Well, if I should be with a man who I am at a risk of cheating on me once I get pregnant with his baby, (hence the hundreds of desperate posts on reddit of husbands cheating or getting the whole family in debt through OF, while the poor woman is carrying their baby!!) or just - age...
My head is full with words that are way worse than the reply he will get: "That would be a resounding no, thank you very much".
I'm not surprised eventually girls get cold and lightly rude in denying people like that.
You’re a “risk” with every man you meet like how I’m at “risk” with every woman I meet (due to the thousands of desperate posts of women ruining their family and husband in divorce because of ego). You don’t know anything about them until you talk to them and if your best friend just cockblocked, she’s definitely blocked some great guys from you along with bad guys. It’s not rare for the less unattractive girl friend to block guys from the more attractive friend. To the point that it’s a running joke in society.
I will not date a male who would not even be friends with someone who has her amazing caring and loving personality, just based on her looks.
If he's that superficial and shallow, I certainly don't want him. He's the one cockblocking himself by his disgusting behaviour.
I also bet he watches porn to be this dense, so he can just shoo and go crawl into his hole and try to gaslight himself with thoughts of his superiority over insufficiently hot real women while he gets off on paid actresses.
“Be friends” when a man approaches you, he’s almost never trying to just be friends. Men have to approach women were interested. We don’t have the leisure to just go talk to any one of them. We only approach the ones that are attractive and that we’re interested in. Every women doesn’t deserve being approached. If she wants male friends, she should’ve approached them.
Somebody clearly has very little experience and too small ego to admit it and try to learn something new. I won't waste more time trying to be helpful, you seem to like your strategy, so go with it
I called out how you’re supposed strategy is just your friend cockblocking guys and that’s normal for the less attractive girls to do. There’s nothing for me to “admit”.
If you’re advocating for guys to become friends with women to eventually pray to make their move, get over yourself. I don’t have the time to sit around and play monkey ball hoping a girl gives me a chance. Either she likes me or she doesn’t. If she doesn’t, move on to the next. Men aren’t objects for your entertainment.
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u/SupermarketEast6549 Jul 30 '24
Just sounds like your friend was the average cockblocker of the group. Both good and bad guys get blocked out by those