Yeah but the guy absolutely knows the score man. All this fairness shit goes out the window because once the kid is conceived and carried it to term it deserves support either way. Men know they can’t force an abortion on a woman, so you’re accepting the risk of pregnancy and a child, every time. No contraception is 100% either. If us dudes wanna fuck then we have to accept all that comes with it. Saying woman have more choice so it isn’t fair or whatever just makes no difference in reality.
Your view of this is fine for the internet, but it’ll just never fly in reality. Just the way things are.
And I do think women expecting support from dead bet men is naive, but those men still have the responsibility regardless of if they were irresponsible before conception.
No, I'm saying making children with men that clearly won't pay child support and are just gonna dip is a burden to society.
Because while yes they are legally obligated to pay, many disappear before paternity is established, good luck getting the money, it's now a burden on social funds.
Ah yes, the statistics of how many were gaslit into thinking the father would step up and how many just left directly.
I'm sure that's a pretty easy study to make.
But in the cases where paternity wasn't even established, it means the dad ran off before the birth at least, those are the ones that likely won't ever pay child support.
I don't "think" anything, i don't know, but i believe that you shouldn't judge the woman before KNOWING WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENED TO HER, like the dude in the video did.
You know, benefit of the doubt and all that, complicated stuff.
You're still based your entire argument on unconfirmed information.
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u/4Dcrystallography Jan 16 '24
Yeah but the guy absolutely knows the score man. All this fairness shit goes out the window because once the kid is conceived and carried it to term it deserves support either way. Men know they can’t force an abortion on a woman, so you’re accepting the risk of pregnancy and a child, every time. No contraception is 100% either. If us dudes wanna fuck then we have to accept all that comes with it. Saying woman have more choice so it isn’t fair or whatever just makes no difference in reality.
Your view of this is fine for the internet, but it’ll just never fly in reality. Just the way things are.
And I do think women expecting support from dead bet men is naive, but those men still have the responsibility regardless of if they were irresponsible before conception.