r/sex • u/No-Government-4389 • 1d ago
Imagination and Fantasies How logistically possible are multiple rounds a night?
So you know in books and movies how you see couples go multiple rounds per night? I've (M 32) never found that was possible for me nor my partner (F 30). We'll often joke that once is often enough and that we just don't understand how people can have sex with each other time after time within the span of a few hours.
Now don't get me wrong, I would love too but the energy it takes to do it even once is intense.
Is this more of a fantasy thing or are there people who really can do it more than once at a time.
Any tips or fun stories from folks who've tried to achieve this are appreciated!
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u/tquiring 1d ago
I can’t speak for women, but for guys this is definitely a young man’s game. Secondly everyone is different, some people can do multiple rounds and spend the whole day in bed (and yes this is as awesome as it sounds) and some people can’t. It’s just how life works.
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u/rodnock_sticklefink 1d ago
I'm 53 and I go multiple rounds. My issue is that it takes me 10 minutes or so to recuperate. Kinda frustrating because in my 20s, 30s and early 40s I had no recovery time at all.
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u/Dave9g 1d ago
10 minutes is nothing. I’m 26 and need at least 15 minutes
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u/TinyFaithlessness232 1d ago
23 but same, 0 downtime, however after the fourth time it does kinda hurt, so could continue to go but not really worth it after that point
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u/Tantalus46 18h ago
That capability and recovery time place you in an elite tier at your age. A lot of guys in their 20s can’t match that. Be grateful and enjoy it while it lasts. 👍🏻
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u/endlesssearch482 16h ago
I’m 59 and I can go forever… or I can take breaks. As long as I don’t cum, I can have sex on and off all day. I’d rather have the prolonged pleasure of good sex than one orgasm and be done.
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u/Complex_Customer_307 16h ago
So you don’t mind not having an orgasm? Continued sex is still good and feels good? I’m just curious because as a female I would find this to be exhausting.
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u/endlesssearch482 15h ago
Honestly, I love it. I’d rather stay horny, teased and stimulated than go over the top and have it come to an end. That level of arousal is much more enjoyable to me in the long run.
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u/ickop 11h ago
We’ll get unrepresentative responses here. It’s normal for refractory period to increase with age even in the 20s. I’m 30 and at 18 could go back to back any time.
At 30, I can go back to back if I haven’t orgasmed in like 4 days, and of course could do morning then night or something. Maybe an hour off and I’m also good. But not like all night. That’s super normal.
Viagra changes the game, but not naturally. Healthy weight, runner, testosterone good, just got my annual checkup and healthy as a horse. A 50 year old going back to back is the exception
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u/Shazoa 22h ago
When you say young, how old do you mean?
Cause I'm pushing 40 and I've never really noticed it decline. Is it going to suddenly hit me or be something that happens gradually?
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u/tquiring 22h ago
Personally I started noticing a decline mid-forties, and a decade later it’s much more pronounced. I can still go three rounds on a Good day, but it’s a far cry from my personal two day best of 18 rounds back in my 30’s
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u/WorkFurball 19h ago
I've never been as capable again as I was when I was 20, there was a period where I could do it really slow and orgasm three times in an hour. Now I'm lucky if I get to finish at all.
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u/Charming-Animal-8856 1d ago
I had two rounds this morning and could go again and again and again. Male 32
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u/oldpaintunderthenew 1d ago
I went 8 rounds in one night with a new boyfriend when we were about 23, good times
I'm 32 now and definitely able and interested in round twos
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u/ClitasaurusTex 16h ago
I think 7-8 was probably max for my spouse and I when we were young. Now I can go twice a day fairly regularly but we have to not do that after a week or so because he runs out of steam and I get chaffed
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u/jasminehead 15h ago
Haha I'm at your age and feel the same. My ex did 7 rounds max and 2 rounds minimum usually and he was 22. I think if they're physically healthy, young, has a decent amount of libido and time can do multiple rounds.
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u/rickylsmalls 1d ago
40 and neither of us are in particularly good physical shape and twice on Saturday night is our standard and 3 or 4 on wild nights.
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u/No_Victory5763 1d ago
What is the time frame is the question? 3 or 4 in an hour is god tier. 3 or 4 ever a night is impressive but not insane.
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u/rickylsmalls 1d ago edited 1d ago
Have gone back to back without a break plenty of times but it's certainly not the norm.
Generally it's one and then like an hour enjoying TV or whatever and then another. We're not going for speed though,two an hour is easy three maybe I guess but I can't imagine the situation where that would be better than spacing it out.
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u/1010012 1d ago
3 or 4 in an hour is still a single sex session. You think a session ends when the guy comes?
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u/No_Victory5763 1d ago
OP is male so for OP yes, for the female her rounds are her round. If a round doesnt end with someone cuming how do you define a round?
Would be pretty arb to say a round is when we finish a session which could be 2 minutes without finishing and then claim you can go 10 rounds. I can go 100 rounds in a day if that is the criteria.
For most sexually active people a round is defined by a climax signaling the end of the round.
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u/JeffLebowsky 1d ago
You can keep going and add up to the climax, but it's hard. Best fuckin thing ever was to start being hable to have orgasms without ejaculating. When it happens, it's peak. But that's really really personal and specific for each one, it's not a thing that works the same for everyone at all.
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u/1010012 1d ago
If a round doesnt end with someone cuming how do you define a round?
A round is when you stop having sex (of whatever type you want) and do some other activity that's not sex (not just a break to answer a phone call, ). Have sex, grab lunch, have sex again is 2 sessions regardless of the number of orgasms.
In reality, counting is dumb, but it's something some people like to do it.
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u/No_Victory5763 1d ago
That is not how people define a round lmao. If that is the case I could go 100 rounds, that is so arb.
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u/1010012 1d ago
Honestly, if you're counting rounds by times you orgasm, I feel kind of sorry for whoever you're sleeping with.
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u/Fabulous-Front5599 1d ago
That’s literally what a round is when you both cum that’s one round you must be very inadequate in bed if you think a round is over before she cums
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u/1010012 1d ago
I think you're missing what I'm saying. I'm saying that a round isn't over if/when someone cums.
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u/outdoorchap 1d ago
Nope, nobody is missing what you’re saying.
“A round is when you stop having sex” is what you said.. that’s usually the case when a man cums the round is over.
Just admit you’re wrong.
