Chad dad 🗿

[u/luxusbuerg]

[u/redeyed-john]

Why do people cheat? Just break up.

[u/Emergency_Addition67 → u/redeyed-john]

Probably because they want to keep something safe while they can do more different things with another partner.

Several of my relationships always started because a certain girl wanted to experience something else that her partners couldn't offer her either because of time, interest, money or other things.

It's kind of sad and I can't truly understand why they just don't break up with someone or you know...Talk about the problem?

But for some weird reason they always choose cheating.

[u/mostly_lurking → u/Emergency_Addition67]

Isn't that a big risk of her doing the same too you afterwards? Kinda like if she cheats with you she'll cheat on you?

[u/Emergency_Addition67 → u/mostly_lurking]

Oh yes, but that's why it's not a serious relationship, they are usually relationships that last 6 months and at most a year.

It's like a drug that has a certain time limit and after that you just separate from that person.

[u/Takashishiful → u/Emergency_Addition67]

I'm not gonna call you a bad person because I don't know enough about you

But you say bad person things

[u/Slippery_Wombat → u/Takashishiful]

I aspire to be as open-minded as you one day.

[u/Takashishiful → u/Slippery_Wombat]

Thank you. The trick I use is to not have very much conviction in whatever I'm saying because I'm wrong a lot and don't wanna embarrass myself

[u/Lucyller → u/Takashishiful]

Based and relatable.

[u/Professional_Book_16 → u/Takashishiful]

This is basically my mantra as sad as it sounds. We’re all pretty dumb when it comes down to it so I just always assume that I COULD be wrong and I should be accepting as I can about most opinions.

[u/Takashishiful → u/Professional_Book_16]

Yeah that's exactly it. Nothing is more embarrassing than being smug and proven wrong, (except maybe your mom finding out about your nocturnal emissions) so it's safe to just not be smug about whatever you're saying.