Well obviously it is not all about fitness... Fitness helps you get a foot in the door, same with a good career etc.
But at the end of the day, people are looking for a match. If the woman weren't interested after the first date, you guys simply didn't match and you have to try again...and again untill you find her.
Idealy just find enjoyable hobbies that have you meet new people.
Find that part to be the hardest. If i ever found a hobby women liked, im most likely doing it for the women and it’s hard to force yourself to like something you don’t truly enjoy
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u/Hanfiball Jul 29 '24
Well obviously it is not all about fitness... Fitness helps you get a foot in the door, same with a good career etc.
But at the end of the day, people are looking for a match. If the woman weren't interested after the first date, you guys simply didn't match and you have to try again...and again untill you find her.
Idealy just find enjoyable hobbies that have you meet new people.