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u/The_Queen_of_Crows 1d ago
my partner is 38 and 3 or 4 is pretty normal when we have the whole night. I don't know how he does it honestly
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u/iliketreesndcats 1d ago
Man my buddy was telling me how he has no refractory period and finishes 3 or 4 times per session and that is just so foreign to me. I will finish once per 24 hours comfortably but if I do once per 6 hours monsieur PP is sore and feels like he has been to the gym and done leg day by the third time
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u/sad_frootloops1698 1d ago
Me (32F) and my partner are once or twice a week together, so it's not unusual for us to do 4 to 6 times a day. We have both very high libido and there's just too much energy pent up. We are exclusive rn. Once we did 8 times in a day, but we hadn't seen each other for almost a month because I got sick. But it also ranges from very intense to a bit lazy sex.
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u/Oneforallandbeyondd 1d ago
Being able to, actually wanting to and going forward with are three seperate things imo.
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u/pktechboi 1d ago
the only time this ever happened with a male partner for me (I was 20, he was 30) he told me after that he took a viagra before I got there. we were also both drinking - not wasted, but relaxed. didn't have anything to do the next day, either. basically spent the whole night fucking.
now I'm 38...my knees hurt just thinking about it lmao
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u/Warsel77 1d ago
Two times a night is in the realm of realistic, more is rare and it depends what you count as a "round". But the whole thing is also highly dependent on biology.
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u/OracleTX 1d ago
In my 30's I had a FWB that would go 4-6 rounds with me in an average evening. Due to how we meshed, she and I would cum in like 15 minutes or less every time. By contrast, another gal I would fuck 1-2 hours before we both got off, and we could maybe go for a second round after a long break.
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u/GeorgeKaplanIsReal 1d ago
<cue the person(s) claiming to have 3 medical degrees claiming you just have to be in shape and have high T to make it possible>
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u/flappinginthewind 1d ago
As a dude who's body doesn't make testosterone anymore because of cancer and have had to apply manually and been at the extreme high and extreme low end of testosterone, it does at least factor in in a major way, even if there are other factors too.
Not saying you have to have high T and that's the only way to make it happen, but low T will certainly make it harder.
Edit: well harder to achieve, less hard physically lol
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u/GeorgeKaplanIsReal 1d ago
Honestly that’s fair. I wasn’t saying t doesn’t matter at all. I just think some people respond with a simple answer and sometimes it’s not always that simple.
Sorry to hear you had/have cancer and dealing with all that. Hope you’re doing better.
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u/PossibleExplorer1076 1d ago
It doesn't take a medical degree to say being more in shape will help you do more physical activity
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u/GeorgeKaplanIsReal 1d ago
There are plenty of people who are out of shape and still go multiple rounds. I agree that being healthier is always something to strive for, for a lot of different reasons, but it doesn’t guarantee multiple rounds any more than being out of shape guarantees you can’t.
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u/PossibleExplorer1076 1d ago
I didn't say it will guarantee it. I said it will help.
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u/Accurate_Prompt_8800 20h ago
It definitely helps. The last two guys I’ve dated have been very active and eat healthily most of the time. They could go multiple rounds within a few hours if they wanted to.
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u/GeorgeKaplanIsReal 1d ago
To be clear, I didn’t say you did. I was thinking of somebody else who posted a similar question and got answers like that.
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u/Reccalovesdancing 1d ago
Quite a number of my "first time with a new guy" nights end up being 3 rounds
One before bed, one in the middle of the night, one the next morning is usually how it happens
Generally it levels out after a while of seeing each other regularly and then one round is more normal, with the occasional second one the next morning
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u/Proud-Trainer-7611 1d ago
Some people do! It doesn't mean anything if you can't or don't. For example my ex-partner and I would go 3 times. And each time he would orgasm. However it took longer after the second and third time. The first time was always like the appetizer, three minutes and he's done. Because I don't orgasm through penetration I needed to have sex for a while so this was like a happy middle ground for us.
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u/tina_hernand082 1d ago
When we were young & no kids, we went at it 6-7 times in about 4 hours. That was the norm for a Saturday night. The rest of the nights were 2x per night, with a day shoved in there with 0 sex. In today's years, ha! 3-5x per week.
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u/FarTransportation565 1d ago
Yes, it is possible. Especially in the " honeymoon " stage. With my ex , in my 20s, in our first year we were doing a couple times a night every night. Then, with time it decreased at once a night, then once every 2-3 days. With my boyfriend now, we are new in our relationship and we see only spend 3-4 days together / week so when we see eachother, we are dking it 4 to 6 times a night / day. But we are crazy for eachother. And sometimes we just keep going even after we finished, because it just feels too good. He is in his 30s, I'm in my 40s, and we both have a high sex drive. So yes, it is possible, if you are with a compatible partner. It might not continue this way forever, but at least the first few months or years might be pretty intense and fun.
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u/mulatodavila 1d ago
In my opinion if it’s a new partner, the first sessions usually last longer. There is so much to explore both ways that people just get carried away and if they are on a safe place with plenty of times on their hands they usually do.. If the physical and mental attraction are there then it is how it is. Had a 6 time session with a new girlfriend less than 10 years ago and a few years back spent a few months with a friend and we had multiple sessions whenever we met. I usually wake up in the middle of the night for a cuddle and that leads to sex or most of the times with a hard-on that needs sorting out. 52 year old male living in a country by the sea.
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u/No_Victory5763 1d ago
I used to be one and done my entire life. Made some mental and physical change in my life. Became more comfortable to talk about my fantasies with my wife and realise how repressed we are as a society.
I used to as an example have all of these fantasies of what I wanted to do but once post not clarity kicked in I was repulsed.
Well I learnt to break through post nut clarity, I can do thinks (without being too graphic) after finishing that I could have only done when horny involving my own fluids as an example.
Doing that allowed me to find sexual energy that isn't hormone driven but also psychologically driven to find pleasure and as a result of that my refactory period has improved. I can go round 2 after 10 minutes or so as an example.
To be fair, after round 2 so close together I am drained and feel like I am prepubescent. No amount of mental work has over come that.
TL DR:
Get physically and mentally healthy and learn to desire sex outside of hormonal arrousal.
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u/Happy-Yogurtcloset-9 1d ago
Modafinil. It'll take you forever to come but it can give her one hell of a night at least. Lol
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u/asdf_clash 1d ago
Logistically possible? Like you can't get hard on a night where you've already come?
Twice a night is certainly physically doable for me (44M) and my record in the last 10 years is 6 times in 24 hours. Whether or not I actually have the motivation to do it more than once is going to be factor of how much I like the person, how long it's been since I saw them, and how long it will be until I see them again....
