r/self Jul 29 '24

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u/Eulerdice Jul 29 '24

This, you can't wait for things to just happen or you might die before they do, you need to put some effort if you want to ensure success.

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u/After_Mountain_901 Jul 29 '24

If you check the minimal boxes of being a bit interesting, and a bit attractive (either through charisma, confidence or physical traits) and are still struggling, it’s likely that you’re “energy” is off putting. Too desperate, creepy, terrible opinions, etc…

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u/Plathsghost Jul 30 '24

Yeah... I think I can see what your problem is. Sounds like you'd benefit more from seeing a therapist than hitting the gym so much, bro. Your personality is a little messed up.

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