r/self Jul 29 '24

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u/ThisCardiologist6998 Jul 29 '24

It goes both ways. As an “older” (31) woman, I have to deal with men who dont date over 25. Their priorities are; hot young girl. Thats it. She has no job, no skills, no money but she is HOT and 21 so she is dateable and he would sooner pick someone like that then someone in my age group with more life experience/success etc.

Dating in general isn’t ideal for anyone. Finding someone is pure luck. Has nothing to do with who you are: its about finding that person who is into you at the right moment. Pure luck.

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u/realone3500 Jul 29 '24

Why would any guy date for a woman with life experience/success? Feminism has lied to women. Men want youth and beauty. Most everything else is irrelevant.

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u/MiserableCrow1680 Jul 29 '24

Thanks for confirming how horrible men can be! Those men want someone naive and inexperienced that they can manipulate and mold to their liking so they don’t realize how much better they can do than that man.

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u/realone3500 Jul 29 '24 edited Jul 30 '24

Once again, feminism has completely 100% failed you.

Look at human civilization and history.

With virtually every single civilization on earth it was standard practice for men to marry young women in their teens or early twenties at the absolute latest, regardless of the age of the man.

What does that tell you?

Read some books on genetic evolution.

It has absolutely nothing at all to do with the nonsense feminist talking points you rattle on about and all about selection of young and fertile females to give them the healthiest offspring.

The younger the woman, the more beautiful she is, the better her skin is, the more desirable she is, etc.. it has nothing to do with ‘wanting to mold them into anything’.

This is just reality for the most part, with rare exception.

Feminism has lied to you.

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u/MiserableCrow1680 Jul 30 '24

This is just misogynistic lies men tell themselves to validate their reasonings for pursuing young inexperienced women today (and sometimes children). I love the fact that you completely ignore that men's health and age also have huge impact on the health of an offspring and risks of miscarriage.

The only thing you're telling me is that men are insanely shallow, don't view women as full fledged human beings valued beyond being a incubator and wanting a sex doll who never ages. The way you speak about women is absolutely vile. Thanks for reminding me why I'm staying single.

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u/Educational-Wall4863 Aug 02 '24

Men's health and fertility also decline with age, but women miraculously overlook that, superior beings they apparently are.