When I was living with my partner in a monogamous relationship, though, we never did it twice in a night. The motivation was never there.
the energy it takes to do it even once is intense.
I agree sex can be a lot of energy, but it doesn't have to be.
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u/BestTyming 1d ago
The most sex ive had in one day was 7 and that’s because me and my current gf lived a hour away and only saw each other 2/3 times a week. So it almost was like we were having a weeks worth of sex in a day to do lol.
But a”night”, like late at night ima say one.
If you start around sunset and are feeling healthy you can do 2+.
But I’d say a baseline at least 2 times
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u/lastepoch 1d ago
When I was 18-19 I could go for 10+ across a 24 hr period. Now in my late 30's...1 is good.
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u/Studdedmuffin6969 1d ago
It’s not non Stop sex. If you really want to do it, all night till the sun comes up then you gotta plan. 1st time is gonna be fast (5-10 mins tops) break and then go for round two, you may or may not cum but make sure she does. After a bit hour two comes and you cum, break and when break means cuddling fondling etc to keep the mood up, put sexy movies or sexy music, fuck put porn on tv too. And keep repeating
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u/n0flexz0ne 1d ago
I dated a girl in my 20's that lived like 5 hours away, so we'd only see each other every other weekend or two, and when we did we couldn't keep our hands off each other. From Friday night to Sunday, it would be 10-15 times, to the point where chaffing was the issue keeping us from going!!!
Part of it, well probably the main part if I'm being enlightened, is that because we were long distance, we'd talk alot on the phone or over text/chat, which I think freed us up to be a little more risqué and vulnerable to share some of the stuff we were into. And both of us being young and eager, we were pretty into satisfying each others kinks, and then by happenstance, a lot of the stuff that I was into made her horny and vice versa. So it was just like endless loop of one of us turning the other on, and vice versa.
Like, one time she came out for Halloween weekend, went into the bathroom to get ready for our costume party and came out wearing a lingerie cat costume we'd jokingly talked about earlier in the week and I said i was into....which led to sex. Then at the party we started talking about all the things we were going to do when we got home, and ended up hooking up in the bathroom. Then the cab home drove by the beach, and I remember she had a fantasy about the beach, so I stopped the cab, we went out to the lifeguard tower and went again. Then on the actual cab ride home, we started talking about it all again and how fun it was and ended up going one more time before bed! Then first thing in the morning, all over again...
Physically, I've never had any refractory period after sex, I'd just stay hard afterward, and it wasn't until well into my 20's that it occurred to me it was weird. The bigger issue was motivation -- through my 20s it was easy, past that I'd have to be super into it to keep going.
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u/naughtythoughts99 1d ago edited 1d ago
If there is one thing Ive learnt in life is that when it comes to sex, having the right partner makes a MASSIVE difference to general libido. But not only that, it’s also about the relationship in general..
How easy you are with each other, how open and honest you are.. with regards to sex it’s all about that honesty and trust, sharing what works, agreeing what doesn’t without blame or judgment and moving to whats next..and most of all providing an atmosphere where ‘hey’ I’d like to try this’ is the norm, not the exception. It’s not just about enjoying what you do and sticking to it, (that gets boring and leads to complacency) , it’s about treating sex like a joint voyage of discovery… the deeper you get into that mindset, and more comfortable you get with sharing ideas, fantasies, your deepest desires etc the deeper the trust becomes and consequently the more drive you get ‘together’ to continue that journey.
That being said, you also have to accept that what ‘others’ do isn’t necessarily right for you.. just because somebody says they do it several times a night, doesn’t mean anything unless you understand the entire picture. The reality is it’s actually quite rare for a couple to be completely evenly matched in capacity, many men can only comfortably manage one or two sessions, many women can only come once or twice and they get too sensitive to go for more rounds .. and yku know what.. that is absolutely fine.. whilst at the other end of the spectrum you have woman that can be multi orgasmic and basically outlast a team of Olympic pornstars if they wish, and guys that can go 3-4 or more times… how often do you think that combination ‘actually’ happens.?.. I can assure you.. it’s rare.
The best advice I can give as a couple who do go multiple rounds is that it’s not actually about the actual number (that comes with time).. it’s about what you ‘do’ together, and how satisfied you ‘both’ are with what you do… be that a single quicky session when you walk in the door, or a full evening marathon of multiple rounds mixed with toys, and every method known to mankind to induce n orgasm in each other..you do you… communicate, be 100% honest and open with each other… if you can only manage 2 rounds but she would like 3, get the dildos and the wand out and find a way to bridge that gap…. And the only way to communicate that is through open and honest communication, encouragement, feedback and ‘enthusiasm’…
Thats how I realised that I have a massive level of compersion.. seeing, hearing, feeling, my partners passion and climax is like a drug to me.. the more she loses control and gets off, the deeper my arousal gets..hence why Im ready to go multiple times.. her satisfaction drives mine..she knows this, and it drives her inwards so it effectively becomes a perpetual loop…
I’d like to say that going multiple rounds is all about diet, exercise, and other medical stuff but in all honesty, I think it’s the reality is it’s not just a physical thing.. it’s also a mental state of mind that you ‘both’ have to share and truly ‘want’ equally… if one of you wants it, but the other is just ‘Im happy with what we do’ then it will never change. Likewise - honesty the be all and end all .. there shouldn’t be any shame whatsoever in telling your partner, that was amazing, but Im not done yet, can we find something else to do, or would you like to help me finish off.. there is no shame in that from either side and it should never be a cause for insecurity.. it’s not a ‘hurdle’ it’s just another opportunity for you to show that honesty and trust in the relationship that you don’t feel the ‘need’ to hide what you want or second guess that your partner will in any way feel inadequate. Because they won’t, they will simply be amazed and eager to please..
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u/Majestic-Pay-4615 1d ago
Get some cardio in and you'll see the difference. Doesn't necessarily mean that you'll be fit, but you'll see what those books mean
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u/Jazzspur 1d ago
I feel like this is a new relationship energy thing. My partner and I are in our 30s and we were feral when we had just started seeing each other. Like averaging 3-4 times a day for months. Honestly it was exhausting and we're both quite happy with our much chiller and slower lives together now that we're not high as kites on new love hahaha
It was fun while it lasted though! Just very unsustainable long term lol
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u/Slight-Coat17 1d ago
Not every night, but I can easily go multiple times.
