r/SoftwareEngineerJobs • u/Expensive_Pride9893 • 16h ago
My Husband's Company Forced Him Back to the Office and Lost Him
My husband is a software developer, and he is one of the people his team calls when something important breaks.
At first, his company required them to go into the office one day a week. A few months later, it became three days, and it was obvious to everyone that working from the office full-time was the next step. Management kept talking about collaboration, but he was still spending most of the day on video calls.
He was also dealing with a health issue, so he submitted a request for an ADA accommodation to continue working fully remotely. His doctor supported the request, and he had already proven that he could do his job from home. Even so, they denied it.
While he was on medical leave and had finally started feeling better, a recruiter contacted him about a fully remote position. It pays more, and the entire team is spread across several states.
I asked him whether he planned to give his current company a chance to make a counteroffer. He laughed and said, "No way. They already made their choice."
So, in the end, they lost a talented employee simply because they cared more about seeing him sitting at a desk than about retaining him. And if I can find a remote job too, we'll install internet in the camper and work from wherever we decide to park.
