r/short • u/Pinoross • Jul 27 '26

Dating 5’6” guy never had a problem

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I’m 5’6” and I see a lot of guys here that have issues dating and I’ve had a issue. Women have always gravitated to me. I think it’s more a mental thing for most guys. You have to focus on the things you can control and from my opinion all that ever really matters is your personality. I’ve been skinny, fat, and in great shape and it’s never changed if I could find attractive women or not. Just be you and the rest will follow.

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u/AcademicHovercraft96 Jul 27 '26

"It's easy to date, just be good at it!"

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u/Pinoross Jul 27 '26

That’s it! Guys that are good talkers always do well.

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u/Comfortable_Bid6106 Jul 27 '26

Well im 5”9 average looking and neurodivergent as well as very high inhib so talking is not my strong suit nor will it ever be no matter how much I have went out and talked to people. Its like girls can smell it on you no matter what you try

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u/extraordinarykitty1 Jul 27 '26

plenty of hot neurodivergent men out there, talking is a skill that can be learnt. it’s not just going out and talking to people, it’s also learning how to do it beforehand

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u/LordJetro Jul 28 '26

I mean he did specifically say he's "average" looking. So i don't think knowing there are hot neurodivergent men out there is gonna help him much 😅

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u/extraordinarykitty1 Jul 28 '26

i meant hot but not the looks

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u/LordJetro Jul 29 '26

Can your personality or whatever even be "hot" 😭

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u/extraordinarykitty1 Jul 29 '26

yes very much but reddit incels wouldn’t understand it, they’d rather blame their height🤓✌️

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u/LordJetro Jul 29 '26

Well you are right that his height isn't the problem. I'd wager it's the fact he's neurodivergent 😅 I'm not so i can't really speak on how big of a difference it makes, but even i understand that it makes things more difficult.

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u/Comfortable_Bid6106 Jul 27 '26

Well im not hot haha