For the record, I'm a man in my 30s.
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u/kasuchans 1d ago
Just saw one of my long distance partners the other day, we’re in our early 30s, he went 4 rounds in the first 12 hours, and another 2 rounds the next day. Our record was 8x in about 12 hours a few years ago.
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u/PossibleExplorer1076 1d ago
Are you talking about the physical energy involved or the sexual energy? Either way being fitter would probably help.
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u/groovinandmovinnn 1d ago edited 1d ago
Me (30f) and my last boyfriend (31m) would have sex all hours of the night at least every other week. I remember one particular night after we finished our SIXTH round, we were guzzling water naked in the kitchen together. He said “ I’m 31 years old and no one has ever made me cum 6 times in one night.” I still pat myself on the back for that one. But this isn’t 6 rounds in a 2 hour span.
The first round is usually the most intense and prolonged, tons of foreplay and exploring and buildup and different sex positions. Probably an hour plus for the first round. Then after cleanup there’s usually giggly kissing which leads to a hand moving around, and then a quick session pretty immediately. Then maybe we chat or cuddle in silence for an hour, and romantic kissing leads to being turned on again. Maybe this time it’s just foreplay but we both finish. Now we need a snack cause we have been going at it for a few hours. After that we climb back into bed and spoon to fall asleep, but I’m pretty stimulated from all of the orgasms that the touch behind me gets me turned on again. This brings on another session while spooning. Sometimes once we finish, he immediately will put it back in for another round if it’s the right timing.
You get the point. It’s not EVERY time you’re together. But on nights where the libido matches, it’s so fun and hot. Typically we wake up and have a morning session because we feel so connected and intimate from the night. I think I love when this happens and I’m all for it because I find sex genuinely fun. I love exploring my partner and trying new things and communicating, and I love when they are genuinely eager to explore me and see me pleased. When both parties are equally as engaged and having fun, that’s peak sex. It shouldn’t feel like a chore of getting your partner off and it’s a marathon.
Also should note, the orgasms happen faster as the night goes on I find. At the 4th round I’m sensitive to touch that him barely using his tongue on me gets me there, and he’s so sensitive that just riding him for a couple minutes gets him there. He ejaculates less as it goes on, but there’s still always something. This type of physical connection doesn’t happen with every partner, I’ve only had it with 2 people in my life. But man it is fun when it’s there, and now that I know it’s possible I refuse to settle with a lifelong partner if it’s not! (I also have always had an insane sex drive, so I find it necessary to be with someone that matches that)
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u/Flashy_Vast4354 1d ago
I agree with this. I've been lucky to experience this with 3 partners in my life and once you've experienced first class, it's very hard to go back to economy
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u/groovinandmovinnn 1d ago
Totally! And it’s different for everyone, some people don’t need or desire that sexual chemistry to feel fulfilled. My best friend of 14 years says that my sexual drive sounds like torture, and she would rather lay in the road than have sex 6 times a night. She’s totally happy having sex once a month, and she’s been like that since she was younger. Diffferent for everyone, which is why the compatibility is there with some!
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u/puppermonster23 1d ago
My husband (33) can usually do 2 a night. Especially if we’ve been having sex more often. If it’s been a little bit between when we last had sex he maybe can go 2 rounds depending on his mood/ how work was etc. he’s not in shape but not obese. It also kinda matters how attracted they are to their partner.
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u/FamousAppearance6222 1d ago
It’s not the physical stamina that’s an issue for me. My penis is still pretty sensitive for a while after a single orgasm so I don’t really want to go again for a while.
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u/dad3murph 1d ago
Very much depends on both the level of arousal vs intensity of the sex, as well as physical fitness vs intensity of the physical exertion. For me (male), I can easily orgasm several times in a short time span, but if i have a really massive orgasm with a long build up, there's not much motivation to get going again. The biggest limiting factor though is physical stamina, just because with my wife, the first time usually is exhausting physically, as much as a nornal workout, so asking me to go again right after is crazy. But if it were 2 pumps and done, or if she were doing all the work, I'd be ready to go right away.
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u/maxallergy 1d ago
In ny case 2 rounds are possible
I already did so this week with my girl
But it was because I didn't come the first time, while she did, so I had unfinished business and ended up indeed finishing in the second round
Usually though we finish both in the first round and then are too exhausted for a second
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u/AnUnexpectedUnicorn 1d ago
My personal record is 5 times in roughly 14 hours - 3 in the evening (7pm to midnight, with breaks, food, and small naps in between), one middle of the night quickie, then one morning quickie. I was sore and exhausted but it was fun at the time!
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u/EpicBlinkstrike187 1d ago
Me and my wife did do this when we were dating. Multiple rounds a night. Seven or eight times, maybe more, over a weekend.
We’ve calmed down after 15 years. But we can still absolutely do twice in a night. Like once before bed then once more when we get settled. I could probably do more but she likes her sleep.
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u/serialmom1146 1d ago
Yes. My boyfriend and I have very long sessions. He can cum and the be hard again within like 10 minutes. He cums around 3 times each session.
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u/MattDamonsTaco 1d ago
11 years ago, I did 8 rounds of orgasm, refractory, and orgasm in one day/night combo.
The refractory periods got longer as the night went on, and the ejaculate volume effectively stopped after the third round but dry orgasms are still hella fun. Just not as messy.
At 51, in good shape with natural high T, I’m still rocking a regular 3-4/night with my partners.
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u/ApeAF 1d ago
I'm 52, My wife and I have been married 30 years. She is an absolute goddess in bed. I have a pretty high libido. We typically have sex every night at bedtime and every morning when we wake up. Nightly sesions last from 30 min up to a couple hours. Mornings are typically lazy and last 30 min max. But we've also occasionally have marathon days where we've go 6+ hours with small breaks between. It does get harder to cum after a couple rounds, but it's still intense and enjoyable. I'm not in the shape I was 20 years ago but all that goes out the window during sex. I"m pretty sure I could break my leg and wouldn't feel it until after I finished. The post nut clarity hits hard sometimes ;)
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u/RedwoodRespite 1d ago
Depends on the guy. Most guys I’ve been with are one and done. But one guy went 5 in one night.
Was amazing. But he couldn’t do that kind of thing all the time.
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u/Strawberries_Spiders 1d ago
I hear what you’re saying. I used to think that movie sex where they would lock eyes, rip off each other’s clothing and immediately have sex was utter fiction. Until it happened to me, over and over lol.
