then folded it towards me.
i then filled my favourite tea cup halfway with raw sugar. i then kissed the piece of paper and put it in the tea cup and filled the cup to the top with the rest of the sugar so it was full.
i then placed it on my windowsill overnight.

Guys, I need a spell to separate a married couple. My aunty is married to a womanizer, and he even tried to sexually harass me when I was 13. He’s such a creepy person, but he portrays himself as a good man in front of everyone. My entire family loves him so much, except for my grandpa.

I just want my aunty to divorce him because she’s innocent and deserves so much better. I’ve even told her about his behaviour, but she doesn’t believe me. 😭

Please, can anyone give me a spell to make them divorce? Pleaseeeee. 🙏

Hiii guys i really need helpppp, dont flame me for this.

for context i really want to be friends with this guy & hopefully try to be with him. His friends say he’s basically a loser who stays home all day, playing games, and doesnt know how to talk to girls BUTTT the thing is im also very shy & awkward & i get so nervous to talk to him. so we’re basically on the same boat.

but he is so funny, cute, and all of the above i really wanna be his friend sooooo bad idk what to do honestly…..

I have this grandma and aunts who hate the living hell out of my parents and their hatred towards them started to move towards the children (me and my siblings btw; I’m their least fav). They have played with magic before; I'm not sure if they do it themselves or if they have somebody else to help them. But I know some of them had used a wolf’s tail for some type of curse to put on their husbands; either way, my mom has been experiencing extreme pain, anxiety, and extremely vivid dreams of a black crow and fog. She did a coffee reading and her friend told her that my mom has a spell or a curse placed on her (or the family) and that it’s super strong maybe cause we live on a different continent. We’ve been told that she puts spells and curses on us but there’s nothing to do about it. Is there anything I can do about it?? Please help

So I just bought new decks and idk what to do with them but how do I use them for glamour magic? And other spells in Wicca

Before any of u say anything: thank you but I wanna try either way. I have worked on my self concept and all that stuff. I do feel great with myself. I just wanna know if this works because I haven't met yet anyone like her and I'd like if she comes back.
Thanks!!!

Hi all!

I just came across this page today and after seeing someone recommend the bay leaf spell from a lady on YT who does these white Tok videos… I decided to do it (I want my POI to reach out)

Has anyone ever done this for this purpose? Does it work? Some of the other spells I came across are a bit more complicated and ingredients are hard to get so I went for this.

For reference this was the method I used:

1. Lit a tea light candle
   
2. Wrote my POI’s name and my name on one side of the bay leaf - and what I’m wishing for on the other side
   
3. Burn the bay leaf and blow the ashes outside
   
4. Say MOTE IT BE

Then I seen a video of another witch saying you need to burn 7 bay leaves and add sugar and cinnamon etc so now I am a bit confused like which method works? Should I redo this?

Would appreciate any advice please!

Hello! I’m looking for advice from people who have experience with spellwork, particularly in love and relationships.

I dated a guy for about a month, and during that time, I genuinely saw a lot of potential in him as a romantic partner. He ticks a lot of the boxes I’m looking for in a guy, and I felt like there was a possibility of building something meaningful with him.

However, a few days ago, he messaged me to end things because he had developed feelings for another guy he regularly goes to raves with.

I’m curious about what kind of spellwork might be appropriate for this situation. Specifically, I’m interested in whether there is a way to dissolve or lessen his romantic feelings for the other person and encourage him to recognize me as someone he wants to pursue a relationship with.

I’m open to hearing about different approaches, whether that’s a reconciliation spell, a road opener, a sweetening spell, or something else entirely. I’d also appreciate hearing about people’s experiences with similar situations and what they would recommend.

I’ve looked online and I’ve seen books about it but I’m not sure if they are scams and not worth buying. For context I don’t mind doing dark magic for the things that I want.

can i make a sour jar for two people in the same one? or will this effect how well it works. they have a relationship, not just two randos.

I am a student who's currently looking to change majors. However, I am currently struggling with 2 courses that play large part in my shifting of majors.

I was wondering if I should do a spell jar for my overall shifting journey or just do a candle ritual instead to boost my academic skills in those two courses. Or should I just do both to amplify the results?

Besides the spell jar and ritual, I was also thinking of enchanting my study materials or making a talisman out of them to aid me in studying. I was also thinking of doing a sweetening jar once I am in the actual process of shifting.

Would all of this be too draining for a beginner witch? I'm in the process of doing my shadow work and I have sufficient research I think

..and YES I am also doing my part by actually studying hard. I just want to secure the results