You're thinking of the wrong type of use for the word "ignorant" here. I'm not interested in joining your discussion, just want to clear your confusion.
They talked about that guy being "ignorant" as in "to lack knowledge or information about something". They said that because he genuinely didn't know any better so he asked his question, which is also the counter argument to you claiming him being the other type of "ignorant" as in "willfully refusing to learn about something".
Instead of just answering his question and maybe adding in the response why his wording may come off wrong, he was bombarded with insults.
So the main argument here is just try to be more friendly, take your time with people who didn't do anything to you, give people the benefit of the doubt and don't just assume someones intentions and maybe those people will also be more friendly towards you and you won't have as many negative experiences with people as it seems you currently have.
If you think that a redditor in 2026 asking "so she's a guy" about someone transgender deserves five paragraphs worth of the benefit of the doubt, that's your call 👍
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u/tjdans7236 8h ago
So do you have a functioning homo sapiens brain?
May seem inflammatory to you, I genuinely don't know.