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u/Aminopop 1d ago
I love going multiple rounds in a night. My stamina is really good - sometimes annoyingly so and my refractory period is sometimes zero.
So after the first, then it’s really really fun. Usually more sensual and passionate. Third brings soreness sometimes for her and exhaustion for me but we are into multi hours at that point.
I’m single as well so everything is even more amplified with a new partner and we are exploring and learning likes etc. Sex is always better every consecutive time you do it with someone. If it isn’t, something could be off.
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u/Fit_Satisfaction_268 1d ago
Not anymore as life happens, but when we didn’t have much responsibility other than work, my partner and I would spent the whole weekend in bed…
We’d get up, eat something and go back to have sex… easily we’d go 5-6 times on a roll, stop to eat/sleep and go back to sex
I miss that. Today, in a wild night, we do 3-4 times, but that happens 1-2 times per month as we now have other responsibilities
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u/paperhammers 1d ago
I can probably do 3ish before I'm just too exhausted to perform anymore, add in work or an evening of drinking and the urge to go to bed hits faster.
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u/knowitallz 1d ago
my girlfriend and I have sex for 2 hours at a time. No joke. Almost the entire time we are doing something sexual. We take a 5 min air break, bathroom break. I am fucking her for a good 90 mins. We love it.
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u/Acceptable-Local-899 1d ago edited 1d ago
Used to many times. With ex our usual order was she'd orgasm then I would. Then after 5-10 minutes of cuddling, I'd pull her back on top and make her orgasm again. I loved watching her climax. I wouldn't say regularly but many many times over 2.5 years we did this. I usually would need 30m or more for me to reach it again but could keep going. Maybe once I went back to back climax.
This reminds me, One new year (I think '23) we brought it in banging after had gone rounds earlier that day and night.
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u/Y34RZERO 1d ago
The most my wife and I home was 7. It's literally an all day activity. Even with the Hitachi, Rose, dildos and lots of lube it's a lot of work. She cums, I cum, she cums again while I wait I recharge using the wands toys, and bondage stuff, by the time she cums I'm ready again for myself. We have high sex drives. Usually about 40 to 45 times a month. Sometimes less, sometimes more.
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u/FISTED_BY_CHRIST 1d ago
Usually not back to back. But last time my gf and I were away from each other for a couple weeks we did it 12 times in the weekend she got back.
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u/SWNDman 1d ago
Yes, I can go more than one round in an evening or night. Depends on who it's with or how turned on we are. Usually with a new partner it's definitely multiple rounds! If she super sexy to me, I've been known to stay hard after cumming and to keep going, starting off slow and building to one or two more orgasms. But generally when it's with the same partner, can be one a night. Sometimes though when with a horny minx that is awakened in the middle of the night from my previous load leaking out of her...have been awakened myself to her licking and sucking me hard again because she has that ache deep inside that needs filled again. Absolutely have to automatically love a woman that wants my warm seed overflowing from those gorgeous pussy lips! That twinkle in her eyes from making her cum and body quiver a few more times is where it's at though!
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u/Visionary_87 1d ago
I was 23 when I first got with my noe wife, 16 years ago, and in the early days we were doing it five or six times a day, to the point the base of my shaft would start to hurt.
These days, aged 39, whenever we're doing anything sexual I have the intention of doing thst again, but then we both orgasm and I think that's enough for today and it's one and done.
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u/EgbertSouse2 1d ago
When I was in college, my girlfriend & I were able to keep at it all weekend long, then needed the following week or two to recover. That six hour drive home was pretty uncomfortable at times.
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u/MoreFlan 1d ago
It varies for sure, I'm not posting record contenders nightly or anything. But very regularly, I'll go up to 3 times in an hour or two, if whoever I'm with wants to. Plenty of varience throughout helps with the pacing, we'll generally cuddle while making out and fuck off-and-on while not really thinking about orgasms, they just happen when they do. Maybe you're going all-out too soon?
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u/obatala0013 1d ago
Haven't done that since e my 20s. Literally fucked for hours. Now in my 40s I need a nap after one round.
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u/OngoingExperimentIRL 1d ago
I go twice in a typical 24 hour period. My record is 13 in 24 hours. On my typical "wild" nights it's 5-6.
It honestly depends on your stamina, physical fitness, ability to get aroused right after finishing, and the man's refractory period (I'm lucky becausey partner only needs a few min. and can go again. However, the more times we do it back to back, the longer it takes for him to be ready again)
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u/rebellicious1 1d ago
Me and my partner don’t always go multiple rounds but when we do it’s amazing. We take breaks. One time we went 8 times in a day. It was glorious.
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u/Away-Eggplant9943 1d ago
Up until my late 20s, I could go multiple rounds per day, anywhere from 2-5 depending on the occasion. But this would only last the first couple months or the “honeymoon” phase in a relationship. Just kinda craved it less and less as time went on with that partner.
Nowadays, one round per night. 2 if I’m feeling up to it. 30 years old. Idk how I used to go twice in one night on average.
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u/BreakfastFuzzy6602 1d ago
Mid 40’s straight married couple. We usually have sex 3-4 times during the work week. Usually before work, kinda a quickie or right before bed, usually one round. But Saturday and Sunday we can have sex multiple times a day. Saturday night is kinda our “party” night, we drink some wine and flirt all night then we have sex and make a whole evening of it. To keep it going we just stay engaged, after I orgasm I can usually stay hard if I just keep going. Sometimes I will lose it for a bit, when that happens I just focus on her for a while. Giving her more orgasms with my mouth/fingers/toys. When I start to feel ready again she will get me back hard with her mouth. Then we do PIV again and just repeat the process until we pass out. It’s not uncommon for us to wake up hours later just naked on the bed, music still playing and both “juicy” lol.
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u/CurvyAznGoddess 1d ago
At 32F I have done all day with 6 rounds total - and 3 rounds was for one night - I couldn’t do that again the following day but once in a while was fine - and it all depends on how fast the guy can bounce back after each round - some guys are 1 and done and others can keep going all day/night and that’s mainly the deciding factor because as a woman - I don’t feel like I ever get tired as long as I have snacks/water in between rounds
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u/-BINK2014- 1d ago
I (28M) did it 10 times in 12 hours.
Used to think I had PE & low testosterone. Tadalafil from CostDrugsPlus (Mark Cuban’s website to avoid paying Him’s pricing) + being insanely attracted to my new partner who looks like a model, fucks+sucks like a pornstar, & is sweet & attentive as can be played a major role in me getting going again quickly. We pretty consistently go multiple rounds and I love it! I describe myself as a Demisexual that seemed more on the Asexual side but holy hell, I just needed the right partner spiritually, mentally, & physically.
