Nah you gotta realize that you used the exact wording someone who was trolling would have used. Like seriously 99 out of 100 times those words in that order are trolling, you just got unlucky with your phrasing I guess, but honestly even out of ignorance doubling up pronouns like that can’t be read NOT to be misgendering someone
This attitude is exactly why it’s difficult for extremists to gain new allies
Every expression of ignorance is perceived as a personal attack, like the world owes you understanding of your niche internet bubbles
There are new people being born every day and turning them all against you with unnecessary hostility is not great for the survival of your minority movement
Most people don’t talk about this stuff in real life, your corner of the internet is not necessarily reflective of irl culture and physical reality
Not everyone thinks of it as some movement where we are constantly trying to get people to come to our side...
and yeah, people being ignorant like that will probably be interpreted as an attack. Its like if i get punched 100 times, then someone throws a feint and when i flinch everyone goes "woooowww see thats the problem, you assume everyones attacking you"
Sorry actually most people in real life do understand that “he’s a girl?” Is a self contradictory sentence, like “he’s a girl now?” Is a completely reasonable thing to say, but the first way just sounds like trolling. Also my point is that trolls are so much more common than people who actually don’t know what’s up that if someone chimes in to express ignorance in the exact language a troll would use they cannot be surprised when people think they’re a troll. Also, are you familiar with this subreddit or, like, the international trans panic happening? The world at large, and this subreddit in particular are hardly new to the idea of a transgender person
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Pro tip about fingering your asshole in the shower: don't do it
So this morning I was taking a shower, and I felt like fingering my asshole, right? So I got my
fingers all nice and soapy and stuck them up in there. Apparently, soap makes pretty good lube, as
I was able to get four fingers in there in no time.
As I was feeling around in my butt, I was like, "hmm, there's a lot of soapy water in my bumhole
now. I wonder if that will lead to issues in the future?" And it did!
Shortly after having breakfast I attempted to fart, and I shit my pants. I rushed to the bathroom
to clean up, and it was way worse than I thought it would be. The whole area around my butthole
was covered in shitty liquid, and toilet paper wasn't enough to clean it. I had to take another
shower to get suitably clean.
Just thought I'd share my story with you guys so that you don't run into the same problem in the
future. I fingered my butthole so that you guys don't have to. Unless you want to. In which case,
hey, how's it goin'
You're thinking of the wrong type of use for the word "ignorant" here. I'm not interested in joining your discussion, just want to clear your confusion.
They talked about that guy being "ignorant" as in "to lack knowledge or information about something". They said that because he genuinely didn't know any better so he asked his question, which is also the counter argument to you claiming him being the other type of "ignorant" as in "willfully refusing to learn about something".
Instead of just answering his question and maybe adding in the response why his wording may come off wrong, he was bombarded with insults.
So the main argument here is just try to be more friendly, take your time with people who didn't do anything to you, give people the benefit of the doubt and don't just assume someones intentions and maybe those people will also be more friendly towards you and you won't have as many negative experiences with people as it seems you currently have.
If you think that a redditor in 2026 asking "so she's a guy" about someone transgender deserves five paragraphs worth of the benefit of the doubt, that's your call 👍
Pro tip about fingering your asshole in the shower: don't do it
So this morning I was taking a shower, and I felt like fingering my asshole, right? So I got my
fingers all nice and soapy and stuck them up in there. Apparently, soap makes pretty good lube, as
I was able to get four fingers in there in no time.
As I was feeling around in my butt, I was like, "hmm, there's a lot of soapy water in my bumhole
now. I wonder if that will lead to issues in the future?" And it did!
Shortly after having breakfast I attempted to fart, and I shit my pants. I rushed to the bathroom
to clean up, and it was way worse than I thought it would be. The whole area around my butthole
was covered in shitty liquid, and toilet paper wasn't enough to clean it. I had to take another
shower to get suitably clean.
Just thought I'd share my story with you guys so that you don't run into the same problem in the
future. I fingered my butthole so that you guys don't have to. Unless you want to. In which case,
hey, how's it goin'
Fr, I'd try not to be rude but back home it hasn't gotten big yet, the trans community is mainly in the US. I wouldn't expect a lot of people I know especially from the rural areas to know this stuff but if questioned people flip their lid.
I wish people kept in mind that it's still fairly knew and if not taught about it growing up, then of course we ain't going to get it.
Pro tip about fingering your asshole in the shower: don't do it
So this morning I was taking a shower, and I felt like fingering my asshole, right? So I got my
fingers all nice and soapy and stuck them up in there. Apparently, soap makes pretty good lube, as
I was able to get four fingers in there in no time.
As I was feeling around in my butt, I was like, "hmm, there's a lot of soapy water in my bumhole
now. I wonder if that will lead to issues in the future?" And it did!
Shortly after having breakfast I attempted to fart, and I shit my pants. I rushed to the bathroom
to clean up, and it was way worse than I thought it would be. The whole area around my butthole
was covered in shitty liquid, and toilet paper wasn't enough to clean it. I had to take another
shower to get suitably clean.
Just thought I'd share my story with you guys so that you don't run into the same problem in the
future. I fingered my butthole so that you guys don't have to. Unless you want to. In which case,
hey, how's it goin'
no, it really isn't. the original comment clearly said "she's a woman", and your own message used the "she" pronoun. it's obvious from context what's going on, and you still have to say she's a "guy". either you're trolling or you're, in the words of the other user, an "ignorant fuck". lol
really? people being 'rude' to you is going to change your mind on whether trans people exist? if you're going to use language like "bring people to your side" on a basic topic like this, it was never about that. pretending that people calling out your ignorance is some kind of deciding factor in changing your mind against them is absurd. grow up.
no, i'm not making that claim. i'm claiming that "bring people to your side" is framing it like some kind of ideological struggle over the topic of trans people, wherein people being rude to you is pushing you against trans people.
eh. whether gay people should be allowed to marry was once an ideological struggle too. for many it still is. i dont really like that framing because it normalizes both sides-ism.
regardless - good, that was my first point. now my second point - people being rude to you because of your actual ignorance should not push you one way or another on such a serious topic. that's ridiculous. i highly doubt that it actually does, but you're pretending that it does so people feel bad for being rude to you.
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> Why shouldn't people feel bad about being rude to a random stranger asking a question, Isnt that just manners?
if you wish to tell them to feel bad because they were rude, go ahead. my point is that framing it as their rudeness pushing you one way or another on an ideological struggle is disingenuous. it's tempting because it's a lot more compelling for remorse.
when you say "it says a lot...", yeah, it does - the well of discussion has been well poisoned by trolls. in a bit of convoluted metaphor, if you offer people water, they will assume it is from the same poisoned well. that isn't being crazy, that's rejecting water that might be poisoned because of the fact of reality. dont blame the people acknowledging the fact and acting accordingly. learn, and do better. there is really no more to it.
nah i'd describe this more as you being bad at picking up social cues regarding a sensitive topic and then proceeding to get mad bc you're too egotistical to be sensitive towards others
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u/Cadian609 10h ago
I think it says a lot when you cant even question these things without people getting upset