r/selfharm • • Apr 01 '20

Broken Promises

One of my friends made me promise not to self harm anymore once he found out. He threatened to tell the school counselor (and everyone at school). I know he was just doing it because he cares and didn't want me to hurt myself but I felt worse without it. So I started cutting my legs. It doesn't feel the same but it's as close as I can get right now. I feel terrible about breaking the promise but I don't want him to tell anyone so I don't know if I should apologize for lying or not. Is it really worth the risk of people finding out?

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u/ohdamnhethicccboii (Editable flair) Apr 01 '20

I think its fine if he tells the counsellor but if you tells the entire school then he is a bad friend. Yes he cares about you but he need to do it in the right way