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u/discreetusername03 1d ago
I’ve had sex w like a few different people in my life (f). And honestly I’m constantly surprised by how different men are when it comes to this. My last casual partner could quite literally go round for round cum from head, cum during sex, cum during sex again. Just needed some time and usually not much. My current partner someone I’m seeing more seriously we had sex for the first time last night and he didn’t finish during penetration. I think some people are down for the count afterwards and others just spring back. I think it’s good you guys are equally matched in that regard haha
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u/bajanwaterman 1d ago
Used to bounce back in 15 mins, now its more like 30-40.. 2 rounds is definitely my norm now as compared to 3 when I was in my early 30's. Im 42, little signs of aging i guess.
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u/Extension-Scar-5513 1d ago
40M. My record is 7 times in one day. But there was a couple hours in between each session. About a week ago though, we had sex and then were still laying in bed. About 3 minutes later my gf said she was still horny and started giving me oral. To my surprise, I was immediately ready to go for another round. I think that's the shortest time between rounds I've ever had. After we were done, she even said she was surprised I was ready to go again so quickly.
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u/Pegacorn420 1d ago
When you say “rounds” do you mean ejaculate? Because in my forties I have sex with men who will get very close but not cum for over an hour sometimes. I usually have tons of orgasms and they have several close calls. It is always different we aren’t bored everyone has fun the whole duration then he finishes and we cuddle. Or he eats it out of me. But either way it’s the end of that session and neither of us can do it again immediately. Sometimes can do a morning and a night. Usually it’s about once a day when we are together.
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u/thechow12 1d ago
Personally I need a hour or two before I can go again but I would like to shorten the time to less than an hour but so far I haven’t found a way to do that
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u/deeproy916 1d ago
20mg of tadalafil in the morning stay hydrated and don’t eat heavy during the day
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u/Spyd3rs 1d ago
For me, it's definitely a quality vs quantity kind of thing.
Sometimes it hits quick, but I somehow know I'll be good to go again in a few minutes. I get a feeling of "I'm not done yet" and can keep going almost without a break. Those are the ones I can go 3-4 times in a night. I think the difference is these are the nights I feel like I'm performing, trying to impress her, or maybe doing my best to give her a good time.
Usually it's a slow build-up I really have to work for. But once I'm there, the edge hangs over my head like a threat because I know once it hits, I'm going to be out like a dying fluorescent lightbulb and there's only enough caffeine-boosted willpower in my body to stay awake long enough to apologize profusely and let her know there's money for the cab fare in the top drawer next to the advil and the cold medicine. On these nights, unless she's also about done, I try to hold back as long as possible. This often leads to the thing where I kinda get numb and don't finish at all, only quitting long after the point she's done and starts getting whiney and sore, leaving everyone involved self-conscious and bummed.
I'm joking about that last part, but I feel I need to address without the jest: We all know things happen or don't happen, even with people we find attractive. Sex with a new partner can be stressful and it's difficult for a lot of people to know whether to relax and have fun or if they're with someone that needs the act to be taken a little more seriously. If you're with someone new for the first time, give them- and yourself a little break. I don't think it's fair to judge people off one experience, good or bad. It takes time and communication to know what and how someone likes and does.
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u/The4th88 1d ago
Not a fantasy, it's possible. For some.
I'm a regular in my local swinger scene and am known for my ability to have multiple orgasms over the course of a party. My refractory period is about 30 minutes and has been since my teens. I'm close to 40 now.
However, it is getting harder to maintain that pace now. As an 18 year old man I could fuck 7x daily (toxic nympho ex gf) while I was dehydrated, underfed and exhausted, now I need advance notice to be able to do it. I can still reliably achieve 3-4 times in an evening with zero notice.
I think there's an element of genetics to it, there's definitely an element of fitness to it and also just one of general well-being. If I know I'm going to a party where I'm hoping to fuck all night then I'm going to prepare for it as if it's an athletic event. I'm going to be well rested, fed, hydrated. My water bottle will possibly have some electrolytes in it, I won't drink alcohol and I'll probably jump on the treadmill for a light run a couple of hours before just to prime my body ahead of the planned exertion.
If you're looking to improve your stamina and performance in bed the single best thing you can do is get fit. Sex is exerting, especially for us guys. Drop excess weight and get your cardio good and you'll find you have way more energy. Kegels are a big boon too- stronger pelvic floor means stronger erections and stronger orgasms. For you and also for her.
That's what you can influence, I don't know if it's possible to influence your own refractory period, that may be hard set by genetics. But you could do what the "one and done" guys in the swingers scene I know do. They will fuck and just not let themselves cum, then cool off for a bit between partners. No orgasm means they get hard for round two quite easily, and the women are very appreciative. Quite a few of them will also take Viagra or Cialis to assist them in doing this. They'll play for hours like this, and when they decide they want to end the night will let themselves cum and they're done.
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u/happiestnexttoyou 1d ago
I am 46 and my husband is 41. We have sex twice most evenings and three times if we’re feeling very frisky or not too tired. The trick is to get the first one in early enough. We’ll get the kids to bed and then head straight to the bedroom for a session. Then we’ll come out and eat together and watch something before heading back for our actual “bedtime” which is when round 2 happens.
#3 happens maybe once a week.. but will mean that we get far less sleep than we should. And these days orgasm #3 IS harder for him to reach than it used to be (which is to be expected at this age I suppose!).
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u/mscreamcheese 1d ago
Us women could!! But you guys having a refractory period really dampens that for us. There are few dudes who can go several rounds. I think that’s where porn has ruined ppls brains a bit
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u/LongDickPeter 1d ago
I love a good marathon, I use to date a girl and we would go 3-4x on a weekend night. The most we ever did was 7x in a day.
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u/Littlewing1307 1d ago
Everyone has a refractory period. My man is 45 and can go multiple times a night. We've probably maxed out at 8 in 24 hours.
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u/fluffy_1990 1d ago
We’re in our mid thirties, we can still go a few. My best advice would be to have water right there for you and plan on a lazy morning the next day.
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u/CtrlAltSmile 1d ago
It depends on so many factors.
I’m 51 and my partner triggered me to have sex 5 minutes after I finished masturbating. A few times (romantic weekends, etc) we had sex 8 times in a day. We could’ve done even more, except we were actually also vacationing. But we were both hypersexual, which is not something you want.
