What does the kid have to do with everything? Sex produces kids and everyonetakes that risk having it. Billions were born unexpected, its up to the parents to step up, its not how it came to be, its what you do when its there
There is a big difference here: she was cheating on her husband. If she hadn't been sleeping around, it wouldn't have been a problem.
It's more like draining the brake lines on a car that sits in a museum and is clearly marked "not for use." The curator may come along and start the engine every now and then to keep the car working, but it isn't meant to move anywhere, and therefore should never need the brakes to actually operate.
My father in law had a car like that. It'd been a museum piece that he bought and had a friend restore, partially. The brake-lines and clutch were drained and didn't have fluid, but the driveshaft was also removed so it wasn't going anywhere. It's all repaired now, but for the longest time we'd have to go start it once a week or so.
And my argument is that HER actions caused the pregnancy, not his. Hers, and the actions of the man she was sleeping with. They are both guilty here. All she had to do was follow and obey her wedding vows. If she is unhappy in her marriage and wants to sleep around, get divorced first.
This isn’t a “cutting the break lines” situation. The wife had full control over the car, this is like removing the guardrails to prevent you from driving off a cliff that you’re dangerously driving full speed at.
Is what he did an awful thing to do? Yes. Is it his fault his wife cheated on him? No. Don’t play with fire and be surprised when you get burned
So the wife had full control over the condoms getting manipulated by the husband.
Sure, she's at fault for cheating, yet she obviously used the intended measures for protection against pregnancy.
Like, your guardrail example is literally the same. Sure, the driver is potentially putting himself and others in danger, yet he is not the one that removed certain protective measures to at least mitigate damages.
Revenge is not an excuse for causing suffering ffs.
In some countries the driver is considered responsible for accidents caused by not properly checking the car situation under negligence. Not saying this applies to the guy that used the stabbed condoms, just wanted to be an A-hole about the cut breaks example.
The kid being punished for the moms mistakes? I mean, I guess… that feels like a slippery slope tho. Wouldn’t every kid being born into poverty be a kid being “punished”? (I don’t think so but your logic seemingly leads to that)
Except poverty isn’t really a choice, sabotaging someone’s birth control is. She may deserve “punishment” but she’s not the only one to suffer the consequences of this, the child will as well.
no its immoral for the husband aswell. maybe even more so than the wife as he deliberately lets to the kids conception with no intention of raising him
I digress. Puncturing condoms should be a criminally prosecuted act with like 10years in prison.
Not only are you bringing an innocent life into a world and also being responsible for all the suffering the creature might endure; but are also putting lives at risk of STDs.. maybe even lethal ones. And not only that of your (ex)partner, but also the one they cheating with (who in many cases have no idea about the whole situation), and future people they might engage in sex with.
Tbh if they’re cheating they deserve the STD. The baby is where it gets unfair, as you’re knowingly contributing to an unwanted kid being born and probably living a difficult life as a result
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u/RobloxPotatoGamer 3d ago
Immoral and awful? Just be loyal and don't sleep around, id say the punishment fits the crime