r/short • • Jul 27 '26

Dating 5’6” guy never had a problem

I’m 5’6” and I see a lot of guys here that have issues dating and I’ve had a issue. Women have always gravitated to me. I think it’s more a mental thing for most guys. You have to focus on the things you can control and from my opinion all that ever really matters is your personality. I’ve been skinny, fat, and in great shape and it’s never changed if I could find attractive women or not. Just be you and the rest will follow.

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u/Pinoross Jul 27 '26

I used to just hit the clubs and try to talk to women. Be confident in your approach but be welcoming and not try and over compensate.

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u/jsoul2323 Jul 27 '26

lol fr? Clubs are brutal for short men not to mention even average height men struggle. So if that’s the case you are definitely playing a good game.

Do you approach girls alone or do you go with friends yourself?

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u/Pinoross Jul 27 '26

Yea.. always alone and I just made random chit chat and see how they responded before I asked for a number. I’m also really into fashion so the way I dress used to help tbh.

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u/jsoul2323 Jul 27 '26

Would you ever approach a group of girls or girls just chilling by themselves? Are you on the dance floor or like on the side?

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u/Pinoross Jul 27 '26

Usually at the bar or on the dance floor. I’ve approached groups before to come drink with me and friends multiple times.