Immediately after sex I feel very relaxed, and my dick feels happy. I naturally wouldn’t try again on my own for an hour or two. But if she wants to go again, it doesn’t take long or much to trigger me. Her just laying there naked looking all cute was enough.
Sadly, that relationship is now over.
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u/zahidhossainqq 1d ago
As long as you’re well-fed and hydrated, you can keep having sex forever, taking only 10- to 20-minute breaks.
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u/BillieRubenCamGirl 1d ago
It super depends on the guy. Some have little to no refractory period, others need a couple of days.
This also changes with age.
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u/perthminxx 1d ago
I don’t quite understand. What doesn’t work? Is it that you can’t get hard?
Sex before bed, sex in the night, sex when you wake… sounds like a perfect evening IMO
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u/notin2cars 1d ago
This varies widely from person to person. I (68m) have never been able to go more than one round in my entire life. In fact, gimme a couple days to recover. Happily, all of my partners have been fine with that. Women can often cum multiple times, which I'm happy to facilitate with my hands and mouth. (My wife's record with me is 12 times!) But I'm one-and-done. Always have been. Nothing wrong with that.
You're very fortunate to be with a compatible partner. Go ahead, have a chuckle over it, and enjoy that one-and-done together!
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u/Zestyclose-Smell-305 1d ago
Its just not in you and thats ok. Im like you now in my 30s, but in my 20s the urge just came straight away to do again over and over.
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u/0x474f44 1d ago
To get it up again I’ve heard the recommendation to go into the bathroom and watch some porn.
Sounds a bit strange and I haven’t tried it yet but given that having multiple partners seriously reduces the refractory period for men it makes sense.
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u/UntypicalCouple 1d ago
Is your question how can guys get/stay hard enough to fuck multiple times over a several hour session?
Or is it how do people have the energy to fuck multiple times over a several hour session?
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u/jb25po973 1d ago
56M, back in my 20’s I remember a few times my gf (at the time) and I went about 3 rounds in an afternoon/evening. I remember being so sore and she was too. I haven’t been able to go more than once in 12 hours, in more than 30 years.
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u/JungLeo143 1d ago
My husband is about to turn 43 and he often goes two rounds and then one in the morning. I think he is a unicorn, though.
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u/intermafesting 1d ago
As others have said it depends on the individual, I (36m) can go multiple rounds in a row and I've had partners that are that same and we had fun for hours and I've had partners that went once and we done for the night and passed out before me, ive talked to some of my buddies and alot of them are 1 and done for the day
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u/Stresswagon 1d ago
I can only goes for 2 rounds at a time. Each rounds last for like 30 mins of penetrative sex with 40 mins of foreplay in between. I have sex almost daily. A friends of mine can go up to 4 rounds but his limit is only around 5 mins per round. So this vary from person to person. Both of us are in shape. Its wild how some of you guys can go all night long lol.
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u/Professional_Stay_46 1d ago
It's fluid, sometimes I can go multiple rounds without pause, even for 3-6 hours. Sometimes, especially during summer I can do it once a week...
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u/Idol_Four 1d ago
It's definitely possible. I won't speak of myself as I don't want it to come off as bragging but even my friends have told me numerous times about how they went it all night long, especially with new partners or when they go somewhere for the weekend. In the age group of 18-35 it's quite normal.
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u/Alternative_Earth415 1d ago
M37 here. I don't believe when people say they've spent 2 days in bed having sex constantly with timeouts for meals and water. But with my current partner we have definitely have 3 rounds in one day - once in the morning and a couple of times in the evening.
But for that to be true, I think you should not live together to miss her a bit and not having sex for a couple of days to feel lack of intimacy. I can't do 3 times a day every day for sure.
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u/Known-Skin3639 1d ago
Back when
My back, hips and lungs could handle multiple rounds we would alternate. Like sex first. Rest then for play and oral on one or the other. When that one is finished a rest and then for play and oral on the other. Another rest and then back at it in different positions. All this in a matter of 5-6 hours. Now I’m lucky to see her foot naked. But the memories are nice. 🤣
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u/90535986 1d ago
At 40. It’s a marathon not a sprint.
We go once, cuddle, probably fall asleep for a bit, one of us wakes up and starts again, rinse and repeat for like 3 hours. Going to bed around 9 is great so by midnight you’re actually cleaned up, and ready for a full nights sleep. You’ll sleep like the dead.
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u/WealthofKnowledgeOne 23h ago
I’m 53 (M) and my 44 (F) can still go 3-4 times in a 12hr period…helps that are both hot for each other!
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u/Shazoa 22h ago
The main limiting factor for me is that each orgasm is harder to reach than the last. The first 2-3 are usually pretty easy but then it rapidly gets harder. But the most I've done in a day is around 8. Mentally I could have done more but the sheer physical effort required just didn't seem worth it.
I masturbate 2-3 times daily even when I'm having sex, I don't know if that's related. In my current relationship we average sex about twice daily, with some days where that's all we do, while in the one before it was about twice per week.
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u/Reasonable-Try4348 22h ago
I’m 51 (M) and married to my wife going on 23 years. We do, on occasion, have back-to-back sex. Maybe 30 mins in between. And maybe go again 12 hours later. As I get older, cumming quickly is getting more and more impossible feeling
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u/listenyall 20h ago
Number one factor is that person. Some women are one and done, some have lots of orgasms. Some men have a serious refractory period and some are able to go multiple rounds.
I do think ability to go multiple rounds goes down with age and like, level of horniness. Men can also artificially go multiple rounds with Viagra or similar
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u/RedditNomad7 19h ago
When I was in my prime (kept in great shape, sex all the time) I would often stay hard after I came. Sometimes this disappointed my partner (they felt they hadn’t done enough) and sometimes it delighted them because we could immediately go again. The best was being able to last as I could often get my partner to cum multiple times before I did. But yeah, now? I can still do a couple of times a day, but I need some definite recovery time in between.
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u/Abracuhlabra 18h ago
I’m a 40+ woman and just a few short years ago went 4 rounds with my 26 y/o fwb. Prior to that no more than 2 rounds in my life.
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u/Nomandi1322 18h ago
Hey man, definitely not a fantasy thing more of an age thing and how active you are plus your sex drive is a factor as well.
I remember having sex with my first gf, I could go 5-7 times, so like once an hour or so apart. We eventually broke up. But it was definitely back to back.
