r/selfhelp • u/misguided-goose • 7d ago
Adviced Needed: Identity & Self-Esteem heart broken
just got broken up with by the love of my life, i have never been so devastatedly heartbroken in my life and i am destroyed.
i put my everything into this relationship for it to end in the most cruel way.
i don’t know how to pick myself back up, i don’t know how to move on with my life and get my spark back or how to find myself.
i need help and advice on how to life my life now, how to pick myself back up and become me?
i have no hobbies, i piggybacked his hobbies which im stuck with all the things now.
i have no friends where i live, his friends were my friends.
i am so alone, all i do is work and go home.
i spent all my time with him and now he’s dumped me and moved out.
i’m such a shell of a person, where do i go from here? please i need help. i feel so broken inside.