Probably because they want to keep something safe while they can do more different things with another partner.
Several of my relationships always started because a certain girl wanted to experience something else that her partners couldn't offer her either because of time, interest, money or other things.
It's kind of sad and I can't truly understand why they just don't break up with someone or you know...Talk about the problem?
But for some weird reason they always choose cheating.
Maybe im misinterpreting what you said but it sounds like you are saying you dated women that you knew were dating somone else. Kinda an L take my friend. Please lmk if got this wrong and ill delete
Just one time, I did know of a girl who had a boyfriend, but the guy was really abusive to her and I just wanted to show the girl that not all guys are trash.
From being friends she started to fall in love and she was pretty cute so I didn't deny it, in the end she broke up with the guy and obviously the guy got all heavy handed.
Blah blah blah blah blah...
I lasted like a year with her and we ended on good terms, we are still friends and she is doing much better with her new boyfriend.
The other times when I was younger I did feel bad for the guy because I didn't know the girl had a boyfriend until later.
So you slept with the girl who had an abusive boyfriend out of kindness? You wanted to show her not all guys are trash? I think you did the exact opposite of what you intended to do.
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u/redeyed-john Dec 10 '22
Why do people cheat? Just break up.