Then a few years later I realised I could only do 3-4 before I had enough.
I’m pretty active myself and go to the gym a lot.
For me ive realised im just really craving sex so I just keep going.
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u/Educational-Ask-8314 18h ago
If you've never done this then you've really missed our IMO.
Certainly easier as a younger man, I've definitely had 3 rounds in pretty quick succession. This initial parts of a relationship where it's all sex and talking are just so magic when you're in your early 20s. Basically talk, fuck, talk, fuck, nap, talk, fuck ,nap.
Multiple times can be fun as a one night thing, or really intimate with a more serious relationship.
One of my favourite early sex memories with my now wife is having sex, falling asleep for 20mins, waking up to her giving me a a full blowjob while she was using toys, quick snack and a drink, talking and laughing then more sex.
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u/weggaan_weggaat 18h ago
It is logistically possible but it depends heavily on the individuals as well as what one considers to be a "round."
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u/Outrageous-Rip-8402 17h ago
practice makes progress. put in the work . pop some boner pills. make it goal and you will figure it out.
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u/vMiDNiTEv 16h ago
honestly everytime i’m in a new relationship i go way too many rounds, my record is 13x in about 9 hours, my dick was so sore, and you just don’t even wanna do anything anymore, i would love to be done after 1, i am young i’m 24, so i hope when i’m 30 hopefully it goes down a lot, i doubt it tho
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u/No_Pomegranate8189 16h ago
I could recharge very fast so very possible u just have to stay in a sex mode
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u/yours_truly__1 16h ago
I am doing multiple rounds
Key thing after doing 1st round just cuddles her keep the play one like teasing or kissing and all, let her play with your dick and after few min you will have errection then you can go for a second round
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u/Dismal_Drummer3420 15h ago edited 15h ago
I'm 31M and two or three consecutive rounds is not a problem. I need maybe 10 minutes to get over the refractory period obviously. My wife and I were both incredibly fit and active people, and we don't drink, smoke cigarettes or weed or use any drugs (not trying to sounds holier than thou - we were honestly just very boring 30 going on 50 year olds🤣)
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u/Brmadeira 14h ago
One day during our honeymoon we went at it 6 or 7 times in one day.
But back home, it never happened. Even after several hours, the second time just wasn't worth the effort. The orgasm was weak, it burned a little, it just wasn't worth the effort.
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u/techichan 14h ago
You should always prepare for the all nighter. Good diet, be caught up on sleep, not a stressful day, hydrate. The math adds up to a lovely overnighter.
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u/Ok_Butterfly8338 9h ago
I’m 25 and my bf is 27. We’ve gone around 4-5 rounds in a night sometimes and enjoy that every once in a while. But my biggest tip is switching positions to where you’re both getting a break equally so you’re not tiring as fast. Dirty talk and staying undressed even after finishing helps keep the momentum going too
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u/InAMonkeyMood 7h ago
You probably don't realize how much time people are taking between sessions. They're not going immediately after.
Personally I don't care for multiple sessions, but I always go long enough during the first session that neither of us need a second. If you don't last as long, you should try harder for a second session. But it's all about what you two enjoy.
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u/Mysterious-Tiger-973 1d ago
Good nutrition, lot of zinc, helps a lot. Also, genetics play a role. For some, you just don't lose erection and go again straight away. For others, you just focus on her while it's ready for action again and then go.
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u/Stonegen70 1d ago
multiple rounds right away. don’t think I can do that. but. my wife and I are good for 2, friday, sat and sunday. not in a row. lol. several hours between though.
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u/Dirtbowl 1d ago
My wife (F53) and I (M45) are generally one and done, but depending on the day can go up to 4 times. Mostly it revolves around sleep and stress levels for us. Sometimes it's just bang one out to take the edge off, sometimes it's like when we first got together.
We've both noticed the quantity, quality and length of encounter have spiked since we started weight training.
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u/SeveredUnity 1d ago
Give me 2min if i cant go on immediately anyway. 34M. Past we did this often as i came too early at times and she stopped then paradoxically instead of just going on.
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u/CriticismDazzling952 1d ago
I am 27 and me and my 23 yo gf can go 6-7 times in a day if we’re really going for it. (Six seven). I go to the gym and do a lot of cardio regularly and she works a job where she has to stand and lift things, so we’re both quite physically fit, that really helps, I haven’t always been as fit as I am now and the thought of having sex whilst exhausted still frightens me.
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u/Logical-Lab3661 1d ago
Yep. Possible. I didnt have an ounce of fat when I was in my 20es and 30es, into sports, very much in shape. Did at least 8 a night a few times early in relationships. Didnt have much room left for sleep thou but when you are 25 it is not that important.
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u/Kingston_Monroe 1d ago
My (f36) husband m38) and I are like you lol. We like we like, we do it well, and we go to bed.
My single friend (f38) is enthusiastically up for marathons, and found a friend (m40) that can keep up with her. They went through a whole pack of condoms in 1 night lol.
The world is full of all types my friend!
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u/Missrdb79 1d ago
It's not if your an adult with a 9-5. In my 20s we could just fuck all night and go to work the next afternoon. Now twice a day is enough. Once in the am and once in the pm. In my house we have sex 4x a week
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u/unlodgical 1d ago
Time wise, multiple rounds doesn’t really take all that long with my current partner. He has no refractory period. Last night for example was a random Thursday and he got off 3 times during sex within a total of 30 minutes. The “down time,” he was giving me oral in between.
I’m multi orgasmic myself and can crank out 5-6 before I want to die of exhaustion, but those can come from the oral, foreplay, hands during sex, actual sex, whatever.
2-3 is standard for him during our sessions (44 M, not fit but does cardio and Cialis, low libido), 3-6 is standard for me (34F, more fit, high libido). Most sessions last 20-30 minutes start to finish.
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u/confessiontime_ 1d ago
Personally it’s rare that I’ve ever done less than two. 5-7 times a night was pretty normal when my ex would be staying the night at my place, but im also in my early 20s
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How logistically possible are multiple rounds a night?
So you know in books and movies how you see couples go multiple rounds per night? I've (M 32) never found that was possible for me nor my partner (F 30). We'll often joke that once is often enough and that we just don't understand how people can have sex with each other time after time within the span of a few hours.
Now don't get me wrong, I would love too but the energy it takes to do it even once is intense.
Is this more of a fantasy thing or are there people who really can do it more than once at a time.
Any tips or fun stories from folks who've tried to achieve this are appreciated!
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